A show dedicated to those who think they may be living in or are recovering from domestic abuse /narcissistic/ antisocial abuse. A soft approach that teaches the importance of self worth. Domestic abuse is defined as any pattern of behavior in a relationship used to gain or maintain power and control over an intimate partner. Abuse is psychological, physical, sexual, and sometimes financial. Behaviors that frighten, intimidate, terrorize, manipulate, hurt, or wound are abusive. More supporti ...
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Hosted by Debbie Jones, founder of Resolute Women’s Support Services, our podcast is dedicated to exploring the realities of domestic abuse and coercve control, providing expert insights, and sharing powerful survivor stories. Each episode dives deep into the emotional, legal, and social aspects of domestic abuse, offering support and practical advice for survivors and those looking to help. What You’ll Discover: - In-depth discussions on domestic abuse, coercive control, and trauma recovery ...
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Welcome to the Domestic Abuse Unchurched podcast. Each week we'll be stepping into the void and addressing the issue of domestic abuse in the church. Unchurched means 'not belonging to or connected with a church'. Domestic abuse ought not to belong or have any connection with the church. The church ought to be a place that promotes salvation (preservation or deliverance from harm, ruin or loss) for all who call on the name of Jesus Christ. It's time to step-up and no longer side-step.
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Welcome to Spotlight, the podcast that shines a light on the issues around domestic abuse
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I am domestic abuse survivor ,a mother and a warrior on a mission to fight the battle in efforts to emancipate others who suffer at the hands of their abuser, victims who are still living with the devastation domestic abuse.My podcast follows my survivor story and those of other brave survivors.The podcast will also feature guest speakers who have knowledge and experience of working in the field as well as guests who are survivors,domestic abuse champions and ambassadors.I carried the shame ...
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Finding me is a bi-monthly podcast helping women transition from barely surviving to truly thriving after escaping domestic abuse. The cases of domestic abuse is rising at an exponential rate, much of the effort by the police and civil agencies and charities is focused on getting women and children out of immediate danger, whilst it is of course the right thing to do, it is not where the story ends. A woman who has experienced domestic abuse, will often suffer the ramifications of that abuse ...
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'The Hidden Self.' (YouTube and Facebook.) Brothers Cris and Jay look at a more in depth aspect to both the perpetrator and victim in domestic violence situations as well as abuse in the workplace where boundaries are vague between rudeness and sheer mental and physical abuse. They also discuss one's ability to think more about what we think and how that can have a massive positive impact on who we are and how we treat others. Contains some coarse language.
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This episode covers how trauma bonds form psychologically and chemically in the brain. Explanation of why our abusers cannot be on a healing journey with us due to differing treatment needs and their psychological make up- discussion inspired by Dr. David Puter’s lecture on NPD. Inside your partners mind and yours, and ways to initiate breaking the…
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The Hidden Crisis in Women's Legal Battles Against Domestic Abuse - Centre for Women's Justice (CWJ)
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Join Debbie in an insightful conversation with Nogah Ofer, solicitor at the Centre for Women's Justice (CWJ), as she shares her extensive work on holding the state accountable for failings in violence against women and girls. Nogah details how CWJ, a small yet impactful legal charity established in 2016, undertakes both strategic litigation and adv…
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This episode covers things we go through physically due to chronic stress and fatigue even when there is no physical abuse. Neuro chemistry and information on hormones and neurotransmitter dysregulation are discussed. How to take steps forward to help ourselves start feeling better physically and mentally. This is not medical advice.…
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Lucy Wade, the founder of 'You Don't Own Me,' and Debbie dive deep into the complex and sensitive issues surrounding domestic abuse and . Lucy shares her journey of creating a platform that provides support, resources, and education for survivors. The conversation touches on societal misconceptions, the importance of support systems, and the harsh …
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Resolute's CEO Debbie Jones welcomes back Emma Arran to discuss the critical need for mandatory training on coercive control for social workers. They explore the concerning lack of education in this area, despite the high percentage of cases involving domestic abuse and coercive control that social workers handle. The conversation delves into the v…
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Resolute's founder talks with Natalie, the founder of WeSpoke, an organization dedicated to supporting women experiencing the injustices of the family court system. Natalie shares her journey from hosting small support groups to launching a full-fledged advocacy group, WeSpoke, aimed at shedding light on systemic issues in family courts globally. D…
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This episode covers the topics and discussions that will be covered in season 6. Brief descriptions of why these relationships are addictive, brain chemistry, trauma bonding, gas lighting, no contact strategies, boundaries, and Stockholm syndrome are covered. How to cultivate hope to leave or stay gone, and how to help your support system better un…
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You Won't Believe What REALLY Goes on in Family Court - Talia Hazeldine from Women In Litigation & Divorce (WILD)
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Talia Hazeldine from Women In Litigation & Divorce (WILD) talks to Debbie about the shocking truths and systemic failures within the family court system. From the manipulation tactics used by abusers to the disparity in legal representation, we delve into the challenges women and domestic abuse victims face in seeking justice. Hear firsthand accoun…
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Jade Blue shares her devastating journey through the legal system after waking up to discover she had been raped. Despite facing numerous setbacks, including the CPS dropping her case under claims of sexsomnia, Jade courageously waived her anonymity to fight for justice and awareness, and ultimately sued the CPS for their mishandling of her case. J…
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Michelle El-Din shares her harrowing experience navigating the family court system after her divorce in 2022. She opens up about the psychological and emotional abuse she endured from her ex-husband, the false allegations of parental alienation, and the traumatic impact on her daughter. Michelle reveals the incompetence and corruption she faced fro…
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From Love Bombing to Freedom: Deborah's Experience of Surviving Domestic Abuse and Coercive Control
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Deborah shares her harrowing experience of surviving domestic abuse. She recounts her journey from the initial stages of her relationship, marked by love bombing, to the escalating physical and emotional abuse. Deborah's story highlights the profound impact of domestic violence on her life and her struggle to protect her daughter. This conversation…
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How One Mother Lost Her Son To A Domestic Abuser After A Series Of Police And Social Worker Failures
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In this episode, Ruth discusses the challenges she faced living with her abuser and recounts her attempts to seek help, only to be met with inadequate responses from the police. After leaving her abuser and enduring years of constant threats and harassment, she describes how her son was coerced by his father and handed over by local authorities, de…
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A Psychotherapist Speaks Out: Unregulated Experts & Domestic Abuse Misconceptions in Family Court
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Mike Flinn, a Level 7 qualified psychotherapist, discusses his extensive work within the family court system. Mike shares his professional journey, his involvement with relationships and family therapy, and his experiences working with adults, children, couples, and families. He discusses the emotional challenges of his work, especially when dealin…
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oneclickboedicea - Exposing the Serious Flaws in Family Court: A Mother's Harrowing Journey
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In this powerful episode, we delve into the distressing narrative of 'oneclickboedicea', who recounts her painful battle within the family court system after losing her child to a coercive controller. She uncovers institutional failures and systemic issues within the judiciary, social services, and law enforcement, highlighting the role of untraine…
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Emma Arran - Health/Social Care Trainer and advocate for women affected by domestic violence
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Emma Arran, an experienced social care trainer and advocate, discusses her extensive career in social care, her dedication to supporting women and children affected by domestic violence, and the systemic failures she has witnessed. Emma highlights the ongoing crisis within social services, shedding light on how victims of domestic abuse often face …
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justice4mum - A Son’s Fight Against Abuse
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In this powerful and emotional episode, a loving son shares his six-year ordeal as a former carer for his mother, who suffered from vascular dementia and Alzheimer's disease. He courageously details the systemic failures and lack of accountability within the safeguarding systems meant to protect vulnerable individuals. Read more about this heartbre…
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Rachel Horman-Brown - Domestic Abuse, Stalking and Harassment Lawyer
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Rachel Horman-Brown, a solicitor specializing in domestic abuse cases, speaks to Debbie about the ongoing challenges in the fight against domestic abuse and stalking in the UK. Together they highlight the inefficiencies and failures within current systems, including the police and CPS, and advocate for radical changes such as the implementation of …
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Debbie sits down with Professor Michael Flood from the Queensland University of Technology to discuss his extensive experience in research, advocacy, and education, focusing on men's violence against women and broader issues of men and masculinities. The conversation delves into the similarities between Australia and the UK in terms of domestic vio…
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Jared Whitaker - Author of books about male victims of domestic abuse and narcissism
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In this in-depth conversation, Jared Whitaker, an author and campaigner, discusses his personal experiences with domestic abuse, false allegations, and the systemic failures in supporting victims, particularly men. The discussion highlights the societal stigma around abuse, the ineffectiveness of the Domestic Abuse Bill, and the many challenges fac…
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Debbie interviews Nataly, who shares her harrowing experiences with the Hague Convention on International Parental Child Abduction and the broader issues within family court systems. Nataly describes how her children were abducted and the ensuing legal battles across multiple countries. The interview delves deep into the complications and inadequac…
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In this episode, Dr. Adrienne Barnett, a reader in law at Brunel University, shares her extensive experience and research into the family court system. From her early career as a family law barrister to her in-depth studies on domestic abuse and the secrecy of family courts, Dr. Barnett discusses the systemic failures and cultural barriers that ham…
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Jade - Breaking the Silence (Part 1)
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In this episode, Jade https://x.com/jadewelshy opens up about the harrowing abuse she endured, both from her ex-partner and the systemic failures of legal and social services meant to protect her. Jade shares how professionals failed to recognize and act on clear signs of abuse, exacerbating her trauma. As she recounts her story, Jade emphasizes th…
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In this episode, Debbie speaks to Jean Flower, a professional McKenzie friend, to discuss the intricate dynamics of family courts, domestic abuse, and the complexities faced by victims navigating the legal system. Jean shares her unique blend of expertise in financial planning, coaching, and divorce support to help clients through court proceedings…
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Sam Billingham - Founder of SODA, Survivors of Domestic Abuse
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In this emotionally powerful episode, Sam Billingham, founder of Survivors of Domestic Abuse (SODA) and Stronger Beginnings, joins Debbie to share her journey and discuss the pressing issue of coercive control and domestic abuse. Sam highlights the systemic failures in supporting victims, the challenges with professional understanding, and the dire…
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Natalie recounts her experiences of psychological and financial abuse in a relationship with her ex-husband who was later diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder. She discusses how their relationship began, the challenges they faced after she became pregnant, and the manipulative behaviors she endured. Natalie also describes how she eventu…
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Claire Throssell MBE - Survivor of Domestic Abuse, Campaigner and Public Speaker
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Claire Throssell MBE became one of the UK's most well known campaigners for family court reform after the murder of her two sons by an abusive ex-husband who was granted access to her children by a family court judge. In this interview, Claire describes in heartbreaking detail what happened on that terrible day in 2014, how her children were let do…
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Louise Taylor - Separation and Divorce Coach
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In our hardest hitting interview so far, ex-police officer Louise Taylor blows the lid off police and family court failures when dealing with domestic abuse. Don't miss this episode if you want to know what's really going on inside our justice system. Follow Louise on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/divorceandseparationcoachandmentor…
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Nicola Murray from Scotland talks about her own experiences of pregnancy loss as a result of domestic abuse and the work of Brodie's Trust in supporting women in similar situations. Nicola and Debbie go on to discuss how current domestic abuse measures are either inadequate or are being poorly implemented by agencies across the UK who are failing t…
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IDVA-trained Sarah Taylor talks to Debbie about her own experiences of domestic abuse and the nightmare of family court. Follow Sarah on X at twitter.com/SarahTaylo89428
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Manveet Chhina - The Domestic Abuse Solicitor
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Manveet Chhina is a Consultant Solicitor specialising in family and criminal law, with extensive experience in private and public child proceedings and domestic abuse. In this episode of the Resolute podcast, Manveet talks to Debbie about her own experience of domestic abuse and the family court system. Follow Manveet on X at https://twitter.com/th…
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Theresa Murray - Founder of One Voice Against Abuse
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Debbie Jones from Resolute talks to Theresa Murray, Founder of One Voice Against Abuse, about the many ways victims of domestic abuse in the UK are failed by the justice system.
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This episode features Dr. Vecchione Finneran giving tips and a better understanding of what chronic toxic stress is. Ways to help yourself when burnt out.
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In its latest podcast, SafeLives' Lucy Giles highlights the challenges that domestic abuse professionals face identifying primary perpetrators in cases of domestic abuse and dealing with counter allegations. Counter allegations, where both parties allege abuse, are a common challenge for professionals encountering domestic abuse. Prevailing misconc…
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This episode covers finding courage deep within and how to over come feeling defeated in the face of rejection and maltreatment. Ambivalence with feeling scared and loved and safe all at the same time from care takers and partners is also covered.
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Natalie and Relationship Counselor Elaine Conway discuss strategies for domestic abuse survivors to help prioritize their health and well-being, no matter where they are in their journey. Support the showDi Natalie W
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After an extended break our hosts come together to discuss what has kept them busy over the last 18 months and what they plan to cover in the second series of Finding Me: Rebuild You and Your Life After Domestic Abuse. Support the showDi Natalie W
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This episode covers development of grandiosity within a narcissistic personality. Signs of someone living in an “ideal” version of reality and why it’s impossible to have a healthy/ functional relationship with them. Education on NPD pathology helping partners to release responsibility for the painful dynamic they are experiencing.…
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This episode covers helpful ways to reframe distorted versions of holidays and memories we remember while we are sad and struggling. How to snap out of it and come back to your inner peace. Happy Fourth of July! ❤️
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This episode discusses the 3 phases of the narcissistic abuse cycle in depth. The psychological effects of being idealized by a partner suffering from NPD. The lasting self blame patterns we develop following idealization are explained.
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This episode discusses the neurobiological changes that happen in the brain after/ during trauma. How heightened emotional response develops over time and why. Feeling numb and under responsiveness is also covered.
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To mark International Women's Day 2023 'Embrace Equity', I joined Emma from Restored to chat about achievements. https://www.restored-uk.org Thank you for listening. You can reach us on: Email: info@iamanovercomer.org.uk Website: www.iamanovercomer.org.uk Or find us on: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/msovercomer Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.c…
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To mark International Women's Day 2023, Embrace Equity, on this episode I'm joined by my sister, Trisha. Thank you for joining us as we talk about equity, women and resilience. Trisha's contact details are: trishamusara@yahoo.com @sculptbeautyhre (Instagram and Facebook) Thank you for listening. You can reach us on: Email: info@iamanovercomer.org.u…
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Domestic abuse is commonly portrayed as a gendered crime, perpetrated by men against women. However, there is also the staggering truth that one third of domestic abuse victims are men. On this episode, I am joined by Ken, a male survivor of domestic abuse. If we are going to make an impact in combating the issue of domestic abuse, it is going to t…
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Justin shares nuggets of wisdom and knowledge with understanding in the areas of safeguarding and creating healthy church cultures. Justin is CEO of thirtyone:eight, an independent Christian safeguarding charity operating across the United Kingdom and internationally. Established in 1977, the charity now supports in excess of 10,000 member organisa…
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Dr Afua Appiah is a Highly Specialist Clinical Psychologist who works in children and adolescent services in London, UK. She joins us on this week's episode to share about how abuse affects mental health. Afua has worked in Mental Health Services for approximately 10 years with complex conditions and presentations. She has worked in services across…
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Moses, our guest this week, starts off by sharing a powerful testimony, then goes on to share some sad truths on why some BAME pastors won't confront the issue of domestic abuse. Born into a Muslim family, Moses gave his life to Jesus after encountering His love at a Reinhard Bonnke crusade. He now ministers under Christian Reformed Church Sierra L…
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Olefile encourages BAME church leaders to 'sit in the discomfort' of engaging in the discussion of domestic abuse. Under the umbrella of Heartlines based in Johannesburg , South Africa; Olefile is a church mobilisation manager and facilitator, passionate about social cohesion and coming alongside communities in coming up with homegrown solutions. H…
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On this week's episode, Pastor David Flowers, senior leader of Leeds Vineyard Church shares his thoughts on the issue of domestic abuse and his pastoral viewpoint and responsibility should a member of his congregation make a disclosure of abuse. Thank you for listening. You can reach us on: Email: info@iamanovercomer.org.uk Website: www.iamanoverco…
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Conversation with Chuck Derry
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Chuck Derry has worked to end men’s violence against women since 1983. From 1983 to 1993, he worked with male offenders in St. Cloud Minnesota and was the men’s program coordinator for six of those years. In 1994, he co-founded the Gender Violence Institute in Clearwater Minnesota and through that organization provides training and technical assist…
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Our first episode of 2023 is with bible specialist, Reverend Dr. Helen Paynter. Helen unpacks and brings insight to key scriptures that are used as weapons to keep victims and survivors of abuse in bondage. Helen's work can be found on www.csbvbristol.org.uk Thank you for listening. You can reach us on: Email: info@iamanovercomer.org.uk Website: ww…
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