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We're helping you build the vibrant life you want by giving you the tools to own your authentic self. Hosted by Daniel and Garet, the Aussie meets Angeleno married couple share everyday relatable topics from an authentic gay point-of-view. We celebrate community wins, interview thought-provoking guests, and ask difficult but necessary questions about the life and times of Modern Gays. Each week, we'll introduce new topics on how to lead with vibrancy, own yourself with intention and create t ...
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In this Halloween-themed episode, Daniel and Garet dive into the season of spookiness and villains, exploring the idea of embracing your inner “villain” as a way of living authentically. With the season of costumes and haunted houses setting the tone, they ask: Why do we sometimes feel like villains for simply being ourselves? As they discuss every…
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In this episode of Modern Gays, Daniel and Garet open up about insecurities, plastic surgery, and how unsolicited advice can derail our self-confidence. From Garet’s experience with a recent surgical procedure to Daniel’s vulnerability about thinning hair, they explore the weight of personal insecurities and the judgment we often feel from others. …
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In this heartfelt episode of Modern Gays, hosts Daniel and Garet chat with Joey Guzman Kuffel, a licensed marriage and family therapist specializing in LGBTQ+ fertility and mental health. Joey dives into his personal and professional journey, exploring the unique challenges and emotions queer people face when building families, particularly through…
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Dive into the curious world of “gooning,” a term that’s swept both the queer subculture and mainstream conversations. Daniel and Garet break down its roots as a kink-focused term used to describe a trance-like euphoric state, and discuss how it’s now become a playful way to express intense excitement. From pop icon obsession to reality TV indulgenc…
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In this insightful episode, Daniel and Garet sit down with Dan Harry, star of I Kissed a Boy and a powerful voice in HIV and sexual health advocacy. Dan opens up about his experience on the UK’s first gay dating show, shedding light on the pressures of on-screen dating and the vulnerability that comes with reality TV. Beyond the entertainment world…
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In this episode, Daniel and Garet unpack the complex role of the messenger, using Selling Sunset’s latest drama as a case study. From holding onto secrets to dealing with backlash, the hosts explore the fine line between being helpful and being perceived as stirring the pot. Is it ever okay to share private information if you think you’re protectin…
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In this heartfelt episode, Daniel and Garet sit down with Jake and Sean from DaddiestoThree to explore the dynamic and sometimes unpredictable world of gay parenthood. From their initial desire to start a family to the unexpected news of triplets, Jake and Sean share the intimate details of their surrogacy journey, including the emotional impact of…
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Daniel and Garet dive into the concept of “short and sweet,” discussing how brevity can enhance various aspects of life, from storytelling to relationships. They explore the balance between keeping things concise while still conveying depth and meaning, touching on personal anecdotes and larger cultural phenomena like the upcoming Gay Games in Melb…
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Daniel and Garet are joined by the legendary acting coach Margie Haber, who has helped shaped the careers of Hollywood stars like Halle Berry and Brad Pitt. Inspired by Margie’s book F*ck Your Comfort Zone, the trio dives deep into the paralyzing grip of fear and how to break free from it. Margie shares her journey of self-discovery and the importa…
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From the timeless romance of Sarah Paulson and Holland Taylor to the unique dynamic between RuPaul and George LeBar, these couples teach us that love is not one-size-fits-all. The discussion spans across monogamous, open, and polyamorous relationships, highlighting the importance of mutual respect, admiration, and staying true to your authentic sel…
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In this episode of Modern Gays, Daniel and Garet delve into the ever-evolving landscape of modern dating, exploring new trends that are shaping how we connect and build relationships in 2024. They discuss the phenomenon of “beard fishing,” where profile pictures with misleading beard lengths cause confusion and disappointment in real-life encounter…
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Who's in your "close friends"? Daniel and Garet dive deep into the intriguing world of Instagram’s Close Friends feature, discussing how it reshapes online intimacy and the dynamics within the gay community. From personal anecdotes about provocative posts to the broader implications of creating micro-communities, they explore the various ways peopl…
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In this episode of Modern Gays, Daniel and Garet dive deep into the realities of facing hate and criticism as members of the LGBTQ+ community. Inspired by a recent episode of RuPaul's Drag Race Canada vs. the World, they discuss the pervasive issue of haters, both online and offline, and the unique challenges queer individuals face in today's polit…
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From recounting personal stories of sweaty encounters to debating whether socks should stay on or come off during sex, Daniel and Garet provide a humorous yet insightful look at what constitutes good manners in intimate situations. They also explore the rules and excitement of cruising, the rise of Sniffies as a mainstream hookup app, and the essen…
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Hosts Daniel and Garet delve into the concept of playersexuality in video games. They share nostalgic gaming experiences and discuss how modern games like The Sims have evolved to include diverse sexual identities. The conversation highlights the importance of inclusive representation in gaming, particularly for the LGBTQ+ community. The hosts anal…
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Join Daniel and Garet as they explore the concept of "sadfishing," where individuals post overly emotional content online to seek validation. They delve into the reasons behind this behavior and its impact on relationships and social media interactions. Moving away from the digital realm, they highlight the growing trend of matchmaking, sharing per…
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In this episode of Modern Gays, we sit down with TheeAlexanderJ, a dynamic influencer known for his vibrant fashion and confident demeanor. We delve into his background, discussing the origins of his confidence and the motivation behind his viral content. Alexander shares experiences growing up, highlighting the challenges and triumphs that shaped …
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Let's talk about "Delulu," a term that started as a playful social media jab but has evolved into a powerful mindset for achieving your wildest dreams. Daniel and Garet discuss how embracing a bit of delusion can lead to setting and achieving audacious goals. Through personal anecdotes, celebrity examples, and practical tips, they explore the trans…
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Daniel and Garet are joined by love and relationship expert Trevor Kuhn from Love Daddy Trev. Together, they address common questions facing single gay men, such as why they might still be single, how to find the right partner, and navigating the complexities of dating in close-knit gay communities. The discussion also touches on the impact of Prid…
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In this Pride edition of Modern Gays, Daniel and Garet delve into the deeper meaning of pride beyond the celebrations. They discuss how truly owning and expressing your gay pride every day can lead to incredible personal and societal transformations. From the importance of visibility and acceptance to the ongoing fight for equality and the resilien…
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Kevin Kasir, a gay mindset coach, shares his journey into self-development, emphasizing the importance of a positive mindset and self-love. The conversation covers recognizing negative thought patterns, the significance of taking small actionable steps towards self-improvement, and the impact of deep, supportive friendships. Kevin offers practical …
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Daniel and Garet are joined by psychotherapist Brian Spitulnik to explore the complex interplay between identity, sex, and the influence of porn in the LGBTQ community. Brian, known for his authentic and relatable advice on Instagram and TikTok, shares his expertise on how being gay can shape personal choices and relationships. Together, they dive …
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In this lively and intimate episode of "Modern Gays," hosts Daniel and Garet delve into the complexities of dating across significant age differences within the LGBTQIA+ community. They discuss everything from the cultural concepts of "daddies" to the emotional and social dynamics that come with large age gaps in relationships. Episode Highlights: …
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Explore the nuances of LGBTQ+ travel with Stefan Arestis from Nomadic Boys, who along with his partner Sebastien Chaneac, has turned their passion for travel into a powerful platform for advocacy and visibility. This episode covers everything from the safest places for gay travelers, navigating cultural challenges, to the power of supporting local …
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Get into the nuanced world of modern dating and relationships in this eye-opening episode of Modern Gays. Daniel and Garet chat about the intricacies of flirting, the importance of setting healthy boundaries, and the crucial role of self-worth in forming meaningful connections. Whether discussing the controversial takes of RuPaul on monogamy or the…
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How do vibrational frequencies influence our lives, relationships, and personal growth? We discuss everything from the scientific underpinnings of vibrations to personal anecdotes about outgrowing friends and aligning with energies that uplift and inspire. Join us as we explore how to tune into your own frequency and make meaningful connections tha…
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Unpack how the evolving role of artificial intelligence in shaping our social interactions and personal perceptions. From AI enhancements on dating platforms like Grindr to the cultural implications of AI-generated images, this episode explores how new technologies are redefining norms within the queer community. The discussion also touches on the …
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The art of fostering deeper connections in queer relationships is asking better questions. From first-date stories to a candid discussion on love languages and the dynamics of friendships with exes, this episode dives into how to cultivate intimacy, understand one another on a profound level, and navigate the complexities of love and relationships.…
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In this special one-year anniversary episode of Modern Gays, Daniel and Garet return to the heart of the podcast—discussing the intricacies of love and relationships. They dive into the evolving dating landscape of 2024, decoding the fresh lingo and trends that define modern love. From "Canon-Bailing" to "VBD" (Vision Board Dating), they break down…
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From awkward encounters with exes and former friends to fleeting connections on social media, they explore the emotional landscape of recognizing and interacting with people from our past. Through personal anecdotes and reflective insights, Daniel and Garet discuss the importance of treating these encounters with respect, understanding, and perhaps…
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Hosts Daniel and Garet kick off the episode by diving into the concept of Radical Optimism, inspired by Dua Lipa's new album of the same name. They explore what it means to maintain a hopeful and positive outlook as a queer individual in today's world. The conversation covers the importance of happiness, storytelling, and the narratives that shape …
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Let's get into the heart of authentic queer storytelling with our special guest, Jason Caceres. Known for his breakout role in the series "Open To It," Jason shares his journey as an out and proud actor, his experiences on set, and the importance of nuanced queer representation in media. In This Episode: Jason's Path to "Open To It": Discover how J…
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Join us as we unravel the mysteries of Peter Pan Syndrome—a journey that many gay men find themselves navigating, caught between the allure of eternal youth and the inevitable call to grow up. But what if growing up didn't mean letting go of the wonder? Episode Highlights: Hosts Daniel and Garet open up about personal encounters with adulthood and …
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Daniel and Garet dive into the essence of living authentically in a world where the concept of authenticity is often overused yet misunderstood. They explore what it means to be fluent in your true self, share personal anecdotes about their journeys, and discuss how everyone's authenticity is uniquely defined. Join us as we unpack the layers of bei…
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Let's talk about kinks. From discussing the historical perspective and societal shifts around kinks to diving deep into the non-sexual perks of being or dating a kinkster, this episode is all about demystifying and celebrating the kink community. Plus, the "Only Whispers" segment addresses real listener questions, providing thoughtful insights into…
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Do you wish the intoxicating world of the honeymoon phase in relationships would last longer? This episode explores the science behind why we feel so head over heels during those early days, whether this euphoric feeling lasts forever, and practical tips on keeping the love alive. Featuring personal anecdotes, a playful game of "For Love or Money,"…
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We have a heart-to-heart with Nigel Battle, a standout personality from OutTV's hit series 'For the Love of DILFs.' Nigel, known for his vibrant energy and openness, shares his journey of self-discovery, love, and the complexities of navigating identity within the LGBTQIA+ community. Our hosts, Daniel and Garet, engage Nigel in a candid discussion …
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Explore the fascinating realm of pheromones as Daniel and Garet discuss how these chemical signals shape sexual attraction and personal preferences. They explore everything from the role of body odors in arousal to the significance of scent in determining compatibility. The conversation also touches on personal hygiene preferences, exploring the di…
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Let's get into the nuances of being "openly gay" and how language shapes LGBTQ+ identity. Host's Daniel and Garet dissect the term's implications, weigh its historical context, and its evolving significance in 2024. The episode also features the popular segment "Only Whispers," addressing listener queries on deepening first-date conversations, navi…
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Explore the intricate dynamics of rumors and outside noise through the lens of 'Real Housewives of Salt Lake City' and Ariana Grande's latest hit "yes, and?". The episode dissects how public perception and unsolicited opinions can affect personal and professional lives, especially within the LGBTQ+ community. The discussion includes an in-depth ana…
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Deep dive into the complexities and subtleties of interpersonal interactions. Hosts Daniel and Garet share their personal experiences and insights, tackling the challenges of miscommunication, the detrimental effects of playing the blame game, and the crucial balance of maintaining individuality while fostering a thriving sexual and emotional bond …
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We explore the Ins and Outs of 2024, share our personal resolutions and introduce a new segment that we'll feature in every episode in Season 2 of Modern Gays for 2024. Our unique blend of humor, insight, and audience engagement makes this episode a must-listen for those interested in LGBTQ+ culture, lifestyle, and relationships. Daniel and Garet s…
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We're Daniel and Garet, your hosts of Modern Gays. We lead conversations on LGBTQ+ culture, lifestyle, sex, and relationships. We're your knowledgeable gay besties, leading the way through our vibrant world together. From spotlighting influential figures in our community, engaging in expert interviews, to keeping you informed about the latest in me…
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In this episode, we're diving into the vibrant and imaginative world of Gag City, inspired by Nicki Minaj's "Pink Friday 2" album. We discuss how Gag City has become a symbol of inclusivity and LGBTQ+ pride, igniting a resurgence on platforms like Twitter. We also tackle the shift in digital spaces, examining the decline of Gay Twitter and how Thre…
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Join us as we navigate the often misunderstood and under-explored territory of heteroflexibility. In a society increasingly embracing the fluid spectrum of sexuality, this episode offers a deep dive into the heart of what it means to identify outside traditional labels. We bring personal anecdotes, cultural insights, and a touch of humor to demysti…
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Thank you for being a part of our journey. We only have two more episodes planned for this year, and are releasing lots of exciting episodes in Season 2 launching January 2nd! Timestamps: [02:00]: The Evolution of "Modern Gays" [03:15]: Top Episodes and Why They Resonated [13:15]: Highlighting Memorable Interviews [16:00]: Answering Listener Questi…
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We chat about the significance of being honest, owning it, and the art of moving on. Explore these themes through personal anecdotes, reflections on family dynamics, and parallels drawn from "The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills." The conversation underscores the importance of honesty in personal growth and relationships, especially within the LGBT…
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Hosts Daniel and Garet, along with special guest Love Daddy Trev, dive deep into the complexities of sparks, chemistry, and building lasting connections. They explore the nature of the "spark" in relationships, the evolution of attraction, and the significance of maintaining individuality and communication within a partnership. Topics Discussed: Un…
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In this heartening episode of Modern Gays, we delve deep into the emotional and practical aspects of IVF and surrogacy for LGBTQ+ families. Joined by our insightful guests, Richard Westoby and Julio Gaggia of IVF Daddies, we explore the highs and lows of creating a family, discussing everything from choosing the right IVF clinic and surrogacy agenc…
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Today's episode dives into the intricate dance of introducing your partner to your family and friends, a pivotal moment for many in the LGBTQ+ community. We explore the nuances of making a good first impression, handling potential conflicts, and the importance of post-meeting reflections. Meeting the family or friends of your partner can be a mix o…
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