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Dear Listeners, We know that relationships can be hard. That finding love can be hard. Believing in the magic of it all can be hard, but that’s why Melanie and Anthony do this work. Because they LOVE love. The Amazing Clarks are more than the couple you've seen on Dr Drew or Black Love Doc, they are award winning certified life and love coaches who have been coaching together for over 20 years and passionately in love for 30. Love, The Amazing Clarks is their personal Love Letter to you, the ...
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The Amazing Clarks are award winning certified life and love coaches and husband and wife. Having been featured by Dr. Drew and on Black Love the series, Melanie and Anthony are ready to bring their revolutionary approach to therapy to the people. Every week Melanie and Anthony will give listeners an invitation to join their Love Revolution. Whether it is sitting down with someone to try and get to the root of their issues, or giving the lowdown on their experiences, The Amazing Clarks will ...
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Dear Listeners, We know that relationships can be hard. That finding love can be hard. Believing in the magic of it all can be hard, but that’s why Melanie and Anthony do this work. Because they LOVE love. The Amazing Clarks are more than the couple you've seen on Dr Drew or Black Love Doc, they are award winning certified life and love coaches who…
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A perfect relationship is a nice thought but in reality, it doesn't exist. We all have trials and tribulations when it comes to being in a relationships. When those issues arise, some of us are quick to look for a reason to exit that situation, while in most relationships, you just need to tighten the bolts of your relationship. This week, The Amaz…
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Trust between partners is one of the most important things when you're in a relationship. But, what happens when that little voice in your head is whispering doubts about the loyalty of your significant other? Do you continue to trust that they are still being faithful or do you administer a loyalty test to quiet that very convincing whisper of dou…
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With so many myths in the world, it's hard to keep up with what is actual myth and what is truth. So, allow us to add another myth to your long list! Having a happy marriage is something all of us strive for when we get married, but perfection isn't possible. Sometimes looking for perfection in a marriage can be the very downfall of your marriage. …
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Ding! Ding! Everyone to their corners! Arguing with your partner can be one of the most frustrating things about being in a relationship. We know that trying to communicate your needs to a person who “doesn't seem to be picking up what you're putting down” can lead to something more heated. Here's the good news, fighting with your partner doesn't m…
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We can all agree sex is one of the pillars of a good relationship. When the sex is good, sometimes it can be a distraction, but what if you are using sex to avoid truly connecting with your partner? Emotions can be complicated, and who's got time for that roller coaster. Sex can be used to avoid how you truly feel, and you convince yourself this is…
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EVERYTHING IS PERFECT....A phrase we've all said to ourselves to will us through a situation that is the furthest from perfect. Everything Is Perfect, or EIP, can be more than a phrase to whisper to ourselves in a moment of need. EIP can be the very thing that can change your whole life. Adopting EIP as not just a saying but as the lens that you vi…
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Have you ever considered dating a younger man?? We can all hear the collective groans as you think about that question. Ladies, the reality is that there is a shortage of men at the moment and sometimes you have to expand your expectations when looking for a partner. We know you have your list, but have you thought maybe your list is keeping you fr…
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Porn...the one word in the English language guaranteed to get you some looks if spoken in a group for sure. The truth is we've all watched porn at one point in our lives and most likely watching porn is a solo activity. But what if you didn't have to watch it alone and you could watch it with your partner? This week on the podcast, The Amazing Clar…
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Do you have a Body Count? And no, we are not talking about an actual body count because that's when things can get a bit messy. When we say body count we mean what is the magic number of people that you've slept with in your history of doing the do? What ever that number is theres no judgement here. But, have you revealed that number to your partne…
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No one gets into marriage expecting to be bored. When you decide to get married, you have this fairytale made up in your head. Marriage can be a fairytale but you also have to be realistic about your marriage. Sometimes, being married is boring but you have to realize that if your marriage is a snooze-fest, it just might be you who is making your m…
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What if the one thing keeping you from find love is YOUR EGO!? That’s right, your ego could be the culprit for why you can't seem to find that diamond in the rough. We all have an ego and sometimes that ego can be your best friend and other times it can be the very thing that causes you to be alone. This week, The Amazing Clarks talk about how you …
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Have you ever spied on a partner? Here's a better, question, does your partner know that you spied on them? While it's not the Cold War, spying on a partner can definitely cause a war between you two. You might have a good reason to spy, but what are your choices saying about your relationship? Melanie and Anthony discuss how they both have spied o…
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Do you ever ask yourself, “is love a construct?” Yeah, us neither, but what if that butterfly feeling you get when you see that person you've been crushing on is just in your mind? Or ever wonder where that first kiss feeling is when you're 10 years into a relationship? In this episode, the Clarks discuss the differences between real, long-lasting …
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When you think of the word legacy, what comes to mind? Some will say that their career is the legacy they wish to leave to the world and some may say how they treated others is their legacy. Today, the Clarks talk about how leaving a Love Legacy can be one of the most important things you can leave to yourself, your loved ones and your community. M…
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Do You hear those wedding bells? The time has come. Anthony's little girl is getting married, and he has BIG feelings about it. If you are a long time listener, you know that Anthony's papa heart is strong. He was a stay at home dad with Toni, and while he balled like a baby at their oldest daughter's wedding too, this shift in his role as a father…
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You know that feeling when you've talked to someone over and over and you can't stop thinking about them and all of a sudden you're wondering if they are the one? OR are you like pre-Anthony Melanie? Calling up dudes knowing that they are NOT they one but because they can throw it down in the bedroom? Do you wonder what makes you feel one way or an…
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Is your partner starting to feel more like a roommate? We know that there are A LOT of reasons as to why you might have lost that loving feeling, but you don't have to stay trapped in that sexless marriage! (or sexless relationship) No, we're not telling you to leave your partner. The Amazing Clarks are here to break down how to get that spark back…
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Mother's Day is fast approaching and Melanie has traveled back west to spend some time with her babies. That doesn't mean that doesn't mean that we can't celebrate moms while she's away! Anthony has invited his mom, Queen Jean, to the mic to get her thoughts on dating as an older woman, marriage (she's had three), and what she thinks about his and …
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Are you currently in your "Waiting Season" and feeling impatient for your happily ever after? Many of us have gone through periods of waiting, which can be challenging and cause doubts about whether our time will ever come. However, what we do during this season is crucial. In this episode, The Amazing Clarks provide valuable insight into how to ma…
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We've all been there, when you meet someone and they check every box externally. They're fine, they've got a good job, a nice place to live, they have a functional car, all of the things that make you say that this might be worth pursuing is there. Then... it happens. The connection just drops like internet in the 90s. You say something and they do…
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Have you ever gone along to just get along? You know what we mean. Agreeing to do the dishes every day for a week even though you KNOW THAT YOUVE DONE THOSE DISHES EVERY DAY FOR THE LAST 13 DAYS EVEN THOUGH YOU HATE HATE DOING THE DISHES just to avoid a fight.... ok pause. We're good. Today The Amazing Clarks are breaking down compromising versus c…
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Do you keep attracting the things you don't want? Chances are your thermostat is off! What is your thermostat? Well The Amazing Clarks are here to set you right. Your thermostat is what regulates what you get around you. Just like the thermostat in your house, if it's set at 70 it doesn't matter what you do your house is going to stay at 70 degrees…
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Do you believe in love? Not just love, but true love? Now a while back on the TikTok a video from Season 4 of Black Love Doc where Anthony & Melanie shared some of their love story had the people in the comments thinking it was a set up. The energy of love is what we're here to talk about today people. There's too much cynicism around love and The …
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Friendship, vulnerability, trust, and communication, these are the 4 components of intimacy that keep the Clarks love so strong. In this episode, the Clarks break down each one of these components and explain how each relate to one another. Listen in as they discuss how vulnerability is the connector to all things intimate. By the end of this episo…
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There's so much more to physical touch than we think. In this episode, the Clarks get into the fifth and last love language, physical touch. Listen in as Melanie expresses how she believes the impact of Covid-19 has enhanced our need for physical touch. While Anthony explains how his need for physical touch hasn't always been met. By the end of thi…
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In this episode, the Clarks answer an important question. When is it time to commit? Well for Melanie, she knew Anthony was her's even after they broke up. So in Melanie fashion, she decided to get Anthony's named tattooed on her back side. Listen in as Melanie shares why she got this tattoo and how risk of love is worth taking. Because at the end …
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Quality time means, when I'm with you, I'm going to be engaged with you, and present. In this episode, the Clarks get into the fourth love language, quality time. After being together for 31 years and listening to spirit and pouring into others, the Clarks learned how to be aware of others love languages. Listen in as the Clarks discuss how what's …
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In this episode, the Clarks get into the third love language, receiving gifts. Ultimately we all have our top 3 love languages, however, sometimes they change due to certain events. Listen in on how Anthony realizes and reflects on how gifts was once his love language and why it changed. While Melanie expresses that she typically showers herself wi…
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In this episode, the Clarks discuss the second love language that can be best described as doing something for your partner that you know they would like. Whether that'd be filling up their gas tank, watering their plants, or even cooking them a meal, it's Acts of Service. Listen in as both share how having Acts of Service as your love language, or…
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In this episode, the Clarks dig deep into the most common love languages, words of affirmation. Both express how words of affirmation are words that communicate your love, appreciation, and respect for another person. Not only does it help your partner feel a great sense of self worth but motivation as well. Listen in as both Melanie and Anthony sh…
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The Amazing Clarks are BACK! And they are ready to talk about everything love this month. Listen in as both Melanie and Anthony discuss what the 5 Love Languages are, how they work, and how they use them to assess themselves and show love to one another. This is just the start though! Make sure you connect with us over @theamazingclarks and let us …
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In this episode, The Amazing Clarks talk about Melanie's recent trip back to California and how important it was for both to have some time to themselves. Listen in as Melanie and Anthony teach you how to not lose yourself in love and to manage your thoughts, in order to not create fights or problems. Whether in a partnership or dating, it's okay t…
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In this episode, The Amazing Clarks explore the ego and the spirit and how in relationships we tend to filter through one or the other. Listen in as Melanie and Anthony teach you how to stop reacting to each other through the filter of ego and start building a relationship with your spirit. It's about knowing which is guiding you in your partnershi…
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How can women manage having a horny husband or partner? In this episode, The Amazing Clarks explore sexuality and the differences between how men and women deal with their sexual urges. Listen in as Melanie and Anthony teach you how to be aware of the meanings behind your partners urges and how to give each other grace. Because when you pour into y…
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In this episode, The Amazing Clarks explore being submissive in partnership and how you don't have to submit but you can be agreeable in love and dating. Listen in as Melanie and Anthony teach you how to play to your strengths and let go of the submissive mindset. Because each person has their own strengths and weaknesses, you just have to find the…
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What should you be focused on when it comes to love and dating? In this episode, The Amazing Clarks answer that question and discuss the importance of not only focusing on the "me" in dating and relationships but the "we". Listen in as Melanie and Anthony share how men and women look at love differently and how this can benefit you and your partner…
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Does masturbating make you feel uncomfortable? In this episode, The Amazing Clarks discuss the stigma of masturbating and how much better it can make you feel. Listen is as Melanie and Anthony share how masturbation has actually made their relationship stronger and how masturbating can actually make you attract the love you're looking for. Ultimate…
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In this episode, The Amazing Clarks discuss couples karma, further recognizing how treating one another can impact your relationship. Listen in as Melanie and Anthony share how irritation towards your partner is often something in yourself you don't want to look at. Although these thoughts can trigger a passionate debate, it's all an opportunity to…
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Are you creating rules about love and dating? In this episode, The Amazing Clarks discuss how playing games while dating isn't going to do much but hurt you in the long run. Listen in as Melanie and Anthony share how not playing games and just exuding confidence can help your dating life. The fine balance between not playing hard to get and not bei…
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You've met the love of your life and you've decided to start a family. You're in it! You've won! Now you've got this amazing bundle of joy, but what's this? Is it...resentment? All of a sudden your sexy date nights are all night diaper duties. Your weekend getaways are Saturdays at a theme restaurant. The romance is DEAD. You hate it here, and you …
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Ladies, tell us if you've heard this before: They say all the right things like, "Baby I love you. I want to spend the rest of my life with you. You're the only one for me." You drop your panties, maybe you just take off your dress (we're not judging). You have an incredible night of sex (AYYYE). You wake up the next day to text him about how you c…
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Senior citizens have been getting divorced in record numbers. We're talking about people who have been together for 40, 50, and even 60 years! We know it's hard to think of Granny and Pops parting ways but look, it does happen. AND if you're older it's okay to go and find your happiness we are cheering you on! But we wouldn't be The Amazing Clarks …
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Have you ever just KNOWN that you were destined to be with someone. Like you just know that that person is supposed to be your soulmate. It doesn't matter that they broke up with you ten years ago. It doesn't matter that they're dating someone else. You know that you two are meant to be! Well, The Amazing Clarks are here to tell you that you're wro…
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Do you live your life with an E.I.P. mindset? The Clarks do. E.I.P. means Everything Is Perfect! There are no accidents and there are no mistakes when it comes to this thing called life. This is the mantra that The Clarks live by and they're here to teach you how you can adapt an E.I.P. mindset. Listen in as Melanie and Anthony discuss how E.I.P. i…
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What happens before you get triggered? Triggers start with your mind and your thoughts and sometimes it's hard to stay consistent in life. That's what The Amazing Clarks are here for! You have to learn how to identify and get rid of your triggers yourself and learn how to stay in alignment no matter what. Listen in as Melanie and Anthony share ways…
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Singles! What's stopping you all from finding your love? Did you ever stop to think that it might just be.... you? We know you don't want you to be the problem but that's why we've got The Amazing Clarks here to help! Sometimes you don't even realize that you are setting yourself up for failure. It's time to right the ship and find yourself the ama…
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So back when Anthony was just a young man back in the day he would hear from other guys that all ladies had a secret switch in them, and if a guy was able to find that switch, the freak switch, that chick would fall in love with them. Now Melanie has some other thoughts about this whole weird New York fairy tale. There is more to sex than just an o…
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Have you ever told your partner or just a person you were dating that they HAD to choose? It was you or the other person? Well, The Amazing Clarks are here to tell you that EVERYONE loses when given an ultimatum. The person giving it, the person receiving it, hell even the person who caused it. Why do we fall into these ultimatum traps? Listen in a…
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In this episode, The Amazing Clarks talk about the importance of loving from your soul and loving someone else's soul. Melanie and Anthony share how trauma and bad experiences cause people to only listen to the voice of their ego, causing them to put up walls of destruction that only create physical world relationships. Listen in on how you can tel…
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