Licensed Clinical therapist with 10+ years of experience treating individuals, families and couples navigating through the challenges of relationships, identity and life changes. Helping humans do relationships better with boundary setting and improved communication.
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I help you stop dating emotionally unavailable people and start dating yourself.
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Hi there! Welcome to the Treasured Ministries Podcast and YouTube Channel, where we talk about Conquering Codependency God's Way. My name is Aliene Thompson and I am your host, the executive director of Treasured Ministries International, the creator of the Nourish Bible Study Method and the founder of the Treasured Tribe, an online community for women. For years, I was unaware of my codependency because it flew right under the radar of my confused Christianity and controlling tendencies to ...
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Wife On The Rocks I Gaslighting, Addiction, Codependency, Al Anon, Alcoholism, Recovery
Christian Alcoholism Relationship Coach, Crisis Parenting Coach
Did you marry the man of your dreams, only to now find alcohol seeping into every part of your family? As a woman of faith, committed to your vows, do you struggle to walk out your convictions amidst the chaos and confusion that has devastated your marriage? Do you wish you had someone to confide in without judgment, consequences later or let’s be honest, hearing the worst advice EVER from well meaning people? Despite your relentless efforts, do you feel betrayed, stuck in a cycle, praying f ...
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codependency neurosis, drug addictions And Life Experiences Talks By Ernie Figueroa
Ernie Figueroa
addictions toxic relationships letting go detachment attachment, and the conected paterns of Addiction My life experiences with all these. Ernie-figueroa i am not a therapist i am a guy who lived through hell and back and i am telling my story
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Do you want to create substantial change in your life and explore relationships in a brand new way? If you struggle to find the language for a relationship you’re navigating, or are seeking more loving relationships with yourself or others, this podcast — and the stories within each episode — is for you. Enter: Healing Codependency with Erika Wright, a six-part deeply personal podcast series that offers intimate insight into six core turning points throughout Erika’s life that made her who s ...
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The Lilli Bewley Podcast | Self love, Self-Compassion, Trauma, Abuse, Codependency, Relationships
Lilli Bewley
This is a space where we talk about personal growth & development. We sometimes talk about hard things but we always talk about human things. We are here to breakdown, breakaway, & breakthrough emotional trauma so we can stop overthinking, get unstuck, & improve relationships. Lilli is a speaker, healer, author & coach based in Phoenix, Arizona with clients all over the world. Her biggest challenge came when her past trauma & abuse met her in real life & her crowning personal moment came whe ...
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Today, we are talking about compartmentalization experiences and emotions. It is sometimes helpful, if not necessary, to put those aside to continue carrying on through life, especially when those things are challenging. #compartmentalize #mentalhealth #gettingthrough #wholeself #feelingsDi S Aschenbrenner
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Ep 17 Recovery of Your Family Begins With YOU! Combatting Childhood Trauma From The Trenches.
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In this powerful episode, Recovery of Your Family Begins With YOU!, I share a story I heard in Al-Anon that stopped me in my tracks—a story that helped me see how my efforts to “smooth things over” in a home affected by alcoholism were actually hurting more than helping. Children don’t need everything to look okay. They need someone who is okay—som…
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Codependency makes love bombing hard to detect which can lead to unhealthy or even abusive relationships. But with God, you can walk wise and build healthy relationships. Love bombing is an attempt to influence a person with excessive attention and affection in order to manipulate and results in unhealthy or even abusive relationships. Watch this C…
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In this episode, I share two hacks for allowing more abundance into your life.
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Today, we are talking about Surrender and how helpful it is to just sit down sometimes. We are all dealing with so many things. It feels like overwhelmed, frustrated, sad, angry, afraid, and exhausted. One of the only ways to get through really hard times is to take a moment to surrender. Not give up, but slow down. Take care of your basic needs, b…
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Ep 16 Parenting Through The Dysfunction Of Alcoholism: How Do I Lead My Kiddos? ACOA Al Ateen Al Anon
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Send your questions to the show! hello@wifeontherocks.com Our kids are looking to us for guidance on how to navigate all of this. They can get caught up in the confusion and the family disease of alcoholism. As the wife of an alcoholic and the momma to these souls, and future ACOA members what can you be doing to help them to get through this too!?…
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The impact of alcoholism on me was IMMENSE! However, my kids were experiencing all of this too through the littlest eyes and innoent hearts! I did not used to know how to lead them through all of this! Addiction really impacted our family! I have learned SO many tools and nuggets of wisdom over the years that helped me to navigate what our family w…
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Today, we are talking about the different mindsets. How we look at the world depending on our attitudes, beliefs, feelings, thoughts, and assumptions. We get to choose how we move through challenges by shifting our mindset or perspective. #mindsetmatters #intention #assumptions #experiencesDi S Aschenbrenner
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If you’ve ever found yourself constantly giving, endlessly fixing, or pouring into others while secretly feeling empty inside… this message is for you. Today, we’re uncovering a truth that every codependent heart needs to hear: the path to healing doesn’t start with doing more—it begins with learning how to receive. And not just from anyone… but fr…
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Ep 14 Being Married To An Alcoholic is SO Lonely! Who Can You Talk To As The Trauma Piles Up?
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Tune in to hear ONE thing that God taught me during this painful lonely season. Being married to an alcoholic who thinks that everything is FINE is SO frustrating! Active addiction is exhausting. AA says that Alcohol is "Cunning, Baffling and Powerful" and it is SO True. The one person that I wanted to talk to was the one person who was also hurtin…
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Today, we are talking about generational trauma. We can look back though our family lineage and see pattern of behavior. In order to change things for the better, it is important to understand context, history, and then makes changes in our own behavior. #generationaltrauma #knowoyourhistory #makeschanges #lessonsfromyourmother…
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Ep 13 The Sobriety, Recovery, Relapse Cycle of Addiction is EXHAUSTING! One Practical Thing You Can Do Now!
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Today hear the ONE thing I did that helped me to start leaning on those that God had placed in my life. To bear someone else’s burden is a powerful expression of love and compassion, reminding us that we are not meant to walk through life alone. I needed friends and family to support myself and my children and ultimately my husband through this mes…
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In this episode, I share an easy 4 step process (with other helpful tips) to help you resolve any conflict within a relationship you face so you can both grow together.
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Today, we are talking about judgement and how we are perceived. Sometime we need to check our own behavior and often we need to check who is doing the perceiving. We might need to change our environment to one where we can be our most authentic selves. #judgement #findyourpeople #selfawarenessDi S Aschenbrenner
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In this episode, I breakdown why it feels so impossible at times to walk away from a particularly toxic relationship and what to do about it.
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Connect with me at hello@wifeontherocks.com When the confusion and gaslighting are a normal way of life in your alchoholic marriage, and life is flying at you so fast, it is so hard to even recognize where to begin setting BOUNDARIES. Today I share my top foundational boundaries to begin with. Setting boundaries is never an easy task when addiction…
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Today, we are talking about emotional the stories we tell ourselves that keep us stuck. It is helpful to see, feel, and let go of those emotions. Healing and growing from those challenging things we have experienced. Releasing the things that no longer serve a purpose in the present version of you. #emotionalbaggage #lettinggo #movingforward #menta…
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One of the biggest hidden roadblocks to healing from codependency is unprocessed grief. Until we grieve our losses, they will continue to hold a grip on our hearts, leading us to repeat unhealthy patterns in relationships.In today’s episode of Conquering Codependency God’s Way, we’ll explore: Why grieving is essential for breaking free from codepen…
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Connect with me at hello@wifeontherocks.com Lying about drinking is SO COMMON in alcoholic marriages! Christians are not immune to the lying and gaslighting! Have you experienced this? I never want to accuse someone of doing something, but if the proof is there it is SO CONFUSING for us as wives! Send me your QUESTIONS! hello@wifeontherocks.com Wan…
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Today we are talking about imposter syndrome. Often when we achieve big things we can often feel undeserving. It is an opportunity to validate previous versions of ourselves who did the hard work to get to us into those spaces. #deserving #impostersyndrome #hardwork #generationalhealingDi S Aschenbrenner
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Our spiritual inheritance is a divine gift, but it does not make us immune to the enemy’s schemes. Even the strongest believers can be tempted by bribes that sabotage their birthright—just as warned in Deuteronomy 16:19.In the realm of co-dependency, these bribes often come disguised as love—especially in the form of love-bombing, an overwhelming f…
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Are you ready to conquer codependency and step into your God-given purpose? In this first part of our new series, Let the Lion Roar, we’ll develop inner strength, overcome codependency, and live boldly as God intended. Join Aliene Thompson, the president of Treasured Ministries International, as she shares biblical insights and her personal journey…
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Ep 10 Should I Stay in My Alcoholic Marriage? Should I Leave My Alcoholic Marriage? I Thought About This ALL The Time!
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Connect with me at hello@wifeontherocks.com It is the ultimate question! Join me as I pour out my heart on this topic that often took me captive and ran through my head on repeat! I didn't want to have to make an impossible choice! Do you find yourself thinking about these two options and trying to decide what to do? This is VERY common!! If I stay…
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Today we are talking about resilience; the space from now knowing to knowing It can be uncomfortable and create anxiety. It can also create an opportunity to learn new skills and building trust in ourselves. #resilience #nowknowing #trustyourself #skillbuildingDi S Aschenbrenner
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Today we are talking about getting though. Because right now, that's all we can manage. Make sure to do the big three: sleep, diet, and moving your body around. Taking care of you takes grace and compassion. #gettingthrough #giveyourselfgrace #roadtrips #goingthoughhellDi S Aschenbrenner
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“ I feel like his mother!” Did you get married expecting a spouse and a life partner? Do you need someone to lean on and instead end up picking up all of the slack PLUS handling his stuff too? Are you struggling with conflicting thoughts on how to navigate these feelings? We will dive into the reasons that I believe contribute to this dynamic espec…
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Today we are talking about conflict. Understanding how you fight and what you're feeling. Also, coming back to the conversation is necessary. #conflict #redlipstick #communication #understanding #rulesofengagementDi S Aschenbrenner
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Today we are talking about anger. It is often said that anger is a secondary emotion. What is under the anger is usually fear, sadness, feeling disregarded, or not enough. Allow space to figure out what the feeling is. #anger #selfawareness, #70skid #genx #unhelpfulreactions #parentingDi S Aschenbrenner
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Today we talking about validating and accepting our whole self. The phrase hay comida en la casa, meaning we have food at home. When we love our whole self first, we don't need to work as hard to get love from other people. #bridgetjones #haycomidaenlacasa #loveyourselffirst #lx2codependencycoachingpodcast…
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Ep 8 Needing Consistent Support? Feeling Defeated? 3 Supportive Resources NEAR YOU for Wives of Alcoholics!
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Connect with me at hello@wifeontherocks.com QUESTIONS? Submit your question to the email above and listen for a response on the show. Do you attend meetings already? If not, why? What options are even out there? What are the barriers you face? There are so many resources for us wives and I want to share a few with you today! Do not walk this journe…
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Today, we are talking about seeing our struggles as character flaws. We often assume when we are struggling that something is wrong with us. It's not but that is how it feels. Shift the perspective to trusting yourself. You have gotten this far and you will get past this too. You are not broken. #characterflaw #mentalhealth #trustyourself #greatnes…
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Ep 07 Praying Your Husband Will Choose Recovery This Year? Tips To Support the Pre-Recovery Stage!
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How to support ideas of Recovery in the New Year! Did your husband mention a New Years Resolution to cut back drinking? Are you praying he will walk into REVOVERY this Year? Do you wish he would make some kind of a commitment for change? Anything would give you hope at this point!! Tune in to hear how you can support recovery and future conversatio…
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Are you ready to break free from codependency and embrace the freedom found in God’s plan for your life? In today’s episode of Conquering Codependency God’s Way, we’ll explore how God uses storms in our lives to strengthen our faith and lead us toward deeper dependence on Him.Using the powerful story of Peter walking on water, we’ll dive into how f…
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Today, we are talking about intellectualizing versus feeling in the process of growth. We process lots of information through out thoughts before allowing ourselves to feel it. It is important to be aware of the old narratives and stories we are using when we process. Growth and healing comes from allowing the stories to change. #newyear #change #f…
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Ep 06 Are You Exhausted in the Chaos of Addiction? 3 Tips for Biblical Rest and Renewal God’s Way.
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Are you exhausted? The fallout can be immense after holidays or special occasions. I believe we experience this at a higher and deeper level in marriages struggling with addiction and its impact on our families! Join me for some tips to get the rest and renewal you need in impossible situations. What can Biblical rest and renewal look like in a fam…
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Are you struggling with codependency and longing for true freedom? Discover how to embrace temporary discomfort, set healthy boundaries, and follow God’s calling to live a life of purpose and freedom. With insights from 1 Peter 4:1-4, Eileen offers biblical wisdom, personal stories, and practical steps to help you navigate the healing journey and f…
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What do we do with all of these emotions that hit us and create a storm of heaviness? The Bible gives us some direction on this topic and as a gift from me to you, tune in to hear my heart for you my sweet friend. The creator of the universe LOVES you! Connect with me at hello@wifeontherocks.com Send your questions to the show! Holiday Survival Gui…
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Today we are talking about being wrong. How being wrong is a good place to be because it gives us a different perspective. We can learn a lot when we are wrong. #beingwrong #scientific method #relationships #bestintentionsthebook The podcast I was listening to was 10% Happier with Dan Harris and Sharon McMahon…
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What will you do if your husband drives intoxicated? How can you protect your kids from the impacts of alcoholism if things get out of hand? Do you have a plan of how to walk through this valley and make it through these next few weeks? Connect with me at hello@wifeontherocks.com I would LOVE to hear from you. Send a question to the show and you ma…
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Today we are talking about plans and adjusting to those plans. Addressing the anxiety and discomfort that comes from changes to our plans. #planning #anxiety #controlwhatyoucan #attachments #trustyourself.Di S Aschenbrenner
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Today we are talking about perception. How we are perceived in the world around us and how we perceive the world around us. #change #perception #bestintentionsthebook #socialmedia #concretekulture https://www.etsy.com/shop/ConcreteKultureDi S Aschenbrenner
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Ep 03 Navigating Drinking Culture? Hint- Alcohol is Normalized EVERYWHERE!! Are Your BOUNDARIES Ready?
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Holidays and alcohol tend to go hand in hand in our culture. How can we regain some control of this painful reality to manage alcohol's presence at our family gatherings this year? -Attend events as normal or decline invitations?? How to make a plan! -Boundary setting Reclaim this season for you and your children. <3 Connect with me hello@wifeonthe…
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Have you ever felt paralyzed trying to plan and schedule life with kids because your husband refuses to commit or follow through? In this episode, we’ll explore the heartbreak of unilateral parenting with an alcoholic husband. Single-Married Parent: Can you relate to the description below? A devoted wife and mother striving to balance her children’…
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