In this episode I speak with Sakshi Tikoo about sexuality and pleasure as self care, the roles of an occupational therapist, sex care for people with different needs and sex tech for pleasure. Links are: insta | @sex.love.andot Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/SexLoveAndOT/ Twitter | https://twitter.com/sexloveandot Website | https://www.sexlove…

In this episode I speak with sex.debbie. We discuss how to talk to your children about sex, how to navigate your own sex life throughout pregnancy and how to cultivate a sex life that works for you after you have had children. Links are: insta | @sex.debbie webside | www.sexdebbie.comDi Becky Crepsley-Fox

In this episode I speak with Leanne Shorley. We discuss her writings and performances which focus on sexuality and empowerment as well as her anti sexual harassment campaign that she has created with the Volks nightclub in Brighton. Links are: insta | @leanneshorleyDi Becky Crepsley-Fox

In this episode I speak with Kristopher Lovestone about why desire can dwindle over time, how a man can stoke the fire within a relationship and how men can become more confident in bed. Links are: facebook- @consciouscock https://www.facebook.com/consciouscock website - https://www.consciouscock.com/about-kristopher-lovestone/ insta | @theconsciou…

In this episode I speak with Iris Josephine about why fertility is so much more than just making babies, how sexual desire changes throughout the menstrual cycle and what hormones actually are. Links are: website | www.cycleseeds.com insta | @cycleseeds facebook | /cycleseedsDi Becky Crepsley-Fox

In this episode I speak with Eva bloom about how sexuality can be liberatory for everyone, how the patriarchy can cause havoc on our sex lives, discussions on sexting and sex in COVID-19. Links are: Instagram.com/whatsmybodydoing Tik Tok: @whatsmybodydoing evabloom.ca/fpfyprogramDi Becky Crepsley-Fox

In this episode I speak with Jo Fuller from the Merry Menopause. We discuss the difference between menopause and perimenopause, how we can celebrate this time and support yourself and loved ones throughout this transition. As well (of course) sex throughout peri/post menopause. You can find Jo here Join her private Facebook group here Instagram: @t…

In this episode I speak with Bear and Fifi. We discuss how to cultivate authentic desire, how we can think differently about the sexual script we live by and how oppressive standards around sex and gender can cause folks to have unfulfilling erotic lives. You can find them here @bear.n.fifi bear.n.fifi@gmail.com…

In this episode I speak with Debi Silber about betrayal, both in her personal experiences and evidenced by research. We discuss about post betrayal syndrome (and the stages of this), how to heal from betrayal and open your heart to love and trust again. About Debi: Dr. Debi Silber is the founder of the Post Betrayal Transformation Institute and is …

In this episode I speak with Beck Thompson about relationships. We discuss the four main predictors of relationships ending, the blocks in communication that people experience and how we can grow to have more understanding for our partner/s. About Beck: Beck Thompson is an award-winning Dating & Relationship Coach, number 1 international best-selli…

In this episode I speak with Grace Alice O'Shea about sexual dysfunction as a young person. We discuss how to support young people who are experiencing this, Grace's personal experience as well as how aspects of this have influenced her sexuality. About Grace: Grace Alice O’ Shea has been a Sex & Relationships Educator for over 5 years. She origina…

In this episode I speak with Alana Mckenzie about relationship psychology and energetics. We discuss how people can create love and what you can do today to get the love life you really want. About Alana: Alana was always a strong independent woman who didn't need a man, but the thing was - she really wanted one. She searched high and low, in multi…

In this episode I speak with Natasha Gilbert about what body confidence is, how to start the journey of finding your authentic self and how the commercialised idea of body confidence has a negative impact on sex. About Natasha: Natasha is a body confidence and wellness coach, helping people to transform their physical, emotional and spiritual relat…

In this episode I speak with Susan Bratton about common myths we think about sexuality, we discuss the different types of orgasms people can experience and how to have an enjoyable sexual experience for everyone involved. About Susan: Her libido botanicals and blood flow supplements, and sexual energy bars enhance your lovemaking. Her books and vid…

In this episode I speak with Rhi Kemp-Davies about gender dysphoria. We discuss trans and non binary folks relationships and sexual difficulties. We talk about how to provide support to people you know who are experiencing these issues and how to find euphoria in your life. Dating apps that were discussed in this episode: thisislex.apptaimi.com/tra…

In this episode I speak with Lisa Mackenzie and Kat Wilson about their personal experiences of vaginismus. We talk about what people can do if they are experiencing these issues, where they can go and how to find community. About Lisa: After living with vaginismus for many years, and feeling broken and isolated, Lisa decided to take control of the …

In this episode I speak with David Stuart about Chemsex. We discuss what Chemsex is and how dating apps are perpetuating this problem. We talk about what to do if you, or a friend/partner are experiencing these difficulties and how to support those around you. About David: David Stuart was the first to name and identify Chemsex as an emerging gay c…

In this episode I speak with Clare Bourne about pelvic health. We discuss the impact of childbirth, pelvic health on sexual function and where to go and what to do if you are experiencing pelvic difficulties. About Clare: Clare is a Pelvic Health Physiotherapist specialising in caring for women during and after pregnancy. She has worked in the fiel…

In this episode I speak with Dr Naomi Sutton about HIV, what it is and how it spreads, the treatments and how we can support partners and friends who receive a diagnosis. About Naomi: Dr Naomi Sutton works as a Consultant Physician in Sexual Health for the NHS. Having qualified as a doctor in 2003 from Sheffield University, she became a Consultant …

In this episode I speak with Dr Lee Phillips about how to navigate sex and relationships with a chronic illness. We discuss how to support a partner who has a chronic illness as well as advice on dating and communication. About Lee: Dr. Lee Phillips is in private practice in Reston, VA where he specializes in couples sex therapy. He is a Licensed C…

In this episode I speak with Lucy Rowett about how to flirt for both solo and partnered people, why flirting is so important and how to embrace mistakes. About Lucy: Lucy Rowett, CSC CS ACS is a sexologist and intimacy coach who is passionate about helping overthinking women let go of sexual shame, embrace pleasure, and claim the joy of their sexua…

In this episode I speak with Fran Bushe about her sexual journey. We discuss painful sex/vaginismus, lack of sexual enjoyment/orgasm, an array of methods that Fran has tried and where she is with her journey so far. About Fran: Fran Bushe is an award-winning comedian, writer and performer. She has had sold-out runs of her multi-award winning show A…

In this episode I speak with Sarah Rose Bright about how to know what you want in bed, low sexual desire and how to cultivate more eroticism in your life. About Sarah: Sarah Rose Bright is a leading Sex, Pleasure & Intimacy coach and she’s on a mission to to empower women to discover their pleasure and feel sexually confident, so that they can trul…

In this episode I speak with Cam Fraser about sexuality for people with penises, the difference between ejaculation and orgasm and how to get started with prostate massage. About Cam: Australia’s leading Men's Sex Coach and one of Lovehoney's resident Sexperts, Cam is a Sex Coach, Relationship Counsellor, Sexologist and Tantric Yoga Teacher. A worl…

In this episode I speak with Poppy Lepora about all things masturbation. We discuss some sex toys you can try, butt stuff and why masturbation is great whether you are solo or in relationship/s. About Poppy: Poppy Lepora is a pleasure educator, masturbation activist and owner of the online sex toy boutique Self & More. Self & More is a sex-positive…

In this episode I speak with Johnny Vajra about how to release anger to make space for sexuality, how kink can be healing and how pleasure is our birthright. About Johnny: Johnny Vajra is a Spiritual Alchemist, Intimacy Coach and Pleasure Educator. Johnny incorporates sacred sexuality, kink, and mindful meditation to promote conscious community via…

In this episode I speak with Imi Lo about what an emotionally intense and highly sensitive person is, some problems they might encounter and ways for them to navigate sex and relationships. About imi: Imi Lo is a Psychotherapist, Art Therapist, and Consultant for emotionally intense and highly sensitive people. She is the Founder of Eggshell Therap…

In this episode I speak with Deya and Hugo about conscious communication, the importance of joining and noticing unhelpful patterns in relating. About Deya: Deya is a Cacao sorceress, Creative Meditation instructor, student of Tantra, workshop facilitator and the founder of CacaoAmor. Her mission is to inspire others to find their own healing power…

In this episode I speak with Rachel Overvoll about intimacy, receiving pleasure and how tuning into the senses increases our erotic capacity. About Rachel: As a young woman growing up in Evangelical Christianity, Rachel was raised feeling immense shame around her body, her sexuality, and intimacy. It was not until she decided to embark on her own j…

In this episode I speak with Dr Ashley Townes about issues affecting Black women's sex lives, the lack of sex education in both America and the UK and how negative stereotypes can directly affect peoples sexuality. About Dr Ashley Townes PhD, MPH: Dr. Ashley Townes is an ORISE Postdoctoral Research Fellow at the Centers for Disease Control and Prev…

In this episode I speak with Silva Neves. We discuss what compulsive sexual behaviour is, what people could do if they are experiencing these difficulties and how to handle these topics without inducing shame. About Silva: Silva Neves is a COSRT-accredited and UKCP-registered psychosexual and relationship psychotherapist, a trauma psychotherapist a…

In this episode I speak with Portia Brown about how to create your own pleasure rituals, about the importance of tuning into your body and how your actions outside of the bedroom can have a direct impact on your sex life. About Portia: Portia Brown is the founder of Froeticsexology , a blog and social media platform that helps women and femmes iden…

In this episode I speak with Paul Sockett about writing erotica, asking for what you want and how to tell your own story in and out of the bedroom. About Paul: I am a storyteller and creator. I am a lover of words, the Earth and a pun (the cheesier the better). I love starting things but not necessarily completing them. I am a professional actor an…

In this episode I speak with Rebecca Wilson about how trauma can get stored in the body, how we can work on releasing blockages in the womb space and how these blockages can effect our sexuality and connection with self. About Rebecca: Rebecca Wilson facilitates Shamanic Womb Healing & Rites Blessings. She is the Founder of Womb Connection- Healing…

In this episode I speak with Rebecca Harrison about consensual non monogamy. We chat about the different forms this can take, what the benefits are to having this type of relationship style and how to work on jealousy. About Rebecca: I'm Rebecca, a queer, kink and non-monogamy positive sex and relationships therapist. I work with individuals, coupl…

In this episode I speak with Hayley Cannon about the healing power of Transformational breath. We discuss how breathing in a specific way with added pressure points and affirmations can aid in recovering from sexual trauma and how this breath can help open us up to the idea of love and sex. About Hayley Growing up I loved to write and play musical …

In this episode I speak with Dr Stephanie Minchin about the role of social media on our relationship with our bodies, how trauma can effect our relationships both with partners and our own sexuality as well as some yoga therapy tools on how to work on these issues. About Steph: Dr Stephanie Minchin is a Clinical Psychologist, Yoga Therapist and Yog…

In this episode I speak with Rob Keates and Julie Havelund from Acroyoga Collective. We discuss the importance of physical touch, how Acroyoga can help build trust and connection as well as why movement is good for our mental health and eroticism. About Acroyoga Collective: Combined, we have taught yoga, dance and AcroYoga for over ten years in ins…

In this episode I speak with Stella Anna Sonnenbaum from StellaWithLove about the pressure penis owners feel to perform when in partnered sex. We discuss how this pressure can take them out of their pleasure and some techniques and ideas that can be used to bring the focus back on enjoyment. About Stella: Stella Anna Sonnenbaum MPH CSSE is a Somati…

In this episode I speak with Aoife Drury about the orgasm/pleasure gap. The orgasm gap is the disparity between heterosexual men and women experiencing orgasms in coupled sex. We zone in on the cultural attitudes to this, why this may be and back this up by research we have read. About Aoife: Aoife is an Accredited Psychosexual and Relationship The…

In this podcast I speak to Rosie Battimelli about the concept we are calling our partners are our mirrors. We discuss relationship dynamics, how people often fall into relationships where one person is a Lion and the other is a Unicorn (more on that in this podcast) and how this is backed up by ideas from attachment theory. About Rosie: Rosie is a …

In this episode I speak with Clara Gomez Santos about how to harness a healthy masculine energy. We discuss ways to cultivate this state and what the benefits are of doing this. About Clara: Clara is an Intimacy & Empowerment guide, women’s mentor and facilitator of transformative processes. She has supported thousands on the path to wholeness and …

In this podcast I speak with Viktoria Krug who is the owner of Vulvarium where she does vulva sculpting. We discuss connecting to the vulva, the anatomy of the vulva and how to battle shame around this topic. Viks information is below: My name is Viki and I am the person behind Vulvarium and the vulva castings. On paper, I am 27 years old and Austr…

In this podcast I speak with Liz Joy Oakley about anxiety and how this can affect us in our bodies and in our relationships. We also discuss how this can affect our sex drive and the ability to tune into our bodies for pleasure. About Liz: Liz Joy Oakley is a Holistic Well-being Coach, Yoga & Meditation Teacher and Writer based in London specialisi…

In this podcast I speak with Tom Corbishley about what we call 'being a square watermelon'. We discuss how our childhoods can shape us and how we may unconsciously choose our partners. Toms information and how to find him: After gaining a degree in Physics I worked in industry and marketing and then ran my own manufacturing business for over 30 yea…