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Life as a widow can be full of grief, pain, and loneliness. But through this we also find strength, courage, independence, and new beginnings. I believe every widow deserves to live a life happily even after loss! And how do you do that? Widow Your Way! So, if you enjoy a slightly dark sense of humor, and are looking for a little laughter and encouragement, I invite you to laugh with me or at me each week as I share my journey through widowhood, surviving multiple losses, living with a rare ...
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What if we could find relentless joy and hope even in the face of profound loss? This episode is a heartfelt tribute to Rebecca, the inspiring host of "Love Is Not Dead Just My Husband," who recently passed away from cancer. Join me, Tiphany Kane, Rebecca's podcast coach and dear friend, as I share cherished memories and the profound impact she had…
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In this episode, I talk about the complexity of the phrase "You are so strong" and the varied emotions it can evoke for Widows navigating the grieving process. Initially, it can feel more like a burden than a compliment, especially in the acute stages of grief. It's easy to interpret these words as pressure to hide our vulnerability and minimize ou…
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What happens when you're faced with the dual trials of terminal illness and profound grief? This episode is a deeply personal update of my journey through Stage IV Cancer and the emotional echoes of losing my husband, as I grapple with confronting my mortality and the complex layers of grief that come with it. This is a great example of feeling lik…
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Have you ever felt like the weight of grief could define your entire existence? In this episode, I'm here to shake things up and challenge the traditional narrative of widowhood. It's time to reclaim the journey as our own and recognize that being a widow doesn't solely revolve around our deceased husbands. Yes, we honor their memory, but we also h…
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Join me on the Season 5 premiere as we finally get down to business on what it means to "Widow Your Way" In this episode we are going to talk about the Widow Journey, emphasizing one crucial truth: You are not dead, just your husband! It's time to embrace your loss, your life, and your purpose! Whether you're still in the depths of grief or ready t…
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The microphone feels different this time! As I struggle with my ongoing battle against cancer, I'm reflecting on this podcast and direction it's taking. I feel the need now more than ever to be more clear with my message and purpose. So far Widow Your Way has been more of an expression or feeling of empowerment for Widows, but not put into clear wo…
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Growing up, I struggled with the concept of gratitude, feeling pressure to be thankful without truly understanding its depth. As a widow, this struggle intensified when faced with societal pressure to be grateful. I share personal experiences of downplaying my grief and masking my emotions to appear strong. This is a common struggle among widows – …
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In this deeply personal episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on a relationship journey that's been anything but easy. Over the past few years, I've stumbled, learned, and grown through the rollercoaster of love, loss, and self-discovery. From swiping right to clinging onto hope, I'm sharing the raw, unfiltered moments of navigating romance amidst …
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A Valentine's Day Special ✨💖 Today's episode is all about love, laughter, and a little bit of magic – because sometimes, love finds us in the most unexpected of places. Join me as I share a heartwarming love story that holds a special place in my heart. In a two part series, I'll take you on a journey through my experiences navigating the complexit…
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My recent trip to Podfest has ignited a shift in my perspective! Podfest, a haven for podcasters, exposed a truth—I've been holding back. I believe fear of rejection has tempered my honesty, and it's time to change that. I'm recalibrating the way I fuel our conversations from behind the mic. Expect to hear the unvarnished truth, the kind that might…
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When dreams are deferred, what does it take to revive them amidst life's harshest trials? Embark on a journey with me in the latest episode as I share the twists and turns of my life! From sidelining dreams as a wife to discovering my own strength as a widow, and now navigating a Stage IV cancer diagnosis. All the while trying to make a difference …
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You know that feeling when you give the best advise but don't take your own? Well, I've been struggling with my recent cancer diagnosis and how I'm supposed to be handling it. I'm just going to take my own advise and tell people how I feel and do what's going to make me happy! This podcast makes me happy and I want to dedicate as much time as I pos…
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Ever thought about what it's like facing your own mortality while dealing with the loss of a loved one? In this emotional episode, I share my personal journey as a Widow battling an incurable cancer. Join me as I navigate the ups and downs of grief, denial, and acceptance, shedding light on how tough it is to share this heartbreaking diagnosis with…
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Imagine life just starting to get good, feeling like things are finally falling into place. Seemingly worry free and looking forward to starting a new year off with a bang! And then the unexpected happens or should I say the unexpected returns! Just 6 weeks after my husband died in 2018, I was diagnosed with a rare eye cancer with no cure, Ocular M…
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Life has a way of surprising us with unexpected twists that force us to reassess everything we once held close. Life just threw me a curveball – my Cancer has made a surprising return, taking me into an uncertain chapter of my life, a terminal diagnosis of Stage 4 Liver Metastatic Uveal Melanoma. I find myself grappling with the profound emotions t…
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A year ago I announced I was starting a podcast. What some people don't know is that my brother Donnie gives me the courage to speak my mind. In this episode I'm baring my soul about losing my brother. As this grief is still fresh, I share the rollercoaster of our relationship, my guilt and regrets, realizing the very things that would drive me cra…
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What if Thanksgiving doesn't have to be a full-throttle, joy-filled celebration? What if it's okay to shuffle the traditions, to feel a little less than festive, especially when you're wrestling with grief or loneliness? This episode is a heart-to-heart conversation, acknowledging that it's absolutely fine to have an 'Unhappy' Thanksgiving. We chal…
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In honor Domestic Violence Awareness Month, lets shine a light on the often unspoken and deeply sensitive topic of abuse, especially concerning surviving Widows of domestic violence. We explore the intricate layers of grief and healing that these survivors go through, and how their journey to recovery differs from traditional widowhood. These brave…
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When we lose someone we love, we're often told that the first year is the hardest. But what happens when that first year is over, and we're still grappling with the void that person has left behind? After the first year Widows may find themselves feeling increasingly alone in their grief. Yet amidst the pain, there is hope and healing. As always, W…
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Grief is like an onion! There are so many layers! In this episode we unravel the multi-layered journey of a widow, and an often overlooked topic of widowhood: the grief for the loss of one's former self. It's not just about mourning a spouse; it's a journey of self-discovery and transformation. The message is simple: it's okay to embrace change and…
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In this episode I have a candid conversation with Divorcee, Josie Falcon of the Heavy Pages Podcast, and what unfolded was truly eye-opening! We found ourselves marveling at the similarities between the journeys of Widows and Divorcees. The only difference was my husband is dead and hers is not! While the circumstances of widowhood and divorce are …
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Are you ready to hear the unfiltered thoughts that often whirl in a widow's head? Lets talk about the cliché comments and thoughtless questions that are often thrown at widows. You know the ones: "How are you doing?", "They are in a better place", the list goes on. I'm going to give you authentic responses many widows may harbor and are just too po…
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Grief is a universal, yet deeply personal experience. Like many of you, I've had my fair share of losses and not just from people dying. So for me it's not about comparing losses, but about acknowledging that each loss hits differently for each person. They all hurt in their own way. So why do we compare our grief to others? We are not here to comp…
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Have you ever wondered about the many ways grief can impact your life, not just emotionally but physically? Losing a partner is one of life's most challenging experiences, and as widows, it's easy to neglect our own well-being while navigating this overwhelming grief. Join me for a raw and honest conversation of how grief not only impacts one's min…
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Few of us truly grasp the financial devastation Widows may face following the death of a spouse. In this episode we shed light on the realities of Widows having to adapt to a single income or no income at all. We discuss the misconception about everyone having life insurance and the tough choices that must be made to adapt to a new financial situat…
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As a widow, I needed a roadmap to navigate the chaos of grief. There were no clear steps, no printed guide, but I made it through the darkest times - and my experiences can help you, too. This episode is a raw exploration of my journey through the stages of grief. I share my struggles with acceptance, my evolving beliefs about the afterlife, and my…
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What if being a widow was less about holding a marriage certificate and more about the journey of healing and self-identification? What about those who have lost a significant other but never had the 'husband' or 'wife' title? This episode is dedicated to challenging the traditional definitions and understanding of widowhood. Lets recognize the the…
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Ever felt misunderstood in your grief? Tired of the stereotypes and judgments that come your way as a widow? Well, Season 3 of Love is Not Dead is officially granting you permission to grieve in your own damn way. As your host and fellow widow, Rebecca, I'm here to provide a safe haven for you, where we can share our stories, challenge age-old misc…
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Taking a little break between seasons, I hope you enjoy this hilarious parody theme song created with my best friend's husband, Tyrone. Not only is he a constant source of support for Angie during her grief process, he also makes the time to check on me as well. I would have never made through the first year if it wasn't for Angie and Tyrone. The u…
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Can you imagine the strength it takes to move forward after losing your spouse and battling cancer? That's exactly what I had to do over the last five years since my husband, Tom, passed away. Through the immense pain and struggle, I chose to live for our son, dedicating myself to helping him succeed and find happiness. In this raw and emotional ep…
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As we continue to navigate the ever-changing landscape of life after losing a spouse, we take a heartfelt look at the emotional, physical, and mental adaptations that come with grief, healing, and finding a new normal. From adapting to sleeping alone, a single income and parenting alone, to navigating loneliness and rediscovering laughter, we'll sh…
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Do you ever feel like an imposter? Always hiding behind a mask pretending to be something your note! What if I told you that by taking off these masks, we can find true authenticity and even heal from loss? In this empowering episode, I discuss the various masks I've worn, including the painful mask of widowhood, and how removing it can lead to res…
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What if you could overcome self-doubt and make confident decisions, especially in dating and relationships? How would that change your life? Being a widow is has not been my only block in finding love again. Today I share my own experiences of battling insecurities and learning to present my authentic self, maintain my boundaries, and wait for the …
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We all have regrets! Things we want to take back. Things we want to go back in time to change if we could. There are some wrongs we can make right, but with death. It kind of puts a stop to it so we are stuck with could’ve, should’ve, would’ve. For better or worse, all the things we may regret make is who we are today. No matter if they were good o…
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Many people feel that celebrating death anniversaries is part of the grieving process. Because we all grieve differently, how we choose to spend these death anniversaries will be different too. Death anniversaries can bring up feelings of sadness and grief, but it can also be a filled with happy memories. There comes a time for a lot of widows for …
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I am no stranger to loss. The sadness, anger, guilt, anxiety, tiredness, shock, loneliness, and confusion. One thing that I don’t think is talked about enough is feeling gratitude after a loss. Just like joy can coincide with grief, so can gratitude. It’s the choice you make to celebrate the positive memories instead of focusing on the negative emo…
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I had the amazing honor of being an Impact Speaker at the Women’s Wellness Fest in Jacksonville Florida 2 weekends ago. And man was I nervous! I had no idea what I should speak about. The topic changed about 3 or 4 times and then it finally hit me! It’s the whole reason I was back at the Women’s Wellness Fest to begin with… and why this event is so…
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I'm exhausted! I just finished a cross country road trip in 10 weeks and 3 days with 7,312 miles! This trip has been an amazing experience and an important part of my healing journey but has also left me exhausted physically. I was feeling guilty about not sharing an episode this week because I was so tired so I decided to share my thoughts and fee…
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Grief has changed me. Every part of me. It has changed my everyday life, my morning routine. It has changed how I see the world. It has changed my outlook on life. It has changed my beliefs. It has changed how I interact with people. It has changed how I love. Grief is now my constant companion. I’ve let it define me in some ways and I’m okay with …
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One of the things I've hated about myself is how complaisant I've been my whole life, especially in my marriage. This has me reflecting on all my relationships now. I have always wanted nothing more than to be loved and appreciated. I have a hard time setting boundaries and saying no. I’m learning how to say no out of love and compassion for myself…
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I have a long list of things I want to do and places to go. I make some of the same excuses as most people. I need more money or time off work. But that has not been what has really stopped me. It's years of being told to keep dreaming and feeling like it's always out of reach. I am so done with making excuses of why I can’t go here and there or do…
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Do you ever feel trapped? Stuck in survival mode trying to figure out how to claw your way out? What does it take for you to escape a life of grief and sadness? We all have our breaking points but it's what we choose to do after that defines us. We have to find the courage and break free! There is a whole new life out there waiting on his. We just …
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Welcome to season 2 of Love is not dead, Just my husband! We are all forced to deal with unpleasantries in our life but we can't let these tragedies define us! There comes a time when we have to deal with our shit! We have to take responsibility for our own actions. Meaning, we have to decide how we want to respond to the tragedies we are dealt. Wi…
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Do you ever feel you were just meant for something else? Meant to be somewhere else? Like the life you are living was not meant for you! I’ve been feeling that way for a while now and have been trying to figure out what I need to do or what I even want. But how? I have procrastinated, settled and made so many excuses that I have found my life becom…
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Talking about death is difficult but funerals do tend to spark the conversation, but usually on a superficial level. It's not until you lose someone very close, having to plan a funeral and deal with the aftermath does it make you contemplate your own death. Death should not have us thinking about our dying. Death should have us thinking about livi…
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We have all been pushed out of the nest in our lives. By our parents or unexpected circumstances in life. When death pushes us we tend to build a new nest for ourselves. A nest of grief, cozy enough for one. We can become comfortable there. With all your fears and resistance, you have to leave this nest. But how? Trust yourself. Listen to your intu…
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People ask me all the time how I came up with the podcast name Love is not dead, Just my husband. I have a slightly dark sense of humor and it was really me just joking around. I thought this podcast was going to be about me sharing funny stories of dating as a widow. Turns out I have a whole lot more to say. I used to think my journey was about be…
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I don’t normally share my experiences with psychics, mediums or tarot readings because everyone believes something different. I’m also not some hard core fanatic but I do enjoy it. I don't take messages from beyond too seriously but I do find comfort in having a reminder that Tom is still with me. We should probably know that our loved ones would w…
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Want to know a dirty little secret? Some widows are actually happier after the loss of their spouse! I am one of those widows! I am a widow that is actually living happier after. And it's not that I'm happy that my husband died but where I am in my life, I am happier than expected and that is something that is hard for me to share with other people…
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Do you ever want to give a big F***K You to your spouse for dying? Do you ever feel guilty for saying bad things about your dead spouse? I hate that being a widow is so romanticized and I fell into that trap by idolizing my husband because you shouldn't speak ill of the dead. I don't want to disrespect my husband in any way but this is my story! An…
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