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You know that saying “Your 20’s are your defining decade”? Jamila, Sharon, and Vicky: three normal, but far from average twenty-something year old’s manifesting a life worth talking about. So...welcome to AFTER HOUR HAPPY HOUR, a space for real talk, guilty pleasure listens, and lmao stories. Unwind, grab a drink, and see you there! Don’t forget to subscribe, comment, and rate on Apple Podcast, Spotify and/or Youtube! Find us on our social for more chaos, we mean, updates @afterhrhappyhr www ...
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welcome to the last episode of season 4!!! can’t believe another season (and basically year) is gone, just like that 🥲 since we won't see ya'll until the new year, we used this episode to chat all things 2023: goals and themes that we had, how successful we were in achieving them, what we're prioritizing for 2024, and all the above! happy early hol…
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Surpriiiseeee, our first DUO episode ever!!! Ya'll have seen the three of us (of course) and solo eps of Jam, but never just two of us! In today's episode, Jam and Sharon take over the pod (Vicky had to miss this one) to just... chat. But we get oddly very specific about the fear of aging. Like physically aging. As in wrinkles and loss of collagen.…
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Are you a people pleaser? To some extent, everyone is at least a little bit (unless you’re a sociopath :D!!). Whether it’d be going out to a social event because a friend asked, going the extra mile at work to help a peer out, or even doing/not doing something in consideration of someone else, we all have people-pleasing tendencies. But is that goo…
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Did you lose your years to the pandemic? You’re a liar if you say no. just kidding. ish. but in today’s episode, we chat about the “pandemic skip” aka the years of 2020 - 2022 (more or less) where the concept of time genuinely feels lost, skewed, or insanely weird. No like seriously, you’re telling me that 2017 was 6 years ago and not 3??? Anywho. …
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What would you do? In today's episode, we thought it'd be fun to come up with situational questions and see how we'd answer/act (aka life is so uneventful that we're spicing it up by asking each other false scenarios : D) jk but it's also fun to see how people think!! We talked about: scenarios that might prompt you to ask your boyfriend for permis…
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What are you currently listening to? Welcome back to another monthly music sesh where we share our current fav songs as well as our opinions on the others’ choices! This month’s artists are brought to you by: Tate McRae, Olivia Rodrigo, and Denise Julia (can you guess which recs are whose 👀). We also share some music industry conspiracies and tea s…
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Why don't we want to be career girlies anymore? Today's topic is a lil revisit/pt 2 to one of our older episodes "Passion vs Paycheck" because... well let's just say, a lot has changed LOL. In today's episode, we chat all things career updates, the struggles of the current job market (no bc why are entry level positions requiring 4-6+ years of expe…
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Have you ever been love-blinded? 🤔 As in.. you’re super crazy into someone and see so much potential with them and get down bad (like real bad) and then once you’re out of it you’re like… girl wtf was wrong with you, were you okay? LOL. Weeeellll, we talk about it : D In today’s episode we chat all about the love goggles, the difference between bei…
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Do all girls think the same? (And by all girls, we mean just us 3 LOL) Today's episode is a fun lil idea we took from Jubilee's Spectrum videos where we are prompted a question or statement relevant to a specific topic, and answer across the spectrum of strongly disagrees to strongly agrees. For example, Topic: "Do all girls think the same?" Statem…
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Have you ever had a conversation with someone (new) and later find out that they thought you were being flirty/trying to hit on them (when you really weren't at all)? Well, Jam has :D And I'm sure a lot of us have experienced same same, but different incidences. So in today's episode, we chat a bit about why meaningful conversations can sometimes i…
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What are you currently listening to? Today’s music sesh is quite interesting because Vicky apparently got into screamo and Sharon got into… TWICE?????? I guess you’re just gunna have to tune in to find out how exactly that happened 🫢 and of course, we talk all things music including— taylor swift, jvke, scoups tearing his ACL bc his badonkadonk was…
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Do you believe in such thing as a platonic soulmate? Where's the line between a bestie-for-the-restie and a soulmate when it comes to friendships? In today's episode, we chat all about the concept of platonic soulmates: do we have any, do we believe that certain friends come into our lives when they're supposed to, can opposite gender friends be so…
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Can you lose your identity in a relationship? You know how (sometimes) people who get out of relationships say things like “time to find myself again?” Does that mean they lost a part of themselves in that previous relationship? 🤔 Or maybe if you find yourself dating someone who “doesn’t check the box” for a personal principle of yours, where’s the…
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Would it be of concern if the person you date previously lived with an ex (during the time they dated)? No to us, but yes to our parents apparently 🤔 In today's episode, we chat about the generational difference between our immigrant Asian parents and our viewpoints on living with a significant other prior to marriage. We talk about: why we believe…
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What do girls love but won’t ask for? 🤔 It’s no secret that girls love getting flowers from their S.O. (unless you’re bougie like jam and prefer edible arrangements instead LMAO) but what else?? And why won’t they just ask for them?? In today’s episode, we spill the tea. We even go through each of the love languages and share personal favs of each.…
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What are you currently listening to!! First music sesh of the season BABY. For all you fellow music lovers out there, tune in to our monthly ep where we react to each other's recommended song of choice and chat all things music (i.e. The Eras Tour, Jackson Wang concert, are Jennie and Taehyung dating? etc.). As always, drop your music recs in the p…
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You know how everyone talks about "life in your 20's is all about taking risks" or "why you SHOULD take risks?" Well... what if it doesn't work out? Is there such a thing? In today’s episode, we take a lil dive into the raw reality, the good and the ugly, of what it means to take risks. We chat: -How do we each define risks? -Our greatest risk(s) -…
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Welcome back to the first episode of SEASON 4, we missed you!!!!!! This was the longest break we've ever taken so it's good to be back, and hope everyone is just as excited for some new content (and to hear our voices again :')) Warming up the new season with a little catch up of the past 3 months and why we've been *less* social than usual. Let us…
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surprise!! a short episode of Jam's thoughts! work anxiety is tough and takes time to navigate through; some days are better and some days are worse but it will be fine!! szn 4 coming to you very soon! Follow After Hour Happy Hour! Spotify Podcast: spoti.fi/32Xcf7Q Apple Podcast: apple.co/2KiwOVL YouTube: youtube.com/c/AfterHourHappyHour Inst…
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How drunk are we going to get? HAPPY LAST EPISODE OF SEASON 3!! 🥂 Really can't believe we've already been doing this for three whole seasons, but here we are :') For today's final episode (no, not like final final), we wanted to drink- i mean- play "Truth or Dab," a drinking game where we tldr: tell the truth/answer the questions or DRINK. A lil fu…
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What are you currently listening to? Happy last music sesh ep of the season! Per usual, we’re bringing you each of our current fav song/artist recs of the month, sharing how we feel about them, and chatting all things music. Tune in for some new k-rnb, pop/rnb, and hip hop recs of the month! Follow After Hour Happy Hour! Spotify Podcast: spoti.fi/3…
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110 | love: how do you know you're in love? loving vs in-love? is your first love different than the rest?
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How do you know you’re in love? 🤔 Let’s just say… it’s been so long that we don’t even remember who each other’s “first loves” are L O L. In today’s episode, we thought we’d dive a little deeper into the specifics of ~looooveee~. How do we each define love? When was our first love, and were they really our first “loves?” Is there a difference betwe…
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109 | making friends in our early 20s vs mid: how are things different, friend love languages+
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Are friendships different during early vs mid 20's? Now that Jamila has officially turned MID 20s 💀💀 (happy belated bday jam!! 😚), we can talk about friendships then versus now!!!1!!1! In today's episode, we chat all about: making friends during different stages of life, what has changed, do we have more or less, love languages in a friendship, dif…
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What are you currently listening to? In today’s episode, the trio share their current fav songs/artists (we got a lil mix of edm, pop, and chinese music today : D). They also chat all things music per usual, so tune in for the latest two cents that no one asked for!! Follow After Hour Happy Hour! Spotify Podcast: spoti.fi/32Xcf7Q Apple Podcast: app…
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107 | yes or no: fate? can exes be friends? is high body count a red flag? once a cheater always a cheater?
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Yes or no? In today's episode, we decided to get YOUR majority votes on some debatable topics like: do you believe in soulmates? does the guy have to like the girl more? will cheaters always be cheaters? is your partner your "other half" or "an addition to myself?" Here's how the episode went: we polled these questions on our Instagram story (@afte…
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106 | guy vs girl friends: should you have a girl bestie? is one side "better?" do feelings get involved?
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Guy friends or girl friends? 🤔 In today’s episode, we start off by chatting all things guy versus girl friends: which do we have more of, is there a preference, are there certain situations where a guy’s opinion is more valuable (or vice versa), etc. But then we kind of veer off track.. LOL. You know, things like “has a guy friend ever developed fe…
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What are commitment issues? Girl… apparently there’s layers upon layers of what “commitment issues” can actually mean, but hey!! good thing you have us to help explain them all!!! :D (questionable on the “help” and “explain” parts but ya know) What starts as a genuinely curious question about “commitment” spirals into eight different tangents, but …
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104 | single's inferno s2: best first impressions, team jinyoung vs team jongwoo, stirring the pot +
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What are your thoughts on Single's Inferno Season 2? It's the most wonderful time of the year!! aka Netflix is back with S2 of Korea's hottest dating show where contestants are "stranded" on a deserted island where no ages or occupations can be revealed UNLESS you successfully escape to "paradise" as a couple. In today's spicy episode, the trio cha…
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How was your 2022? HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE AND THANK YOU FOR RINGING IN ANOTHER NEW YEAR WITH US!!! Hope everyone celebrated a very happy holiday season and is looking forward to this new year ❤️. In today’s episode, the trio have a little “out with the old, in with the new” conversation about how 2022 went and how they think 2023 will go. They cha…
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What is your personality when it comes to love? If the Myers Briggs (MBTI) and the 5 Love Languages tests had a baby, it would be the Nectar Loveprint personality test. Created by Jubilee Media's Nectar and Relationship Scientist, Marisa T. Cohen, the test highlights four key "prints" when it comes to love: communication (are you reflective or acti…
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Are you single, dating, or in a relationship? For the first time in…. ever (???), the trio covers all three stages of the relationship statuses— aka they’re no longer the three single musketeers!!! (That’s progress if you’ve ever seen one 😌). In today’s episode, Jam, Sharon, and Vicky share their current statuses and how it’s been in their respecti…
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100 | Pretty Privilege: does being pretty give you an advantage in life? how far can it take you?
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What is pretty privilege? [noun]: a person who has more opportunities, and becomes more successful in life because of how attractive they are. In today's episode, the trio chat all about the concept of pretty privilege: whether or not they think it exists, pretty privilege in social situations versus professional settings, if they've ever personall…
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What are you currently listening to? Starting December off with the last music sesh of 2022!! Tis the best season of the year aka Spotify Wrapped BABY! In today’s ep, the trio share their favorite songs of the month per usual, PLUS they guess and share each other’s Spotify Wrapped (see if you can guess too 😉), and of course chat about all things mu…
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Is it tough love or a toxic household? How do you know that it’s one and not the other? In today’s episode, the trio chat a lil bit of it all when it comes to family— asian parenting, mom dynamic versus dad dynamic, tough love and toxic behavior, generational trauma, and all the things :) [Disclaimer: as Vicky so beautifully said… we’re just 3 frie…
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What are you currently listening to? Welcome to the first music sesh of season 3 BABYYYYY. This month's recs from the trio include Chloe, ZAYN, 27Delly (wow no kpop for once?????) Plus, Jam, Sharon, and Vicky talk all things music: Taylor Swift's new album, BTS leaving for the military : ((, Jin's "The Astronaut" music video theory gone wrong, and …
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Hot take but... does social media suck? It kinda do be a love/hate relationship sometimes, no? In today's episode, the trio chat about how they feel about social media and how it has changed over the past couple years. What are the good aspects? The bad? Does one app in particular make them love/hate social media even more? What is social media to …
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WELCOME TO THE FIRST EPISODE OF SEASON 3 WOOHOOO we missed ya'll and it's so good to be back!! :') hope everyone had a nice lil break and is ready for us to be back in your ears~ starting off the season wiiittttthhh: what are your non-negotiables when it comes to dating? think "deal breakers," but characteristics or things that the person NEEDS to …
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WELCOME TO THE FINAL EPISODE OF SEASON 2!!! First off, thank you to each and every one of you who found us three days ago, three months ago, or have been here from the start; we love you 5ever as always :') Today's wrap of up the season will feature a Q&A from yall about: whether or not trios work, conflicts we've had, things we don't like about ea…
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Are you an S or N in the Myers Briggs personality type? 🤔 Are you someone who relies on your five senses, is more practical, and bases things off of facts or experience (S)? Or are you someone who reads between the lines, is more imaginative, and looks for deeper meaning (N)? In today's episode, the trio chat about all the two types while going thr…
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92 | Verity: team manuscript or team letter? who's the real antagonist? are they all just crazy?
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Have you read Verity? If you haven't, (1) you really should, (2) like actually, you're genuinely missing out, (3) it's Colleen Hoover bro.. (ok but no really, go read the book and then come back to this ep). Synopsis: Lowen is a struggling writer who is offered the job of a lifetime. Jeremy Crawford, husband of bestselling author Verity Crawford, h…
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91 | august favs ft SVT concert, head in the clouds, our first fight?? lauv press conference
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What are your favorites of the month? Wrapping up the last episode of the month with a good ole music sesh/august favs (ft chase atlantic, devita, and youha). This one's exciting cuz the trio also share all things Seventeen concert, Head in the Clouds festival (where they had their first fight??), Camo/JMIN tour, Lauv press conference they were inv…
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Dating friends or dating strangers? In today’s episode, the trio chat all about the concept of dating a friend (starting off as friends and eventually developing feelings) versus dating a stranger (i.e. meeting someone new through Hinge). Both work but also may not work. Both have pros but also have cons. Why? Like what? Is there one that Jam, Shar…
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How do we feel about dating apps? Tinder, Hinge, Bumble, Coffee Meets Bagel (did we miss any??) we’ve tried them all (not really but sure). The trio have chatted about dating before, but never really about the specifics of dating someone via app versus dating via not. Does it work? Is it sustainable? Preferred? What makes you swipe right/left? All …
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88 | the truth behind why we're single: our own red flags, icks, basically just roasting ourselves
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Why are we (actually) single? If you've been a loyal listener for a while, you know it's no secret that the trio is, and has been, single for who knows how long now lolololol (or are they hmmm... 🤔). BUT, Jam, Sharon, and Vicky have yet to share the truth behind why they (for the most part) CHOOSE ish to be single... ish (you'll get it LOL). They r…
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Is your 20s your defining decade? Well... that's what this podcast's bio says... but how much of that does the trio actually believe? In today's episode, Jam, Sharon, and Vicky chat about the truth behind their 20s: early 20s vs mid 20s vs what they think late 20s will be like, best/worst things about this decade, which stage they prefer, and more.…
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86 | what causes jealousy in a friendship? relationship? are attention seekers jealous people?
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Are we jealous people? In today’s episode, the trio chat all things jealousy: have we ever been jealous of each other? In friendships? What about relationships? When is jealousy triggered? Is being jealous worse than being envious? If you like attention, does that mean you’re easily jealous? Lots of questions amirite?? Tune in to hear all things sp…
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Does bro code apply the same for girls? “Bros before ho*s” “curls before girls” you know the saying.. but do those same “bro” codes translate to “girl” codes? In today’s ep, the trio go through a list of bro codes (link below) and answer from a girl’s perspective (you’ll get it). Let Jam, Sharon, Vicky know if you agree w their logic. Happy listeni…
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84 | what do girls think about PDA, double texting, noticing EVERYTHING about them; is it CUTE or CREEPY?
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Cute or creepy? You know how there’s certain things that guys might do that us girls can see as either cute or creepy? Liiike persistent texting, staring (or admiring) at you, PDA, etc. In today’s ep, the trio chat all things cute or creepy aka once again, jam and sharon are in the presence of Vicky’s psychoanalysis and utter disgust for men LMAO j…
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83 | June Faves: Suga, Sabrina Claudio, pH-1, kdrama tropes, stranger things + life updates bc why not
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What are your favorites of the month? Another wednesday, another music sesh 😌 (if you’ve been here a while, you can 10000% match the trio to their artist recs of the week: Sabrina Claudio, pH-1, Suga). Plus, Jam, Sharon, and Vicky share random other favs of the month *ahem Stranger Things S4 Volume 1 <3333333* Happy listening! Make sure to subscrib…
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What are your irrational fears? (Bonus points if you can correctly match these three fears to us: solitary confinement, balloons, and cruises/open water) In today's ep, the trio chat all about their irrational fears which pretty much just turned in to them sharing all types of fears. Let Jam, Sharon, Vicky know if they missed anything you might be …
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