Manage episode 301946192 series 2915745
I Couldn't Believe She Was Using Me! Is Your Ex Using You?
Clay Andrews shares a personal story about his ex and answers the question: Is your ex using you or not?
Do you think your ex is using you or stringing you along? Leave a comment and let me know.
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If you're trying to get your ex back, you may wonder if they are potentially taking advantage of your desire to use you and string you along.
...You know, so that they can have their cake and eat it too.
Of course, this is a disturbing thought to have. But is it true?
This is a difficult question to answer, because I obviously don't know your ex personally. I can't say if they have it in them to use you or not.
However, in my experience, most people's ex's are not wicked people who would intentionally go out of their way to use you. What is much more common is that they are probably just confused and uncertain about what they want.
They're trying to figure out their own complex and overwhelming life, just like you are.
At least that's my best guess about where your ex is at and why they sometimes seem to be using you.
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