This Podcast will discuss the stress, coping and real issues of caregiver burnout. It will focus on personal current life experiences. These discussions will not be sugar coated but will be in real time as it happens. Eventually, (hopefully) a support group will develop.
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Dementia Caregiver Support for Christians: Tips for Alzheimer’s & Dementia Caregivers to Manage Stress, Prevent Burnout & Handle Difficult Behaviors
Lizette Cloete, Christian Dementia Coach
Are You a Christian Caregiver Overwhelmed by Dementia or Alzheimer’s? Find Faith-Based Support and Real Solutions. Dementia caregiving is overwhelming, exhausting, and emotionally draining—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. If you’re struggling with caregiver stress, burnout, difficult dementia behaviors, family conflict, or making major care decisions, this podcast equips you with practical, faith-driven strategies to make dementia care easier, less stressful, and more peaceful. Thi ...
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What do you do when your loved one with dementia looks at you… and calls you their friend instead of their sister? It’s a moment that feels like a punch in the gut. But what if how they feel with you matters more than what they call you? In Episode 244, we explore the heart of relationship-centered dementia care—focusing on emotional connection ove…
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Dementia caregiving often begins where the world tells us to start—with the diagnosis, the symptoms, and the stress. But what if we’ve been starting in the wrong place all along? In Episode 243, we explore how Christian caregivers can shift from the medical model of dementia care to a relationship-centered, biblically grounded approach—one that bri…
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Have you ever felt confused—or even frustrated—by your loved one’s fluctuating clarity? One day, they seem mentally sharp and engaged. The next, they can’t follow a simple conversation. What’s going on? In Episode 242, we explore why cognitive decline in dementia isn’t a straight line and how you can respond with wisdom, compassion, and a biblical …
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When we think about dementia caregiving, most of us focus on checklists, medications, behavior changes, and coping strategies. But what if we’ve been approaching it all backward? In Episode 241, we begin a powerful new series that offers a biblical foundation for caregiving. This isn’t just about managing daily tasks—it’s about understanding who Go…
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What do you do when your world changes in the blink of an eye? In Episode 240, we hear a deeply personal story—one that many caregivers quietly fear but few feel prepared for. After months of navigating medical decisions, doctor visits, and emotional stress, the host’s mother passed away suddenly during what was supposed to be a routine procedure. …
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What do you do when the unexpected becomes your reality? In Episode 239, we hear a deeply personal and emotional reflection on the recent passing of Lizette's mother. This episode is not just about grief—it's about how preparation, emotional clarity, and faith in God’s sovereignty can carry a caregiver through one of the most difficult moments of t…
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As a Christian caregiver, you may feel torn between honoring your aging parent and taking care of yourself. The guilt runs deep—especially when it comes to spending your parent’s money on paid care. In Episode 238, we hear from Jamila, an only child caring for her 96-year-old mother. Her question is one many caregivers silently carry: “Is it okay t…
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Have you ever heard your loved one say, “This isn’t my home,” or “I want to go home”—even while they’re sitting in the house they’ve lived in for years? If so, you know how painful, confusing, and even heartbreaking that moment can be. In Episode 237, we meet Martina, a spousal caregiver in the Philippines, who asks a question many Christian caregi…
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Is moving your aging parent into your home the best way to care for them—or could it cost you your health and marriage? In Episode 236, we walk alongside a caregiver caught in one of the most emotional crossroads many Christians face: the desire to honor their parents while also protecting their marriage and family. It’s a raw, real coaching conver…
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Can the way you speak to your loved one make dementia caregiving harder or easier? Absolutely. Many caregivers believe their role is to keep their spouse happy at all costs—but what if that very mindset is making things more stressful? In Episode 235, we explore a real-life coaching session with Thomas, a husband caring for his wife of nearly 50 ye…
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Are you waiting for a definitive diagnosis before making a plan for your loved one’s care? Many caregivers feel stuck, holding off on decisions until they “know for sure” what’s happening. But the reality is, waiting can mean missing valuable time to take proactive steps. In Episode 234, we explore a real-life coaching session with Jodi, a caregive…
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When a parent starts showing signs of dementia, many families assume that someone else will step up to take care of them. But what happens when no one does? We walk through a real-life coaching session with Jodi, a long-distance caregiver facing the reality of her mother’s cognitive decline. Her biggest challenge? Figuring out who will take on the …
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232. How to Transition Your Loved One with Dementia Away from Independent Medication Management
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One of the hardest parts of dementia caregiving is knowing when to step in—especially when it comes to medication management. Your loved one may want to stay independent, but as mistakes happen, safety must come first. We dive into a real-life coaching session where Shauna, a dementia caregiver, faces the difficult transition of taking over her mot…
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Do you ever feel like your brain is just done? The endless choices in caregiving—what to cook, how to respond, when to step in—can leave you mentally drained. This exhaustion is called decision fatigue, and it’s one of the biggest burdens of dementia caregiving. We explore why decision fatigue happens, how it affects caregivers, and the biblical an…
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When caring for a loved one with dementia, our instinct is often to correct, guide, or keep them on track. But what if the best way to connect wasn’t about following the rules—but breaking them? In Episode 230, we explore how letting go of structure and embracing playfulness can create meaningful moments of joy, connection, and peace in dementia ca…
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As a dementia caregiver, you’re constantly making decisions. Should you spend more time with your loved one, invest in outside help, or find ways to conserve your energy? Every choice has trade-offs, and prioritizing the wrong thing can make your journey harder. Lizette explores the reality of these trade-offs and how to decide what’s best for your…
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228. How to Finally Get the Sleep and Dementia Caregiver Support You Need So You Don't Burn Out
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Caregiving for a loved one with dementia is physically and emotionally draining. Many caregivers reach the end of the day utterly exhausted, yet still find themselves staying up late just to enjoy a little peace and quiet. But when rest feels out of reach, how do you reclaim it without guilt? Lizette walks us through a coaching session with Irene, …
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The 4 D’s of Dementia Caregiving: Do, Delay, Delegate, or Delete Dementia caregiving can feel like juggling too many responsibilities at once. The pressure to do everything can lead to stress, exhaustion, and burnout. But what if there was a way to simplify your caregiving responsibilities and focus on what truly matters? Lizette introduces the 4 D…
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One of the hardest realities of dementia caregiving is realizing that logic doesn’t work. No matter how many times you explain, reason, or correct—your loved one’s brain processes information differently. So how do you handle repetitive questions, confusion, and nighttime anxiety without frustration? Today we explore how shifting your approach can …
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Dementia caregiving is not something anyone asks for, yet many caregivers find themselves in the role unexpectedly. Whether you're a spouse, an adult child, or a family member stepping in, the truth is clear: you didn’t cause your loved one’s dementia, but now it is your reality. Today we unpack the emotions, struggles, and faith-based encouragemen…
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Dementia caregiving is a journey filled with uncertainty, emotional highs and lows, and overwhelming moments. But what if you could recognize patterns and respond with confidence instead of frustration? Today we explore a live coaching session where a caregiver learns how to manage emotional struggles, reduce stress, and approach caregiving with fa…
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Dementia is often described as a long goodbye—an extended separation that slowly takes away the person we love. But as Christians, we know that death, even with dementia, is not the final word. Today we explore what Scripture says about death, suffering, and the eternal hope we have through Christ. The good news? Death doesn’t win. If your loved on…
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What happens when you’re caring for someone who isn’t your responsibility? For many caregivers, the role wasn’t something they planned—it was something they stepped into out of love, obligation, or necessity. But when does helping become a burden that affects your own well-being? In this episode, we explore how to set boundaries, find alternative s…
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Stepping in to help a loved one with dementia isn’t always straightforward—especially when you’re supporting a brother-in-law, a sister, or another relative without being their primary caregiver. How do you offer real, meaningful help without overstepping? We explore how caregivers can navigate complex family dynamics while providing essential supp…
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220. When Family Isn't On The Same Page In Dementia Caregiving: A Unique Perspective You Need to Know
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Caring for a loved one with dementia is already challenging, but what happens when family members don’t agree on the best approach? Disagreements over care responsibilities, living arrangements, and medical decisions can cause stress and frustration. In this episode, we explore how to navigate family conflicts, communicate effectively, and find pea…
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Dementia caregiving can feel like juggling too many priorities at once, often leaving caregivers overwhelmed and unsure of the next steps. In this episode, we get a front-row seat to a live coaching session, offering practical strategies to help caregivers manage day-to-day challenges while staying focused on what matters most. Throughout the episo…
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As a caregiver, you may find yourself overwhelmed with decisions about what’s best for your loved one with dementia. Is it time for palliative care, hospice, or memory care? In this episode, we break down these options, their differences, and how to make informed decisions that prioritize both your loved one’s comfort and your peace of mind. This e…
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Caring for a loved one with dementia often means navigating challenging behaviors and emotional moments. But what if those behaviors, often labeled as "challenging," are actually normal human responses magnified by communication gaps? In this episode, we tackle real caregiver questions about controlling anger, managing paranoia, and determining whe…
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216. Unusual Strategies: What You Need to Know When Your Caregivers Cause Dementia Aggression
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Caring for a loved one with dementia often means facing unexpected challenges—from outbursts to navigating paid caregiver dynamics and difficult decisions about medication. In this episode, we walk through real-life caregiving scenarios and highlight the importance of creating personalized care plans, understanding triggers, and balancing support w…
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When caring for a loved one with dementia, you may encounter behaviors that seem confusing or unsettling—like paranoia or delusions. How do you respond when your loved one truly believes something that isn’t real or becomes fearful without reason? We discuss the differences between paranoia and delusions and offer faith-filled strategies to help ca…
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Dementia caregiving can feel isolating and overwhelming, especially when you’re navigating loss, change, and uncertainty. In this episode, we hear powerful stories from caregivers who share their experiences of finding strength, comfort, and practical support through a faith-based caregiving community. This episode is a reminder that you don’t have…
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Communicating with a loved one with dementia can feel like learning a new language. The usual ways we reassure and converse may no longer work as their cognitive world shifts. In this episode, we dive into meaningful communication strategies that help caregivers connect with their loved ones, avoiding frustration and honoring the truth in compassio…
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As we welcome 2025, many of us are reflecting on how we can make the year ahead better. For dementia caregivers, the question takes on a deeper meaning: how can you manage caregiving challenges while finding peace, joy, and purpose in the journey? In this special New Year’s episode, we explore practical strategies, grounded in faith, to help caregi…
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Have you ever wondered why your loved one with dementia suddenly isolates themselves or acts differently? In this coaching-style episode, we explore the importance of uncovering patterns and triggers behind dementia-related behaviors. By becoming a “dementia detective,” caregivers can better understand the “why” behind the “what” and create a safer…
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The Christmas season often brings both joy and challenges, especially for dementia caregivers. How do you balance celebrating this special time while ensuring peace and simplicity for your loved one? In this heartfelt episode, we explore how to center Christmas on Christ, simplify traditions, and create meaningful memories, even during a caregiving…
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Have you noticed your loved one with dementia having outbursts or aggressive responses? Do you feel like you're constantly walking on eggshells around caregivers or family? In this episode, we explore why these behaviors happen and practical strategies to address them, so you can navigate this journey with confidence and faith. Caregiving is overwh…
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Have you ever told your loved one they have dementia, only to be met with anger or disbelief? It’s one of the most challenging situations caregivers face—trying to explain something their loved one simply can’t understand. In this episode, we uncover the concept of anosognosia—a condition where the brain doesn’t recognize the reality of cognitive d…
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Do you ever feel frustrated when caring for your loved one with dementia? It’s easy to forget that their brain no longer processes information the way it used to. In this coaching episode, we explore how adjusting expectations and understanding your loved one’s cognitive reality can help you manage frustration and improve the caregiving experience.…
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Caregiving for a loved one with dementia can feel like navigating an emotional maze without a map. How do we find strength when challenges keep piling up? In this special episode, real caregivers from around the world share their heartfelt struggles, victories, and the game-changing role their Christian faith plays in their journey. Are you feeling…
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Have you ever thought about how many decisions go into something as simple as brushing your teeth? For dementia caregivers, these micro-decisions highlight the challenges their loved ones face daily. In this live coaching session, we explore practical strategies to help caregivers support loved ones with cognitive impairments while maintaining thei…
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One of the most challenging aspects of caregiving is telling your loved one they have dementia. How do you approach such a sensitive subject with love and clarity, especially when denial or lack of awareness plays a role? In this episode, we address this question and offer compassionate guidance rooted in both practical wisdom and faith. Are you st…
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Caregiving is a journey of constant learning, adapting, and advocating. In this special live coaching session, we hear from Vicki, a caregiver for her husband, Bob, who faces Parkinson’s and cognitive challenges. Her story reflects the resilience and resourcefulness required to navigate the complexities of caregiving while leaning on faith and comm…
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As Thanksgiving approaches, how can you cultivate gratitude even amidst the challenges of caregiving? In this special episode, we explore how Christian caregivers can embrace thankfulness in their role, drawing from Scripture and a Kingdom-focused perspective. This Thanksgiving, consider what it means to be a caregiver from a Kingdom-focused perspe…
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Have you ever thought about how you view dementia caregiving? Is it a challenge to overcome or an emotional struggle that tests your faith? In this episode, we explore how caregiving can be both an obstacle to tackle and friction that shapes your spiritual growth. So, which is caregiving for you right now: an obstacle to solve or friction to overco…
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How do you navigate the emotional and physical challenges of caregiving when life throws you unexpected storms? In this episode, we hear from Cheryl, a caregiver facing not only the demands of caring for her mother but also the aftermath of a hurricane that disrupted her life. Through a live coaching session, we explore practical tips and faith-bas…
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What do you do when caregiving feels overwhelming, and every task is met with resistance or uncertainty? This episode offers real-life insights from caregivers navigating the complexities of dementia caregiving during a live “Ask the Dementia Coach” session. Through practical advice and faith-centered guidance, we learn strategies to help caregiver…
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Have you ever wondered how faith can reshape your caregiving journey? This episode marks the one-year anniversary of the podcast and serves as a heartfelt reflection on its growth, mission, and vision for the future. Rooted in Ecclesiastes 3, we are reminded that there is a time for everything, including the sanctifying journey of caregiving. Are y…
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What does it take to navigate the ups and downs of caregiving with faith and resilience? In this episode, we hear from Tracy, a caregiver balancing the demands of caring for her aging mother. Through a live coaching session, we explore the emotional struggles, practical challenges, and spiritual growth that come with caregiving. Are you a caregiver…
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Ever wonder what it truly feels like for your loved one living with dementia? In this episode, we explore the sensory and cognitive challenges they face daily through an eye-opening dementia simulation experience. By understanding these challenges, caregivers can adapt communication strategies to better support their loved ones. Living with dementi…
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195. How To Know If You Are Dementia Caregiving By Default Or By Design? Support For Caregivers
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Have you ever considered that there might be two ways to approach caregiving—either by default or by design? In this thought-provoking episode, we discuss the importance of intentionality in dementia caregiving. Are you reacting to daily challenges as they come, or are you actively shaping your caregiving journey with purpose and planning? Understa…
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