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The Weekly Hot Spot is a podcast hosted by Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika, with fabulous guests.. These women are active in the real-life fetish scene and do Distance Domination on the phone. Hear candid conversations about sex, fetish, BDSM, kink, phone sex, and even vanilla erotic pleasure. The show airs every Monday at 1 pm eastern. Check out our blog: www.weeklyhotspot.com
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The Weekly Hot Spot is a podcast hosted by Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika, with fabulous guests.. These women are active in the real-life fetish scene and do Distance Domination on the phone. Hear candid conversations about sex, fetish, BDSM, kink, phone sex, and even vanilla erotic pleasure. The show airs every Monday at 1 pm eastern. Check out our blog: www.weeklyhotspot.com
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×Are you a naughty sissy? Maybe you’re simply someone who needs a firm hand with your feminization training. Perhaps you are someone who is new to sissification and curious about what might be involved. This episode is all about using BDSM protocols, pain, and firm control for sissy training. What is petticoat discipline? Petticoating and its origin in Victorian England (TLDR those people were very kinky!) Discipline can be used for behavior modification, correction, and more. Maintenance spanking to ensure submission and obedience. Mistress Erika points out that the training might not involve any form of physical pain - it can be things like: Erotic humiliation which we call pain for the brain BDSM high protocol used to reinforce roles of power exchange Feminization as part of a FLR - Female Led Relationships How a Femdom Mistress can use tasks and rewards to reinforce feminization goals The hosts give specific scene examples that call for: Locking clothing and shoes CBT: ball slapping, etc. Chastity Have you ever thought about how many ways there are to train a sissy? We have (as you can tell) - now we want to hear from you! Do you need a firm hand? Let us know. Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy…
What do you do when you have kink desires and you can’t get involved in the kink community or go, in person, to a Pro Domme? For many people, the solution is finding an online Mistress or someone who specializes in online domination. The ladies first talk about different places where someone might find a Femdom. Unless you happen to ‘run across’ a Dominant Woman in the wild, so to speak, we tend to be in the kink community, Pro Domme spaces, or available for online Domination. Those categories are not mutually exclusive; many ladies belong to more than one group. What are some of the benefits of having an online Mistress? Your hosts are both with LDW Group femdom phone sex so our experience is only with this elite company. This episode talks about some of the unique benefits of what we do: Privacy The caller controls his or her anonymity by choosing what to share. That anonymity allows for a discrete exploration of erotic fantasies Playing with a professional means an affair gone wrong won’t blow up your life Spur of the moment sessions Keeping the various aspects of your life separate Mistress Erika mentions a pet peeve of hers and Ms Olivia agrees! Listen to behind the scenes stories and learn about phone sex reviews, Mistress recommendations and more. Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy Mistress recommendation form: My Perfect Mistress…
This episode is inspired by several sissy sluts who have a fantasy about being a porn star. That is the perfect career for a sissy slut, isn’t it? LOL The Femdom hosts talk about transwomen who are porn stars right now. Do you have a favorite trans porn star? We do and you’ll hear some of our top picks who are in the adult entertainment business right now. The ladies talk about a sissy gurl they know who is exploring this as part of her sissy training and feminization. What are some of the possible roleplay options for a sissy: T he sexy girlfriend with a special something extra The submissive sissy The slutty bimbo - which often involves humiliation and emasculation Anything that includes a sissy maid - what kind of clean up will happen? The cuckold husband turned into a sissySPH - small penis humiliation and/or chastity The role of BBC in sissy porn Cum eating and CEI to train a sissy to love to eat cum What kind of script or scene would you want to be in? Hmmmmm? Let us know! Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy…
We’re posting this just before the New Year because we want to give you a chance to hear our kinky New Year’s ideas before you finalize your goals list. LOL We’re so helpful. Right at the top, the conversation veers into an odd kink goal for Mistress Olivia. Mistress Erika has a New Year’s goal of getting a specific kind of submissive pet. Could you be the one? You might hear about the goal for Ms. Erika’s ignore pet - or you might just hear the sounds of silence that thrill someone with an ignore fetish. Speaking of requests, Ms Olivia wants to do a sex train in 2025 using a universal remote control app. This goal should go nicely with another goal: A submissive sissy who wants to be a porn star! As always, this is a conversation between Femdoms about BDSM, kink, life and love.So …. Join in! What things do YOU want to explore in the New Year? Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy…
This is not your traditional Christmas theme, this is more of an end of year look at some of the top episodes of The Weekly Hot Spot. We owe our growth and success to you, our listeners, so this episode is also a personal thank you to each of you for joining us on our kinky journey of BDSM education, sissy training, sex work and general naughtiness. Mistress Olivia talks about the number of downloads in the past year. Apparently, the numbers put us in the top 10% of podcasts - not just sex podcasts or BDSM kink podcasts – but all podcasts. That boggles our minds when we think about it. What category is number one? Sissy training and feminization shows rule the top podcast episodes. The number one download is from January of this year: Should All Sissies Learn to Masturbate Like A Woman? Today your Femdom hosts talk about sissygasms, sex while feminized, and more. The second largest category is cock control. Now, we know that cock control can mean everything from JOI, guided masturbation, tease and delay, tease and denial all the way to total orgasm control with chastity. There are so many options and we’re really glad to see this category is extremely popular. Other popular podcast episodes feature conversations about: cock sucking, cuckolding, strapon play or pegging and more. The ladies have a great time doing the podcast and this one is full of laughter, sidetracks called going on safari, and general shenanigans. Thank you for joining us for this kinky journey! We’re so glad you’re here with us! Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy…
We listen and we hear you. Many of our feminization friends talk about needing structure, support and practical tips. In fact, we have so many requests that we’ve created something special just for you! This episode is all about a year long feminization calendar from your favorite sexy podcast hosts. Don’t feel alone! Use the calendar as a way to stay on track with your feminization and find inspiration to go to the next level. This feminization training calendar is a budget friendly way to bridge the gap between feeling all alone and being under strict, personalized guidance from a Femdom Mistress. 52 weeks of feminization Fun assignments Sexy training Feminine affirmations Practical advice And so much more. Are you ready to begin? Here’s the link to the Year of Feminization by Mistress Erika and Mistress Olivia . Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy…
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There is an art to tease and denial games. It makes sense to think that the woman is the leader of T&D and that’s true but, there is also the relationship between Mistress and her submissive. Today’s episode asks the question: Do you have what it takes to be a Tease Toy for a Femdom Mistress? First, the ladies talk about tease toys. Who are they, what does this phrase mean? The ladies share insights into what they both appreciate about someone who is a tease toy. You’ll hear what turns them on about YOU! The ladies, of course, find the control thrilling. You'll hear conversation about power exchange and energy. Both really adore the sounds a man makes when being teased - moaning, gasping, and pleading. Do you love to be teased? Are you a fan of edging and orgasm delay? Ms Erika mentions chastity and teasing. Is there a difference between being a tease toy or a submissive man? Do you have to be submissive or into BDSM to be a tease pet? What are some of the teasing techniques? How does a Mistress push your boundaries, come up with creative ideas and guide you to some of the most explosive orgasms ever? How does distance domination work when doing tease and denial? What does a Mistress look for in a tease toy? What will happen if you come to each woman for teasing? The answers might surprise you! Mistress Erika’s personal blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy Mistress Olivia’s personal blog: Experienced Mistress…
In this episode we continue our conversation with the Chastity Queen and explore using chastity for sissy training and feminization. Now, just because we’re talking about putting a sissy in chastity, much of the conversation about chastity will apply to many people who are curious about this form of submission to a Dominant Woman. Chastity Queen has a live-in sissy submissive named Bunny. The ladies start off asking for a reality check about being a full-time, live-in sub to a Femdom. Some of these answers will likely surprise folks who have a fantasy about being a live-in sub or slave to a Domme. What does it mean when the Chastity Queen says, “Chastity is freedom.” This can include: The chastity cage focuses the attention of a submissive Being locked promotes devotion to Mistress The cage is a constant reminder that they have a higher purpose The chaste sub is freed from mindless masturbation “There is nothing more feminizing than to not have a cock available.” That’s a great comment about using chastity for sissy training and feminization. Chastity cages that mimic a vagina Being caged increases feminine feelings The role of humiliation in BDSM and chastity play Using small chastity cages to shrink the clitty of a sissy Crossdresser purging and cycles of interest in feminization You’ll hear personal stories, suggestions and ideas as well as tips for interactions with a Mistress. Even if you have no interest in chastity, this episode will give you a peek inside the interior worlds of three Femdoms. Chastity Queen Linktree Mistress Olivia’s blog Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy…
Today’s guest, the Chastity Queen, talks about her personal experiences being a Domme and so much more. This is your chance to listen in as 3 Dominant Women talk about life, love and power. Topics include: The role of women in society and the trad wife phenomenon How men treat wives versus Dommes The dynamics of power and what power exchange really looks like How serving a Femdom can make a man a better husband to his wife Communication, kink, and intimacy Teaching men how to serve women Why treating women well actually benefits the man The value of having a BDSM kink community How people learn kinky skills Why experience and knowledge is so important with BDSM (and life!) This is a wide ranging conversation that gives you a peek into the minds of these Dommes. Chastity Queen Linktree Mistress Olivia’s blog Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy…
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Every Femdom hears this: “Mistress I want to serve you.” What does that mean? There are many ways for a sub to serve a Mistress. There is no arbitrary ‘right’ way to have a D/s relationship. Part of BDSM negotiation means making sure that each person is in agreement about roles, expectations, activities, etc. Topics in this podcast episode include: The difference between fantasy BDSM roleplay and lifestyle kink relationships. A discussion of some things that help different people to feel submissive. The role of chastity, orgasm denial and/or suffering for your Mistress. Does a service submissive automatically mean sexual service? What are some non-sexual things that a service sub provides? Since your podcast hosts do Distance Domination, the role of a service sub is a little different but the fundamentals are the same as an in person play partner. What can someone do for their Goddess? The ladies have some specific suggestions: Visit our blogs and stay on the blog for at least 3 minutes, click on several pages, staying on each page for several minutes. Write comments on our blogs Follow us on social media; comment on and share our posts. What does the sub get out of serving a Mistress? Hear what other submissives say about being a service sub. Have you ever wanted to be a real service sub? What does that phrase mean to you? Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy…
We hear all your secrets and sexual fantasies. A lot of our callers fantasize about sex with a transwoman. Today’s episode explores this. Topics include: How popular is the sex with a transwoman fantasy? Many men ask, am I straight if I want to suck the cock of a transwoman? To start off, a quick overview of names for transwomen and how to be respectful with the terms you use to talk about these people. For example, some of the outdated and terms are: She male Tranny Transvestite T girl Transsexual This conversation covers: Gender identity, sexual orientation, sexual desires What to call genitalia? What is cis gender? BDSM, erotic humiliation and submission. The role of a Femdom or Dominant woman who says, you will suck her cock for me. You’ll hear quotes from men who want to suck the cock of a transwoman, a transwoman who experienced her first sexual experience with another transwoman, and so much more. Do YOU have a fantasy of being with a transwoman? What is your fantasy? Have you done this in person? What happened? We want to hear everything! Mistress Oliviai’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy Our free adult social networking site: Enchantrix Empire…
This episode is inspired by a blog post written by our friend and fellow Mistress, Ms Demi. Listen in as three Pro Domme’s talk about the submissives in our lives. What do Femdoms have to say about power exchange and those who need to submit to powerful, dominant women? Mistress Olivia kicks off the conversation with a quote by Mistress Demi: “Submission isn’t merely about obeying orders or bending to another’s will. It’s a profound journey into the depths of one’s own desires. Learning to trust, to yield, and to find freedom in the embrace of another’s dominance.” Topics include: BDSM and trust between the Dominant and the submissive. The difference between a fantasy roleplay BDSM scene and wanting to be a lifestyle submissive. The importance of BDSM communication. How to do BDSM negotiation of needs, desires, and limits. What are the five words that you should never say to a Femdom? The answer might really surprise you. The ladies dispel the myth that submissives are weak or damaged. Submissives must have power in order for there to be power exchange. Is submission a gift to the Domme? What do these women think of those who submit? Lots of insight into the submissive journey from the perspective of three Femdoms (who are always, of course, right about everything LOL). Mistress Demi’s blog: Sensual Cock Tease Ms Demi’s blog post that in spired this episode: What Does It Mean To Be Submissive? Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress…
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Today’s episode is inspired by a listener who wants help talking with a partner about feminization desires. Anita wants us to say something that will change the minds of wives or girlfriends who don’t like feminization with their partner. We don’t know that we can change minds, but this episode covers topics like: What do cisgender, heterosexual women think about crossdressers or sissies? What might be going on in the minds of the cis female partners? Here are some of the questions female partners of crossdressers might have: My boyfriend wears lingerie, what does that mean? Does wearing women’s clothes mean he is gay or bi? If I encourage him to explore his femme side, will he leave me? What does this desire to be a submissive sissy mean for us as a couple? How does a woman attracted to men feel about a partner who wants to dress as a woman? Other topics include: The difference between Drag Queens, crossdressers and sissies. Why do both of your Femdom hosts like crossdressers, sissies and men in panties? How to have conversations about erotic desires, boundaries and intimacy. Have you tried to talk with your female partner about feminization? What happened? If you haven’t had that kind of talk but you want to then this episode will hopefully help you have that conversation. Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy…
Basically, Locktober is a month-long chastity challenge. Typically, it involves those who identify as submissive and wear a chastity cage the entire month of October. This episode is about orgasm delay, orgasm denial, chastity training, and why a Femdon enjoys having a chastity pet. Topics include: What is chastity? What is Locktober? Why would someone want to go a full month without an orgasm? Can you participate in Locktober if you can’t or don’t want to go a whole month without an orgasm? Does Loctober always require a chastity cage? Are there ways to experience orgasm denial without a cage? What is chastity by will? What is Mistress Olivia’s workaround when someone can’t wear a chastity cage? How to use Locktober to break bad habits like chronic masturbation or to install good habits like achieving fitness or other personal goals. What is panty chastity? How to use chastity as part of sissy training or feminization. How to someone in a very small chastity cage to emphasize the emasculation of a sissy. This episode is all about submission, cock control, and the various ways a Femdon can use chastity for some wicked fun. If you’re curious about Locktober, chastity or sissy training using denial, this episode is for you! Previous episodes about chastity: Chastity Interview with Mature Metal How do I get my vanilla wife to put me in chastity? Meet Mrs. Mature Metal Mistress Olivia’s blog Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog Intelligent Phone Fantasy Enchantrix Empire : our free adult social networking site…
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We hear from a lot of subs who are worried about topping from the bottom. That’s a BDSM term that means a submissive who flips the power dynamic in a way that is disrespectful, rude or otherwise irritating to the Dominant. Some subs hear that and worry that they are topping from the bottom if they make ANY requests of the Domme. We don’t want you to worry so this episode is all about how to communicate your needs to your Femdom Mistress. This is inspired by someone who wants to know how to request a Pro Domme to be creative without acting like he is trying to be “in charge” of the session. Topics include: What is topping from the bottom? Some relationship dynamics and other issues to consider when deciding what is bad BDSM behavior from a submissive. Insight into the role of vulnerability and trust in BDSM power exchange relationships. How to communicate with a Dominatrix or Femdom Mistress Differences in communication with a Pro Domme versus an unpaid kink player that you meet in BDSM circles. Differences between fantasy submission and power exchange. Your Femdom hosts give examples of how to communicate your desires in appropriate ways. Remember communication, trust and honesty about what you need are the most important aspects of any BDSM relationship. This podcast will give you some of the tools to feel confident that you are not topping from the bottom. Mistress Olivia’s blog Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog Intelligent Phone Fantasy…
We continue our conversation with author Jane Boon. Jane’s first novel Edge Play is about an investment banker who becomes a Pro Domme via her Pro Domme friend Erika … and this second book focuses on Erika. Both books show women coming into their own personal power. Jane Boon tells a lively, interesting story and even without our favorite Femdom and BDSM themes, this is a very fun read. This interview episode focuses on the themes of: lust, power and money. Why does a smart, capable woman become a Femdom? What attracts someone to BDSM and kink power exchange situations? For the submissive, why would someone want to be on the receiving end of BDSM play? How can a submissive service his Femdom outside of the kink? What is submissive service? Can BDSM be a kind of therapy for some people? What does it mean to call Femdom scenes, performance art? This is a conversation about extremes of emotions interspersed with personal experiences of three very smart women. Enjoy! And, get the book! Here’s the Amazon Author page for Jane Boon . Jane Boon’s website Mistress Olivia’s website Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s website Intelligent Phone Fantasy…
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Money, power and sex … specifically kinky sex … are the themes of today’s episode with author Jane Boon. Jane is the author of the Femdom themed novel Edge Play and today she’s here to talk about her newest novel Bold Strokes. We highly recommend both of Jane's books. In fact, if you’re submissive, here’s your order: “Read Edge Play and Bold Strokes by Jane Boon and report back.” Even if you’re not submissive, do yourself a favor and read them. You’re welcome. Edge Play is a novel about Amy, an investment banker turned Dominatrix. The novel is set amongst the greed and arrogance of Wall Street elites and the 2008 financial crash. One of the main themes is a young woman coming into her own power after being mentored by her best friend who is an Art Gallery owner and Pro Domme. In the new novel, Bold Strokes, the settings of the art world, high finance and even higher intensity BDSM scenes lets the reader get to know Erika, the gallery owner / Pro Domme. How did she become who she is and what happened to her during the same timeframe as the first book told from Amy's perspective. Some of the themes are: How does a woman become a Femdom? What is the mindset of someone who is a Dominatrix? Who are some of the men that love to be tormented by the power, beauty and cruelty of a Dominant woman? Negotiation and consent in BDSM relationships Sex work, sex workers and the inherent imbalance of power between powerful men and young women. This is a wonderful novel and the kink makes it even more fun. Bold Strokes is an exciting read with unforgettable characters. Here’s the Amazon Author page for Jane Boon . Jane Boon’s website Mistress Olivia’s website Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s website Intelligent Phone Fantasy…
This episode is inspired by a question from a crossdresser but we hear many people in the kink community talk about the impulse to throw away sex toys and other kinky things. Why? Well, anyone who is into things that aren’t considered ‘mainstream’ can feel the wrong kind of shame or fear of being discovered by family, friends or work associates. The Femdom hosts will share personal stories of self-acceptance as kinky dominant women and how this podcast started as a way to dispel myths about BDSM, kink, and feminization. This includes conversations about how crossdressing can give someone access to feelings or behavior that aren’t accepted when in guy mode. This episode covers emotional or psychological questions like: Why does someone who loves women want to crossdress or act like a woman? Does throwing out everything related to your feminization or kink ever work? Will a decision to stop being a sissy ever last long term? Why does the urge to crossdress come back even stronger after purging? Is there a way to process the guilt or come to terms with the wrong kind of shame associated with something that is a huge part of your psyche? For those into sissy play and feminization, the binge and purge cycle can run into thousands of dollars and causes endless frustration. How to avoid the urge to purge? Practical tips include: Understanding why you want to dress in women’s lingerie or women’s clothes. How to identify when societal teaching is needlessly holding you back. Learning when and why you want to dress in order to identify where you are in your cycle. How to find a community that will accept and support you. How to put away rather than throw away - ie get a storage locker! If you’ve ever felt alone in your desires, this episode is for you. You’re not alone, you’re not crazy and we get it! Ms Olivia’s blog Experienced Mistress Ms Erika’s blog Intelligent Phone Fantasy Free adult social networking site Enchantrix Empire…
This episode is inspired by Sissy Brenda who sent us this question: “I would love to hear a podcast with lingerie shopping tips for those gurls who might be nervous about buying in person. What stores and products would you recommend?” Great suggestion Sissy Brenda! Here you go! The ladies begin with real talk about some of the risks of public humiliation and share safety considerations.. There are also ethical issues with consent and BDSM or kink play in public. All that said, these Femdoms are skilled at feminization and in person lingerie shopping can be fabulous for sissy training, etc. Suggestion for shopping in person include: Mindset What to wear How to present yourself And more Sissy Brenda also asks about thongs which inspires a conversation about panty styles including thongs. The ladies recommend some specific brands. Hanky Panky thongs Calvin Klein invisibles Skims : up to 4X ! Aerie Finally, even though this episode is about lingerie shopping in person, there are specific suggestion about how to order online and make sure that your purchases are private and discrete. We sent an email letting Sissy Brenda know that this episode posts today and she wrote back: "Hello Mistress: I found success with the Hanky Panky thongs you suggested. Surprisingly comfortable and so many colors and prints! I also tried and liked the Victoria's Secret seamless thongs. Also very comfortable and great with leggings. Never pictured myself a thong gurl but you may have converted me! I look forward to the podcast! All the best, Sissy Brenda" Happy shopping ladies! Ms Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Ms Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy…
We love it when other smart ladies come up with great ideas. Be sure to send a thank you to Mistress Demi for her idea to use X Spaces (Twitter Spaces) to connect with our friends and even make some new friends. Ms Demi joins us to talk about Spaces. The ladies talk with her about how the Femdoms at Enchantrix Empire are using spaces. For example, every Friday at 7pm eastern various Mistresses gather in the Space for Femdom Friday's. Each week has a different Mistress host who will lead the conversation. There will be a topic or activity like naughty Mad Libs and other games. People can listen on Twitter X but the Mistresses are the only ones who will be speakers. Everyone else can join in by going to the Community Kink chatroom and typing while you listen. When Ms Erika heard Ms Demi’s idea - Ms Erika set up Spaces for The Weekly Hot Spot podcast. We’ll be live every Thursday at 1pm eastern time -- talking about this kink BDSM podcast, episode ideas, answering questions and, well, basically having a great time shooting the shiznit with each other and all of you. You’ll hear some of those random thoughts in this episode! Join us on Twitter X: Ms Demi: @DommeDemi Ms Olivia: @MistressOlivia1 Ms Erika: @ErikaEnchantrix Demi’s space for Femdom Friday Sept 6, 2024 Community kink chat room Look for The Weekly Hot Spot space every Thursday at 1 pm eastern. Cum have lunch with us. Mistress Demi’s blog: Sensual Cock Tease Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy…
Miss Cassie returns to talk about self-bondage and rope play. Ms Erika starts off the conversation with a question about how Distance Domination Femdoms can incorporate self bondage into BDSM sessions over the phone. Miss Cassie points out that a long distance Mistress can talk someone through a tie or use other things to create the feelings of being bound, tied, restrained or otherwise controlled by her. The ladies discuss how vivid descriptions can combine with some simple physical actions to create the feelings, emotions, and sensations of a bondage scene. Miss Cassie points out that descriptions are important even during in-person sessions in a Dominatrix Dungeon. Things to consider: What is your self bondage safety plan? Importance of a safe word in BDSM play in person on online H igh protocol versus freely speaking during a scene Ideas and questions from listeners: Using remote controlled sex toys during online domination sessions Using a timed lock box for keys similar to a lock box used for chastity keys Predicament play safety Edge play and special issues involved in BDSM negotiation Keeping safety scissors nearby just in case you need them Special considerations for submissive men who are in a relationship with a vanilla woman: How to avoid leaving marks What causes marks and how long various marks last, for example, tying up the cock and balls (CBT) can leave small broken capillaries. Marks will depend on the scene, the tie of the ropes and the physical fitness of the submissive. What can someone use for self bondage? Examples include: Sweatband, headband or scrunchie Shoe laces ¼ inch diameter rope Paracord Zone mummification with plastic wrap Of course, you’ll hear stories from this elite Pro Domme and personal stories from all three Femdoms. Miss Cassie’s website: Miss Cassie Loves Rope Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: I ntelligent Phone Fantasy…
Today’s guest is rope bondage expert Miss Cassie. This is the first part of a 2 part interview with one of the best riggers in BDSM today. This lifestyle Femdom has insights into lots of aspects of BDSM, kink play, leather history and so much more. You’ll hear: ** Miss Cassie’s personal kink journey - from submissive to Femdom ** Leather tradition in BDSM ** Lineage in BDSM leather family tradition Mistress Olivia takes us on safari with a question about polyamory, cheating and sexual or emotional partners. BDSM education continues with: ** training involved in BDSM ** psychology of kink ** what a practiced Dominant will ask a prospective play partner ** BDSM negotiations, safe words and edge play ** safety and kink ** sub drop and aftercare ** Differences between Eastern Shibari and Western bondage techniques ** Cultural history of Shibari in Japan as a prison capture system ** How to avoid or deal with circulatory issues in rope bondage ** Dealing with expectations and the difference between fantasy and reality This is a lively conversation with three strong, powerful women. Enjoy and check out all the websites: Miss Cassie’s website: Miss Cassie Loves Rope Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy Leather Archives and Museum…
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The podcast episode about the secret sissy that asks if you feel alone in your feminization really hit a nerve. Many of our listeners say that they do wish they could share their femme self with a partner, friends or family. This episode is a sissy success story from someone who is sharing her authentic self and finding her community. Meet our new Irish friend, Shauna with a special shout out to her, her wife and her ladies in Ireland. We see you and we’re sending lipstick kisses to you! Many people tell us about the challenges of striking a balance between their femme self and their other life responsibilities. Is it possible to be authentic and accepted? . In this episode you’ll hear your Femdom hosts discuss: ** Coming out about crossdressing desires ** How to talk with your partner about wanting to wear feminine lingerie ** How to talk calmly about concerns, limits and boundaries ** Things to consider with family and other life circumstances. ** How to find places and people who will cherish your authentic self ** Sexual experiences when en femme. Do you want to be with a man? Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika have lots of comments and other tips for crossdressers, sissies and transwomen. This episode centers on people who identify as engaging in some sort of feminization but much of the content also applies to anyone who is kinky and struggling to find people who understand and support you. Mistress Olivia’s blog Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog Intelligent Phone Fantasy…
Going to a kink event in person can be daunting, especially if it’s your first time or you haven’t been to a play party in years. Today’s episode features Wicked Peanut from Studio 58 with a wealth of BDSM knowledge and tips for going to in person BDSM play parties like the one called Naughty Knowledge. You’ll hear conversation about: ** Flying solo: is it okay to show up at a fetish event alone? ** What can I expect when I arrive at Naughty Knowledge? ** How do I behave? What is proper BDSM and kink etiquette? ** What is consent in kink and how do you handle this at a fetish event? ** Pick up play: what is it, how do you get it and what not to do. ** How to do BDSM negotiations and why communication is so important in kink play. ** Are there really BDSM classes? ** What do people wear or not wear? ** What are some of the themed parties? ** The difference between a BDSM play space and a 24 hour sex room. ** What Studio 58 does to help people find pick up play partners. ** How to volunteer and why this is a great way to make friends in the BDSM scene. Are you curious about the kink lifestyle and want to know more? Studio 58 Events and Naughty Knowledge in August are great opportunities to have a safe space to explore BDSM, meet other kinky people and have a lot of sexy fun! Naughty Knowledge August 15 - 18, 2024 Studio 58 Fetlife You’ll need to join Fetlife to look up the home page. Just do a search for Studio 58 on Fetlife Mistress Olivia’s blog, Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog, Intelligent Phone Fantasy When: August 15 - 18, 2024 Where: Private Hotel Takeover & Event in Gettysburg PA. Who: Produced by Studio 58. Designed for newcomers, swinks, swingers, experienced kinksters and even brand-new folks who may be kinky in the bedroom but want to know more about safe and consensual BDSM. What: 3 day event with BDSM and kink education, skill sharing, demonstrations, pick up play opportunities, full BDSM dungeon play space and so much more. Registration and more information on the Studio 58 website in the Naughty Knowledge section.…
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Stroke-a-thon was a huge hit when we did it last time. There were lots of people who missed it and they got really sad. So, of course, the ladies usuallty make you WAIT … and wait and wait … yes, we do love our tease and denial sessions ... but now, back by popular demand, the cock stroking challenge of Stroke-a-thon. Mistress Erika starts the podcast off with an outline of the event. Basically it’s something like 20 sexy ladies teasing you and, this time, TRYING to get you to cum and you are trying desperately to NOT cum until you are the last cock standing. Why? First, because it’s a fun challenge and second, there are THREE free phone sex prizes if you can withstand our sexy voices telling you to cum. First prize is 60 minutes free with the Mistress of your choice. If that’s not incentive I don’t know what is. Here’s a write up of what you need to do to be part of this epic edging Stroke-a-thon event: The ladies talk about what you need to do to enter the Stroke-a-thon and then bring in some sexy Mistress friends to give you some special insights: ** Why are these Femdoms so excited by this event? ** Why do we WANT you to cum? ** Get special tricks for edging longer. ** Learn how to increase your stroking stamina. ** Get a preview of some of our favorite masturbation techniques. In this episode you’ll hear from: The Scarlet Mistress Mistress Harper Ms Nadia Mistress Becky Goddess Skylar Mistress Demi Goddess Fiona Remember there is a lot of conversation about the Stroke-a-thon in our free adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire . Are you ready? Remember if you need private lessons for edging, gooning, roleplay and all sort of fun, kinky adventures, just get in touch! Mistress Olivia Mistress Erika…
Brittany Wilson, Sales and Marketing Director at The Dungeon Store, is the guest for all about violet wands and electro play. You’ll get answers to various common questions about electroplay: What is a Violet Wand? How is a Violet Wand different from a TENS Unit? What is the science behind kinksters using electroplay toys? Who uses Violet Wands and why? What does it mean when it’s called a sensation toy? For BDSM players who are or have a pain slut, will electro play be suitably painful? Does electro play leave marks on the skin? Brittany explains and then talks about aftercare. Safety is a huge part of experienced BDSM kinksters, there is a discussion about dos and don’ts with electroplay, TENS units, medical devices, etc. This episode is packed with useful information, BDSM education, kinky stories and much more. The Dungeon Store Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy…
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Today’s guest is Brittany Wilson, Sales and Marketing Director at The Dungeon Store. This is a curated BDSM toy store that is second generation, female owned. There is so much to talk about! Brittany’s mom founded The Dungeon Store nearly two decades ago. The vast amount of BDSM gear and kink toys can be overwhelming. The Dungeon Store has a curated collection of BDSM toys and one of the most robust collections of electro play options for sale anywhere. The quality and creativity earned The Dungeon Store 3 AVN award nominations in the best pleasure products category. Today’s episode is a lively conversation that goes to a wide variety of topics. For example, a question about wax play and the flameless wax play kit leads to a story from Mistress Olivia about a house fire and what survived the flames. The deer tan flogger that is for sale in The Dungeon Store allows Brittany to talk about different kinds of floggers and how they are made. The Curious Human Phenomenon: An Exploration of Some Uncommonly Explored Aspects of BDSM by Peter Masters inspires a dialog about the psychology of power exchange, the difference between a Top and a Domme and much more. Mistress Erika shares her interest in the occult. Brittany gives details about why there is a wide variety of occult books in The Dungeon Store. This episode runs the gamut of funny stories, cautionary stories, BDSM education, spirituality and opening your mind to new ideas. The Dungeon Store: https://thedungeonstore.com/ Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/…
The Sissy Pageant questions ended up being a gold mine of information, tips and support for those who are into crossdressing, sissy play or who are transwomen. In this episode, you’ll hear all about the challenges of feminization along with creative solutions from your Femdom hosts and the gurls involved in the Sissy Pageant Topics include: Self image concerns going from male presenting to en femme Tips for a more feminine appearing body How to speak in a more feminine manner The challenge of high heels and liquid eyeliner Makeup while needing to wear glasses Fashion and clothing Dating, meeting people and sex How to have a sissygasm Chastity as part of feminization or sissy training This episode has advice from other ladies as well as from the Femdom hosts. If you have to keep your sissy or crossdresser activities on the down low, there are ideas for staying feminine when you’re not able to dress en femme. What feminization or sissy challenges (or advice) do you have? You might inspire another episode! Mistress Olivia's blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika's blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ Enchantrix Empire: https://enchantrixempire.com/…
Today’s episode is inspired by the amazing answers to the Sissy Pageant questions. If you are not interested in feminization, this podcast might still resonate with you because this is about staying true to yourself and balancing that with the ‘rest’ of life and personal responsibilities Here’s the background. Enchantrix Empire, our free adult social networking site, was the recent location for our Sissy Pageant. Participants sent in 3 photos and then answered 4 questions about their feminization journey. Mistress Daphne is today's guest because she is the first one to publicly say what the Mistress judges were thinking. Here’s what Ms Daphne said: “Is anyone as stunned as I am at these answers?! I find myself weeping with their stories and confessions! I am just so honored to listen to them. I want to give every one of them a giant hug for an hour! Just wow.” This ends up being a conversation about vulnerability, desire and connection touching on: ** Fear of rejection when thinking about telling a partner about fantasies, desires and needs. ** Hiding feminization desires from a partner who won’t understand or accept them. ** How to have a conversation about erotic desires at the start of a relationship (in a perfect world). ** Balancing the desire to be a sissy with the responsibility to others in your life. ** Ideas for how to feel femme without being en femme (dressed in women’s clothes). This is a really tender episode, almost a love letter to our girly gurls and all of us who are kinky. Mistress Daphne: https://enchantrixdaphne.com/ Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ Enchantrix Empire free adult social networking site: https://enchantrixempire.com/…
What do you do if you love pain, impact play, discipline, CBT, and/or bondage but you can’t have marks on your body? How do you hide the marks when you love being on the receiving end of the S/m dynamic? That’s the topic today and it’s the result of a listener question to the previous episodes about many aspects of pain play. Topics include: Training for a submissive versus a kinky scene with a pain slut The role of stress positions to enhance kinky scenes Physical pain, mental pain and the role of an intense mindfuck The role of suffering in submission to a beautiful Femdom Mistress Of course, there is always a lot of emphasis on the role of communication in BDSM. The ladies talk about BDSM negotiation, what to ask your Mistress and why it’s important that you answer her questions honestly (so she can plan the play effectively). This is BDSM education: Thuddy versus stingy impact play The role of warmup in impact play How bondage affects the skin for CBT Electrosex and what to look for an a tens unit for kinky usesWax play and safety concerns Temperature play and a wicked use of ice water The importance of aftercare These creative Femdoms talk about workarounds for those who crave S/m pain but need to keep this part hidden. Remember if you hear something in the podcast and you have a followup question, send an email. Olivia AT enchantrixempire.com Erika AT enchantrixempire.com Ms Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Ms Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/…
This episode is inspired by Sissy Kylie who says she wants to get a more feminine body and wants sissy workout tips. Mistress Erika begins the episode talking about body image. Mistress Olivia says, it’s normal to want to change things about your physical body to be more of the feminine ideal in your mind. Many feminized people want workout tips and exercises to target specific areas like ass, hips and stomach. Both ladies talk about exercises they do and recommend for any sissy workout. Ms Olivia talks about how she gets a cute round yoga ass with squats, walking lunges and donkey kicks (among other exercises). Ms Erika adds in a suggestion to do bridges. Working core muscles help to slim the tummy and a tight lacing corset and give that feminine hourglass shape. These Femdoms love feminization and sissy training. They talk about how to combine legitimate exercises with kinky inspiration to make sure these get done! For example, a way to strap a dildo onto the long part of a couch cushion to get a thigh and ass workout while perfecting the sissy cowgirl position! You’ll hear specific exercises suggestions, behind the scenes stories, general naughtiness and so much more. Mistress Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/…
Today’s episode is inspired by several pets who acted surprised to hear that Mistress Olivia likes pain play and rough kink. It starts with this quote from one submissive: “You are just such a nice person. And you have a sweet natural demeanor. Even though you can turn into a firm Domme in the blink of an eye, I didn’t think pain play was a fun thing for you.” Both ladies talk about being a Femdom and a sensual sadist. You’ll hear answers to these questions from another treasured pet and listener who wants to hear more about sadism and masochism. Michael asks: How common is it for a sensual dom to also have a little bit of a sadistic streak? and Is it typical for this to be a frequent activity in a loving and nurturing relationship? Topics include: Sharing experiences with the S/m part of BDSM Various expectation of a Mistress How do you know you’re correct about your assumptions of her, who she is and what she likes? How can you tell if a sensual Femdom also enjoys rough kink? How does consent work with risk aware BDSM and kink? This is a peek behind the scenes as each Femdom talks about BDSM scenes gone awry when a sub doesn’t obey, how each lady feels when that happens and how it changes her feelings towards the bratty sub. By the end of the episode you'll know that in scene domination is different from the podcast and both ladies love delivering an intense kink session that includes pain play. Mistress Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/…
What happens when a Dominant Woman decides to feminize a submissive? Sometimes the subby is coerced into sissy training, maybe even before realizing what’s going on and then it’s really too late because full on sissy training is underway. How does a Femdom Mistress train a sissy submissive? Listen to feminization Mistresses talking about how they do coerced feminization, sissy training and use a combination of praise, punishment, pain and pleasure to ensure the creation of the best sissy! This episode is inspired by comments from various listeners. And, while the ladies start off talking about sissification and coerced feminization - much of the conversation about using pain and punishment on a submissive applies to crossdressers and transwomen who are submissive but might not be sissies. The role of discipline to enforce who is in charge is always a favorite topic and an opportunity to talk about the paradox of BDSM where pain is pleasure. Mistress Olivia's blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika's blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/…
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The conversation starts out with the enduring fascination with “bad girls” - the women who are non-traditional, often sex workers or women that claim their social and/or sexual autonomy. Jane talks about the role of sex and sex workers in shaping the culture … especially in terms of fetish wear going mainstream with leather and latex being featured in couture lines. Fashion is never “only” about covering the body. The ladies all talk about how their personal and professional experiences with kink have changed them. Conversation includes: ** the Paradox of BDSM: pain is pleasure, bondage is freedom, etc. ** dominant or powerful women who tend to have a thirst for knowledge and want to grow as people ** the very particular skills of a Pro Domme, whether as an in person Dominatrix or Distance Domination (and phone sex). ** the relationship between submissive and Dominant ** consent ** merging the personal and professional in erotic spaces ** the role of money - in society, in relationships, as a symbol of power ** and so much more. This episode uses quotes from the BDSM book, Edge Play to explore the nuances of culture, societal roles, and more. Edge Play by Jane Boon https://www.janeboon.com/ Twitter: @JaneEBoon Mistress Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/…
This is called the Sissy Pageant because it’s a short title but the hosts want you to know that the Pageant is open to anyone interested in feminization and femme style: crossdressers, transwomen, pantybois, and, of course, sissies! Goddess Skylar is today’s guest because she’s the one that sort of resurrected the Sissy Pageant. The ladies go over the Sissy Pageant rules and details. The short version is: submit 3 photos, answer 4 questions and boom you’re in the running! Now, how do you DO all that? Sissy Pageant details: ** Join EnchantrixEmpire.com if you’re not already a member. EE is our free adult social networking site. ** There is a Sissy Pageant Group in the Enchantrix Empire. Join the group. ** Upload three photos for the competition. (Include your EE name on a paper in the photos). ** After uploading your contestant photos, you’ll get access to the four questions to answer. ** HAVE FUN! LDW Mistresses will judge the Pageant and pick the top three winners. The judges will be evaluating for best: ** legs/ass ** sex appeal ** style ** and your answers to four questions about your feminization and/or sissy journey. In today’s podcast, the ladies will answer the pageant questions so you’ll hear the questions and our answers. Important dates: By June 15th: photos and answers submitted Friday June 28th at 8pm eastern: Celebration and winner announcements in the chatroom at communitykink.com. The celebration is also free and will have lots of Mistresses and general shenanigans. Goddess Skylar will put a link in the chat room that you can click to actually hear the show. What do the winners get? Free time with the Mistress of your choice! ** 2nd runner up 20 free minutes. ** 1st runner up, 30 free minutes. ** Sissy Pageant Grand Prize winner: 60 free minutes. There will be lots of fun leading up to the Pageant, community and conversations, the celebration party and then free phone sex with the Mistress of your choice! Are you ready? Let’s have some fun! Enchantrix Empire: https://enchantrixempire.com/ Mistress Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ Goddess Skylar’s blog: https://yourkinkadvisor.com/…
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1 Edge Play author Jane Boon on BDSM power exchange and the accidental transformation of an investment banker into a Femdom. 33:14
How in the world did a PhD in industrial engineering end up on The Weekly Hot Spot talking about BDSM and the world of Pro Dommes? In addition to professional experience in engineering and journalism, today’s guest, Jane Boon, is the author of Edge Play. This episode description is actually difficult to write because what do you say about someone who is able to effortlessly blend the worlds of unethical investment banking bro culture and the BDSM learning curve of an accidental Pro Domme? Both cultures deliver a fantastic ass fucking but only the Femdoms do it after getting consent. Jane jokes that her novel Edge Play is Fifty Shades of Grey meets The Big Short. Edge Play is a fantastic read – it’s an exciting financial thriller - add in the “learning to be a Dominatrix” element and you have one of the best fiction books ever written about Femdom, kink culture and one element of sex work. This novel about an accidental Pro Domme rings true for the Femdom hosts. The conversation explores profound shifts in understanding about men, power, control, what it means to be a woman in an area where men dominate, what it means to be a woman who dominates men and the evolution of a woman who comes into her own power. Enjoy this fascinating conversation with Jane Boon, a brilliant woman who embraces the motto “more please.” Get. The. Book. ….. now. Edge Play by Jane Boon https://www.janeboon.com/ Twitter: @JaneEBoon Mistress Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/…
It’s Masturbation Month and time for the girly girls to celebrate with a sissygasm! This episode is inspired by several conversations and emails about this distinct kind of orgasm. Your Femdom hosts touch on various aspects of this sexy topic, including: ** Why is it called a sissygasm? ** How is a sissygasm different from a male orgasm? ** What to expect with a sissygasm. Many feminized friends aren’t sure how to have a sissygasm or even if they have experienced one. Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika have some specific suggestions about: ** How to mentally prepare ** Using chastity as feminization and sissy training ** Suggestions for different positions that are popular for sissygasm success. ** How and where to find you P spot ** What is prostate milking and how does that work with sissy training? All this an more. Enjoy and tell us about your sissygasms! Mistress Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ 30 day sissy challenge: sissy training assignments https://phonesexassignments.com/product/30-day-sissy-challenge-bundle/ How to masturbate like a girl: Pillow Humping Instructions: https://phonesexassignments.com/product/how-to-masturbate-like-a-girl-pillow-humping-by-mistresses-olivia-and-erika/…
Are you ready for Masturbation Month? Your Femdom hosts love this month-long celebration of self love. Today’s podcast is all about cock stroking instructions or JOI, jerk off instructions. What are some of the ways to spice up your masturbation? Check out the Month of Femdom Guided Masturbation Calendar in the First Class Erotica Store. Click on the phone sex assignments section and look for Ms Erika and Ms Olivia. In this podcast, you’ll hear discussion about new ways to stroke including: Hand position or grip Stroking speed or variability of stroking speed Wet or dry stroking Lube recommendations for cut or uncut cocks Weird lube flavors: cum flavored or bacon flavored lube DIY masturbation ideas Remote controlled sex toys for even more fun As always, the ladies go off on quirky tangents. For example, did you know that there are masturbate-a-thons? — that’s where participants masturbate to raise money for charity and increase public awareness about masturbation.T hat seems to be a: STROKE of genius! Ending with a BANG! So we can give the participants a hand! The puns just write themselves! There are also weird sex facts and Guinness Book of World records entries for sexual trivia. Who holds the world record for the largest number of orgasms in a 24 hour period? Enjoy the podcast, check out the Month of Femdom Guided Masturbation Calendar in the First Class Erotica Store and get a JUMP on your celebrations for Masturbation May! First Class Erotica Store: https://firstclasseroticastore.com/ A Month of Femdom Guided Masturbation: https://phonesexassignments.com/product/a-month-of-femdom-guided-masturbation-with-mistresses-erika-olivia/ Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/…
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Today we’re talking about bi curious cuckolding. That might be seduced, manipulated, or coerced bi for the cuckold. Do all cuckolds suck cock? What about sissy cuckolds? The Cuckold Myths podcast episode that we did earlier inspired this episode to go even deeper into this sexy and fascinating kink. If a cuckold sucks cock, does that automatically mean they are gay or bi? Does a submissive cuckold who sucks cock ‘turn’ gay? Should all sissy husbands suck cock? What is the role of the Mistress or Dominant Woman in coerced bi situations? Can someone who wants to explore bi or gay desires use cuckolding as a way to begin to investigate those needs? What about the submissive who has no desire to suck cock but ‘will’ do it as an act of submission to his Mistress, Dominant partner or even the Dominant Alpha Man in the cuckold triangle? What is phallus worship and strapon play with a Dominant kinky woman? Are there different expectations for a male partner versus a sissy cuckold husband? What is the role of humiliation and how does that work with coerced bi cuckolding scenes? What happens if her lover, the Alpha Male Bull wants to sexually dominate her partner? Is fluffing, cleaning up, creampie eating, or cum eating training a gateway to cock sucking? There are so many nuances to any kind of cuckolding. This conversation explores all this and more. Mistress Olivia’s personal blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika’s personal blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/…
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1 Inside the World of Female Domination: What to expect at a Femdom Kink conference with Mistress Mia Darque 26:58
This episode takes you inside the world of professional Female Domination. Mistress Mia Darque returns to The Weekly Hot Spot podcast with stories and insights from the largest gathering of Pro Domme’s in the US, DomCon LA. What is a Femdom and who decides what is “appropriate” behavior for a Femdom? Did you know there’s actually some controversy around the answer to that question? Yep, there is. Wait until you hear the stories. Mistress Mia brings up the differences in fan behavior of those going to an AVN show and a kink convention. AVN is the American Adult Video industry trade show. Like any convention, DomCon has breakout sessions. Many of these classes are for industry only, meaning they are geared to the business side of the business of being a Dominatrix. The ladies talk about some of these BDSM industry classes including: How to balance self and service as a Pro Domme. Ms Olivia points out the paradox of being in charge as a Pro Domme but also being in service to the submissive client. How does that work and how do these Femdoms do this in their own professional and personal lives? There’s a great conversation about collaring a submissive: Does a Pro Domme collar submissive clients? When does a Femdom put a collar on someone? Have the collaring protocols changed over time? What are some of the obligations for the Mistress who collars someone? There are lots of stories, laughter and so much more. DomCon LA: May 29 - June 2nd, 2024DomCon New Orleans: Oct. 10 - Oct. 13, 2024 https://domcon.com/sessions/new Mistress Mia Darque: https://www.justsayred.com/ Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/…
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1 Do you need feminization encouragement and sissy training tips? Check out the Sissy Minute by Goddess Rachel. 32:11
Sissy affirmations. Dressing advice for crossdressers. Feminization encouragement. T hese are some of the topics you’ll hear in the audios on our free feminization site, Get Girlie. Goddess Rachel started posting the Sissy Minute on the site and this podcast episode is inspired by her and she's the guest! All three ladies talk about feminization tips and tricks, AND we know it’s more than just how to do something. It’s about us banding together to encourage you on your sissy journey. Who do you turn to when you want to celebrate all things femme and girly? Where can you ask feminization advice? Where do you go to play when you can’t do a session with your Sissy Mistress? Check out all the free audios on Get Girlie and look for The Sissy Minute by Goddess Rachel. Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ Goddess Rachel: https://www.sensual-domme.com/ Get Girlie: https://getgirlie.com/…
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1 Guide to Being a Submissive and Volunteer at a Femdom Kink Conference with Mistress Mia Darque 33:44
Have you been to a BDSM kink conference? Do you want to go but are worried that you won’t know anyone? We have a solution, be a volunteer! This episode is inspired by a conversation with Sissy Bruna who wants to be a service submissive to a Femdom Mistress. There is one of the largest gatherings of Femdoms and Pro Dommes happening in LA at the end of May. This episode is all about how to be a volunteer submissive at DomCon LA. DomCon board member Mistress Mia Darque joins the ladies to answer questions about being a volunteer. You don’t need to be submissive to volunteer (Ms Olivia is a regular volunteer for lots of groups), but this can be the perfect role for any service submissive. As far as volunteering for DomCon, there are a bunch of specific questions and topics: Who should consider being a volunteer at DomCon (or any BDSM convention)? How are volunteers picked at DomCon? What are some of the volunteer positions? And do volunteers need special skills? What are the hours for a kink convention volunteer? What does a volunteer wear? Advice on managing the expectations of the volunteer. What are some of the benefits of being a volunteer? Does a volunteer get a discount or other perks? In the conversation about volunteering for DomCon LA, the ladies talk about all sorts of other things. As always, you’ll hear a mix of behind-the-scenes information, useful advice for communicating with a Femdom and random things that catch the attention of these smart, sexy women. DomCon LA is Wednesday May 29 - Sunday June 2nd https://domcon.com/sessions/new Mistress Mia Darque: https://www.justsayred.com/ Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/…
What are cock rings? Okay, if you’re a fan of this podcast, chances are you know what a cock ring is. Maybe you even wear a cock ring. But, do you know all this about cock rings? The ladies start with the basics of cock rings. Learn how a cock ring works and why it’s effective for erectile dysfunction, stamina, intensifying sensations, and powerful orgasms. Ms. Olivia mentions that people in Victorian England used cock rings as male chastity devices. What the hell!?! Modern cock rings are generally made of two types of material - hard and stretchy. These Femdoms talk about using cock rings in sessions to enhance submission, sensations, and more. Tips for buying cock rings include: Pros and cons of different kinds of materials, including metal versus silicone Size and fit How to measure for a metal cock ring How to find a cock ring that fits your body Types of cock rings with special effects like nubs and vibes Safety and cock rings, including edge play while being risk-aware The Femdom hosts use cock rings for all kinds of kink play and fetish scenes. They have suggestions for where to get various kinds of penis play toys. https://male-essentials.com/ https://oxballs.com/ Do you have a cock ring? What do you use and where did you get it? Inquiring minds want to know. Remember to check out our blogs: Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ The Weekly Hot Spot podcast transcripts are posted on the blog: https://weeklyhotspot.com/ The transcripts aren’t current, but the ones that are up have lots of links to things we talk about, photos and more so check it out, leave a comment and more episode transcripts will post asap.…
The hosts get an email from someone who describes himself as a submissive male interested in being controlled by a strict Mistress. Mistress Harper joins Ms. Olivia and Ms. Erika to talk about requests for a strict Mistress. Ms. Harper is the perfect guest for this episode because she describes herself as a sensual sadist. What does that mean, and how does that play out in a kink session? BDSM terms can mean different things to people at various levels of kink play. For example, what does the term strict Mistress mean to you? Think about some of these terms for a strict Mistress: cruel, sadistic, harsh, demanding, firm, unyielding, etc. Words have various meanings depending on context and the people involved. In this episode, you’ll hear how these three Femdoms ask questions to make sure everyone involved in the scene is on the same page with what will happen. What questions does a Mistress ask to find out what her potential kink playmate means when using various kink terminology? This candid conversation has examples of BDSM negotiation and why consent from both parties is important in power exchange and pain play. Remember, in BDSM, pain can be physical or mental pain. Mental or emotional pain can be things like humiliation, degradation, etc. BDSM is a paradox of sensations and emotions. For example, pain is pleasure; submission is freedom, etc. Want to please your Mistress? Listen to this podcast episode and follow her lead as she asks questions and creates your relationship. Mistress Olivia’s personal blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika’s personal blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ Mistress Harper’s personal blog: https://www.fetishphonesexblog.com/…
Today’s episode on wigs and wig care is inspired by Yvonne, who says keeping wigs from becoming a mess is a real challenge. We agree! Choosing the right wig is complicated. These Mistresses believe that feminization is all about the total package, and, for most people, that means finding the perfect hair for the look you want for your transformation. Unless you win the lottery, you will probably need at least an idea of your budget as you shop for your crossdresser or sissy accessories. Wigs can get expensive, so the hosts of this podcast outline tips that will help you experiment with style, length, and color before you pick out some keeper wigs. Things to consider: Wig material: synthetic, natural hair or a combo of both Where will you wear your wig? Do you want to go out and about or stay at home while dressed en femme? What is the weather like where you are? If you’re in Florida, for example, human hair can get frizzy or lose shape because of the heat and humidity. Budget versus quality H ow to shop for your wig: online versus in person Wig shopping details: ** How to measure your wig. ** Styles of wig cap: basic/blunt or lace ** Why a wig liner is important Washing your wig liner and wig ** Detangling and styling your wig ** How to store your wig This episode ends with this quote from Dolly Parton: “There’s a heart beneath the boobs and a brain beneath the wig.” … Unless you’re a sissy bimbo - then you don’t need the brain, your Femdom Mistress will do all the thinking for you! Mistress Olivia’s personal blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika’s personal blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ The Weekly Hot Spot blog with transcripts of past shows: https://weeklyhotspot.com/ Face shapes to hairstyles: https://elly-k.com.au/tips-and-advice/face-shapes-to-hair-styles/ How to measure your head for a wig: https://www.wigs.com/blogs/news/how-to-measure-your-head-for-a-wig…
Are you a member of our adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire? If you’re frustrated with being shadow banned and restricted on social media, you should check out Enchantrix Empire. It’s free to join. You’ll find Mistresses, other sexy people, and a fantastic kinky community there. The members of Enchantrix Empire vote for the Mistress of the Month and this month it is our very own, Mistress Erika! So, we’ve got to celebrate in our own special way.And YOU get to have lots of sexy fun with us, including some awesome treats from the lovely and talented Mistress Erika. For details on her Mistress of the Month gifts to YOU, check out her blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/mistress-erika-mistress-of-the-month-march/ Thanks for always supporting us and helping us celebrate all the kinky fun! Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/…
The cuckold fetish is one of the most popular sexual fantasies. The Femdom hosts of this kink podcast talk about some of the most common myths about the cuckold lifestyle. Myth 1: Only men enjoy cuckolding. The cuckold fantasy is very popular among men, but it’s not exclusive to men. Many women initiate the cuckold lifestyle. Mistress Olivia and Ms. Erika talk about why they love cuckolds and why more women are getting involved in the cuckold lifestyle. Myth 2: The cuckold is always a cis man. Did you know that some women love to BE the cuckold? She is called a cuckqueen. Ms. Olivia shares how she cuckolded male partners with a woman as her lover. Both ladies agree that a particular type of wicked cuckolding can be done with a sex toy. Imagine if you were replaced by a dildo! Mistress Erika adds that a common myth is that the Bull is always a Black man. Interracial cuckolding is very popular because BBC is popular but the Bull can be of any race. Myth #3 - All cuckolds like humiliation, domination and/or denial. BDSM is a paradox. Pain is pleasure. Submission is freedom. Orgasm denial is intense erotic satisfaction. Many aspects of the cuckold lifestyle express these contractions. The hosts talk about personal experiences in their private lives and during distance domination phone sex sessions. Myth #4 - Cuckolds don’t or should not get jealous. Mistress Olivia points out that many cuckolds think they should or should not feel a certain way about their relationship. It’s common for the swirl of emotions to be a big part of why cuckolding is so intense. Ms. Erika talks about jealousy, envy, and the need for good communication for all the participants in this lifestyle. Do you have a cuckold fantasy, experience being a cuckold, or want to explore this kinky relationship? Do any of these labels describe you: The submissive cuckold The reluctant cuckold The sissy cuckold husband Cuckold in chastity Pussy free cuckold And so much more …The ladies want to hear from you! Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/…
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Goddess Rachel joins Ms Olivia and Ms Erika for this episode, which is inspired by a listener's comment and question. Here’s the comment / question: “I’ve been exploring different ways to cum before the orgasm. I didn’t realize how many different ways there are to come without going all the way first. It’s been great to have a better mind-body connection and multiple cums to enjoy. Have you done a podcast on various ways to cum without full orgasm?” What a great question! T oday’s episode is about Tantra, orgasm edging, and gooning. Ms Erika starts the conversation talking about gooning as a state of mind, which is way more than the physical actions of edging and masturbation. She points out that many people deep into a gooning session actually don’t want to have an orgasm. Ms Olivia says gooning is the masturbation version of subspace. Goddess Rachel says that there is a term called goonspace which describes a state that a lot of gooners chase. Topics in this episode include: Full body waves of pleasure without ejaculation via Tantra The difference between edging for a long time and gooning Ms Erika’s gooner trance audio Women who are gooners and are called goonettes The science and biology of male ejaculation Sex toys that enhance gooning, including a brief history of cock rings Favorite lubes for masturbation As always, you’ll hear sexy stories, weird erotic facts, flirting, and lots of fun. Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ Goddess Rachel: https://www.sensual-domme.com/…
This episode about feminization is inspired by someone who describes herself as a cis male exploring feminization and being a sissy. Jen Jenn has questions about manicures, nail polish, and whether a sissy needs to go to a salon for a mani/pedi. What is the most femme style for nails? What does Mistress recommend for a sissy who needs to be discreet about her crossdressing? Why press-on nails are perfect for feminization training. The ladies move on to general makeup and hair tips for feminization and sissy dressing. This episode is an overview of sissy style tips. Mistress Erika has recommendations for a skin care routine. Ms Olivia has a confession about her own skin care routine. Topics include: Male to female makeup tips Discrete ways to wear makeup How to find what makeup works for you Hair and wigs for feminization The best hairstyles for a sissy Mistress Olivia’s personal blog: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika’s personal blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy…
Ms Harper joins the ladies for a conversation about myth versus reality with total power exchange relationships. Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika give couple of definitions to start the conversation: ** What is power exchange? ** What does total power exchange mean? ** What is the difference between being dominated at a play party and being a full time submissive in a TPE relationship? Ms Harper points out that power exchange games are based on a power imbalance. That imbalance may not exist in vanilla relationships...or it might be there, unspoken and unacknowledged. In BDSM, the imbalance is pointed out, and sometimes, gloried in and celebrated with fun and sexy games. Why would someone want to be in a TPE relationship? BDSM can often be a stress relief, escape from other parts of life, or even a type of erotic vacation. It can be physiological, psychological, and/or emotional stress relief. Other topics include: ** Protocol in BDSM relationships ** What is High Protocol in a D/s relationship? ** Use of contracts between Mistress and submissive ** How does power exchange work with Distance Domination? ** Role of safe words in BDSM** Role of safe words in total power exchange and why there is a debate about this in BDSM circles. ** Is there a difference between total power exchange and total authority transfer? ** BDSM communication and scene negotiation ** How to communicate with your Femdom Mistress ** Role of consent in BDSM relationships Remember, if you crave the relief of not having to be in charge, a little power-exchange fantasy is a lot of fun. Whether that’s just letting someone tell you how to jerk off to agreeing to chastity for a set length of time, all the way up to detailed schedules and monitored activities, as long as you’ve had a good conversation with your Mistress or Owner ahead of time then this can be a perfect relationship for you both. Mistress Olivia: Experienced Mistress Mistress Erika: Intelligent Phone Fantasy Mistress Harper: Fetish Phone Sex Blog…
How should a sissy cum? Your Femdom Hosts, Mistress Olivia and Mistress Erika, explore the question that asks: should ALL sissies learn how to masturbate like a woman? Sissy Gigi says, yes every single sissy needs to change how she masturbates, and that is part of the feminine journey. This long term sissy says a sissy girl doesn’t deserve the tight grip that a real man uses to stroke and cum. This inspires a conversation that includes: ** Rub versus tug - is a sissy allowed to stroke? ** What is the proper mindset for a sissy ** What is the ideal approach to erotic feminization? ** How to get in the mood for sissy sex. ** Why foreplay is key in feminization transformation. ** Why foreplay is key in feminization transformation. ** Masturbation control and sissy training ** Sissy chastity and the role of chastity in feminization ** Is a sissygasm different from a male orgasm? ** Anal or boi pussy play and why this is so important for a prostate orgasm This episode includes lots of quotes from people who are in feminization training with the Mistresses or who want to get sissy advice or feminization tips from the podcast hosts.…
Mistress Montana owns several BDSM dungeons. Today’s episode is a real conversation about business, kink and the business of kink. What goes into setting up a fetish play space? How does a Pro Domme choose a location for a dungeon? Ms Erika asks about one location, and this prompts a conversation about so-called conservative middle America and kink on the down low. Topics include: How to talk to a Pro Domme. Dos and don’ts of arranging a session with a Dominatrix. The difference between out of session professionalism and in-session play. How a Femdom will (or will not) choose who she will see in a session. What happens when you arrive for your session. How much training, education, and experience go into making an elite Femdom Mistress? What kinds of BDSM furniture, kink toys and other items are important for a Dungeon Who goes to a Pro Domme and why. (hint: Alpha males are the best submissives.). Mistress Montana: https://mistressmontana.com/mistress-montana/ Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/…
The hosts have a candid conversation with Mistress Montana about BDSM, kink, being a Pro Domme, and more. Ms Erika asks about the origin of the name Mistress Montana. This leads to a conversation about becoming a Pro Domme. Mistress Montana started in the adult industry as a phone sex operator. Her callers were the ones that introduced her to Femdom. Ms Montana talks about learning all about BDSM, kink, and male submission. The more she learned about the psychology of BDSM, the more she realized that being the Domme is the perfect fit for her personality. This leads to a conversation about the smart, successful men who are sexual submissives and want to give up control to a Dominant Woman. Topics include: Small penis humiliation and a surprising comment about some men who are into SPH. Sensual sadism The paradox of pain as pleasure Physical pain like CBT and emotional pain like cuckolding Edge play and kink The mind as the most important sex organ The symbiotic relationship between a Domme and her sub Myths about why someone goes to a Pro Domme and more. Mistress Montana: https://mistressmontana.com/ Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/…
Today’s episode is inspired by sissy Olivia … not to be confused with Mistress Olivia. Sissy Olivia wants help with her sissy training and sissy skills but she doesn’t know how to stay motivated when she’s on her own as a solo sissy. Other issue topics include: chastity, reinforcement of sissy training, and improving feminization skills. The hosts talk about all kinds of options for any sissy on any budget. Free suggestions are:Join Enchantrix Empire, LDW’s free adult social network. https://enchantrixempire.com/ Join GetGirlie - a site for sissy audios, forums, and interactions with the Mistresses. https://www.getgirlie.com/ Free assignment sites for sissy training on fashion, sex, make-up, being a submissive sissy, self-care and everything feminization: sissy style magazine https://sissystylemagazine.com/ Paid options include: Erotic audios on various topics by various women: https://www.phonesexaudios.com/ Sissy training assignments are available from https://phonesexassignments.com/ Custom erotic audios made just for you: https://eroticaudios.com/ If you need privacy and more flexibility but still want to be directly in contact with your Mistress - Try Email packages https://phonesexassignments.com/product/emails/ Texting if you have limited privacy: https://sexytexting.com/ Remember you can always leave comments on our blogs: Ms Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Ms Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/…
Happy New Year to all of you friends, fans, fellow kinksters and you, you and you! Mistress Olivia takes the episode right off the rails from the beginning; you’ll get to hear the ladies fooling around right off the top of the show. You don’t want to miss this. You’ll hear how these Femdoms create this BDSM kink podcast. Amongst the laughter, jokes, and sexual puns, the ladies answer listener questions. Has Ms Erika ever sucked her own toes? Why doesn’t Ms Olivia know what Devil’s Lettuce is? Listeners have a variety of questions about the podcast and more. Will there ever be a live show? Do the hosts ever get tired of talking about sex or kink? What is the longest phone sex or distance domination session so far? How many sexual partners have each of you had? How many sexual partners is a lot? This prompts an impassioned response from Ms Erika. How do we come up with ideas for this BDSM kink podcast? A question from sissy olivia inspires Mistress Olivia to pitch a feminization topic. Ms Erika wants to put together a blooper show (as if the beginning of this episode wasn’t enough!) And several more questions. Enjoy and have a wonderful New Year full of joy, BDSM, kink, and sexy fun!…
As we close out 2023, your hosts of this BDSM kink podcast wish you and yours happy holidays and a wonderful kinky New Year! Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika thank YOU, wonderful listeners, for your support, questions, laughter, and, yes, pervy thoughts during this year. There are some last-minute questions to answer, and listeners get questions as well. Favorite guests include: Max Carey from the documentary tOuch kink Kate Lister the Sex Historian Alice Little and Olivia Bentley from the Nevada Brothel system Kaytlin Bailey, Standup comedian former escort and sex worker advoacte with oldprosonline.org Mistress Mia Darque, from DomCon New Orleans and being a Black Dominatrix Mistress Rogue, owner of a Florida Femdom dungeon Topics from this year include: Questions about feminization, being a sissy maid and finding a Dominant woman or Mistress owner. Sissy training questions and ideas for dressing en femme on the down low Customer service in the adult industry Chastity with Mrs. Mature Metal And more Thank you all for your support this year, and here’s to a bangin’ (literally and figuratively) New Year!…
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Listener questions inspire today’s episode about breast forms. Mistress Erika points out that femme girls often spend lots of time and money trying to find the perfect breast forms. There is literally no “one size fits all” when choosing your femme look. Each individual has unique needs. This episode has some things to consider when choosing breast inserts. First, of course, there has to be a conversation about weird sex statistics. Did you know 11% of women name their boobs? That compares to three out of four men who name their penis. Back to boobs - The overall question to consider first is: What do you want to FEEL like IN your breast forms? This will help you begin to think about size, shape, feel, material, etc. Many crossdressers don’t want to spend a ton of money of breasts until they know what they want. These Femdoms love helping male to female transformations on a budget and have specific DIY tips for boobs on a budget before spending money on more permanent boobs. Styles of breasts: Inserts, aka chicken cutlets Full breast inserts into bra cups or stick on your skin Breast plates If you’re not able to go in person for a bra fitting, the ladies give simple directions for figuring out your own bra band size. From there, you can begin to think about breast size, shape, and other considerations. This episode will help any crossdresser, sissy or transwoman begin to pick out the perfect breastforms. Ms Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Ms Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ The Breastform Store: https://thebreastformstore.com/ The Boobs Shop: https://boobsshop.com/ Glamour Boutique: https://www.glamourboutique.com/breast-forms Janet’s Closet: https://janetscloset.com/janets-breast-forms/…
The co-hosts of this BDSM kink podcast answer questions about their private lives. What is a typical day like for an online Femdom Mistress? What prompts Mistress Erika to say, “A day without masturbation is like a day without sunshine?" This leads to a conversation about how to masturbate with a chastity cage on, getting a blow job while locked up, and other devious techniques that are perfect for humiliation and mindfucking. Shout out to Mature Metal Chastity Cages for their design, value, and amazing customer service. https://maturemetal.com/ A sub who is a bit of a smart aleck asks Ms Olivia about her latex catsuit. Among the laughter, there is also a serious answer about how to clean fetish latex outfits and BDSM gear. Another playmate asks if we ever have such a hot session that we masturbate while thinking about it. How much planning goes into a BDSM or feminization session? Ms Erika talks about the variety of types of calls we get - sometimes phone sex or GFE, sometimes a specific fetish like the Giantess tiny man fantasy, all the way to more traditional BDSM, domination, cuckolding, or cock control calls. Mistress Olivia adds her thoughts on BDSM scene negotiations and pre-call session planning. DownUnder Subby asks: Is there much conversation amongst Mistresses about callers? This question is a perfect opportunity for the ladies to talk about client privacy, 2 Mistress sessions, sharing playmates, and more. Ms Olivia talks about email packages for 2 Mistress sissy training and feminization where everyone is in the same email. A sissy girl asks about ways the Mistresses get pumped up for domination sessions. Another subby is curious about what we do for a daily work routine. Speaking of routines, someone asks about exercise routines and staying fit. Lots of people want to know: What does a Mistress do for fun or just to fill up the downtime (when away from out Domination antics)? The question comes from our new friend Aborigen who is a size fantasy writer (Giantess and tiny man stories). Zheightgeist podcast: https://zheightgeist.com/ Lots of laughs, personal stories, some serious thoughts, and a wish for you as 2023 ends and 2024 begins. Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/…
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Are you curious about going to a Pro Domme? How do you approach a Dominatrix? What do you say and how do you interact with a Mistress? Have you ever wondered why a Mistress would open her own Femdom play space? What’s it like to set up and run a BDSM kink dungeon? Your Femdom hosts get answers to these questions and so much more as they talk with Mistress Rogue, owner of The Dom House in Florida. What does the general public get wrong about sex work and sex workers?Why is it important that these Femdoms dispel myths about being Pro Dommes? Other topics include: ** The social stigma around sex and sex work. ** The stigma from the non-pro BDSM kink community towards those who get paid for Domination skills and services ** The differences between a full service provider like an escort and a Dominatrix. ** Whether having sex with a submissive makes the Femdom less dominant. Since our guest is the HeadMistress and owner of the Dom House we (and listeners) want to know: ** How did you decide to open a BDSM Dungeon? ** How much BDSM furniture and kink toys do you need to have a full Dungeon? ** What is your favorite piece of kink furniture? ** How do you handle privacy for clients and discretion about your neighbors? Do’s and don’ts of contacting a Pro Domme ** DO be vulnerable and open to the woman in charge ** DO read the website before contacting so you don’t ask questions about things you can easily find out if you read her website. ** DO be respectful in your communication ** Have patience; don’t get upset if you don’t get an immediate answer. ** Don’t send a wall of text in all caps, tons of unpaid emails or act entitled. ** DO be prepared to talk with your Domme when she asks: what is your safe word, what are your boundaries, do you want me to push your boundaries, what’s your goal, how do you want to feel, and more. This episode is a peek behind the scenes of the lives of these Femdoms. Enjoy!…
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Miss Fiiona gets a question from one of her callers. The ladies love the question, and that inspires today’s episode. The listener wants our thoughts on sissy or femme style and what is (or is not) considered feminine. What a great question! This sparks a conversation about self-image, gender roles, gender presentation, and so much more. What is the right look for a crossdresser, sissy or submissive transwoman? Why are skirts, heels and frills considered traditionally feminine? Who gets to decide what the right look is for someone who is being transformed from male to female? Do crossdressers or sissies worry about not looking a certain way? Does a sissy feel compelled to conform to the sissy style seen in porn or feminization memes? How does someone present themselves to the world as feminine even when not conforming to traditional girly fashion? Ms Erika has some tips on how to think about self-image when you are a crossdresser, sissy, or transwoman. Ms Olivia points out that as someone becomes more feminine in their feminization journey, they often end up with some of the same self-image worries as cis-gender women have. Miss Fiona points out that not all cis women think alike, so it’s important that anyone who is dressing en femme knows that part of the feminization journey is to develop your own style that works for you. Among the laughter and fun is a thoughtful conversation about image, societal roles, and how to find your community of choice that supports who you are. PS. You’ll also find out some stuff you probably never knew about each lady. Hint: did you know Ms Erika loves powerwashing? Don’t judge! Okay, the ladies did all laugh about that one. Miss Fiona: https://mistressoffantasy.com/ Ms Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ Ms Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/…
Elite Dominatrix and Dungeon owner Mistress Rogue is today’s guest. Ms Olivia and Ms Erika have a great time talking with this fascinating Florida Femdom and kinky Mistress. There are lots of personal stories about being a real human person who is also a Femdom Mistress. Each Mistress has a unique path. Mistress Rogue shares about her BDSM kink journey: ** getting introduced to BDSM ** the journey from submissive to Dominant ** the importance of mentoring in the BDSM kink community The relationship between a Mistress and her submissive can be intense and powerful. This BDSM kink podcast episode has insights into: ** How a Femdom creates a kink or power exchange scene ** The importance of a Domme being able to read her submissive in a session ** BDSM scene negotiation before the scene ** Sub drop and Domme drop Mistress Rogue brings up the importance of boundaries, rules, safe words, medical conditions, and triggers. Ms Olivia points out that these are the types of questions that an experienced Mistress will ask. The ladies talk about scenes that were challenging or confusing at first. For example, Mistress Rogue mentions her initial fear of sounding and how she learned to love it. This leads to a conversation about erotic humiliation, intense edge play, and the unique transformative experiences that BDSM sessions can facilitate. Mistress Olivia recommends abook called Radical Estacy by Janet Hardy and Dossie Easton All three discuss the preconceived ideas about a Dominatrix - that to be a Femdom means you need to be a mean Mistress with a stern or angry demeanor. They talk about stereotypes of what a Dominant is and how the Domme should or should not behave. Mistress Rogue: MistressRogueFL @ gmail.com https://mistressrogue.com/ Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/…
Your Femdom hosts love to get questions from listeners. This episode is inspired by Sissy A who writes, ““I love feminine things, panties stockings bras but I don’t want to suck cock, am I still a sissy?” What a great question! Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika explore the variations and nuances of sissy training, behavior and styles of play for feminization transformation. Some of the topics: ** sissy porn is great for humiliation, coerced bi, sissy cuckold husband, etc. but porn depictions of kink, BDSM and sissy play are always exaggerated. Your mileage may (and will) vary. ** different ways in which a sissy can be submissive ** sometimes feminization can bring up cock curious desires where the sissy is coerced into having sex with a man or men. ** emasculation where the male traits are eroded or eliminated when being sissified ** the role of humiliation in BDSM, feminization and sissification ** the importance of vulnerability when in a safe space ** gender and erotic desires** chastity and the pussy free for life sissy ** types of sissies ** traditional wife, sissy maid, and more All this and more in this week’s episode. If you have a question, comment or show suggestion - get in touch! Ms Olivia: olivia @ enchantrixempire.com Ms Eriks: erika @ enchantrixempire.com Ms Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com / Ms Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/…
The Scarlet Mistress joins the ladies to talk about CFNM. CFNM stands for clothed female naked male. There are so many ways to go with this type of fetish scene as you can hear in this episode. Miss Scarlet mentions BDSM parties run by Dominant Females. Each Femdom brings her male submissive with the understanding that all the men at the party will be required to be naked. What happens at CFNM parties and what kinds of CFNM games are there to do? Ms Scarlet brings up the human monopoly board, where the play pieces are naked men. Of course, this cracks up Ms Erika and Ms Olivia. Listen to the ladies talk about the spots on the board where naked men are required to do pushups, jumping jacks, hula hoop, dance, and more activities … including a penis measuring station! Penis measuring makes Ms Olivia think of sph and erotic humiliation. Is humiliation always part of CFNM play? This leads to a conversation about power exchange scenarios that might (or might not) involve humiliation but all involve submission to the Dominant Woman. Each lady talks about her favorite CFNM scenes: ** CFNM strip poker ** MILF roleplay, where the mature woman tricks the younger man into taking off his clothes for her. ** Trapped and tricked until he is naked and exposed—like being tricked into being a nude model at an art class. Of course, there’s lots of laughter, teasing, and creative idea cross-pollination. Do YOU have a favorite CFNM scene, or did you hear one that you want to experience? Miss Scarlet: https://www.thescarletmistress.com/ Ms Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/…
Miss Fiona joins Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika to take part in what’s called the largest sexual personality survey ever done. Yep, you read that right. Pornhub and the Museum of Sex partnered with academic researchers on a project to create a sexual personality test on Pornhub! Since the ladies are often cruising around Pornhub, we, of course, had to take the survey to find out our sexual personalities. This leads to a conversation about all kinds of things. For example: ** the Explorer vs Bonder scale measures your preferred type of romantic bond. Find out where Ms Erika lands. ** the Physical vs Mental scale shows that Mistress Olivia is more stimulated by mental imagery, foreplay, erotica, and the anticipation of sex than the typical person. Little wonder why phone sex is the perfect career! ** Miss Fiona found out that she prioritizes her orgasm more than she realized, or more than she admitted to herself. The sex survey is the starting point for a conversation about intimacy, erotic pleasure, Femdom control, polyamory, and so much more. Sex Survey: https://www.pornhub.com/sextypeme Ms Fiona: https://mistressoffantasy.com/ Ms Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ \ Ms Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/…
Ms Brighton joins the ladies to talk about cuckold fantasies. Did you know that one survey found that 2 out of 3 men have some kind of cuckold desires? That doesn’t really surprise these Femdom Mistresses but the same study showed that one-third of the participating women had thought about cuckolding. What makes this such a powerful fantasy? Mistress Olivia says she’s surprised that more women aren’t into the hot wife or cuckold lifestyle. Ms Brighton points out that a number of women are interested in this as a cuckoldress or a cuckqueen. What is a cuckqueen? That’s a woman who gets sexual pleasure when her male partner has sex with other women. Ms Brighton has a theory that cuckolding has always been popular, but it is more popular these days because guys grow up watching porn. They want to have the experience of watching (and maybe participating). Each Mistress talks about some of their favorite cuckold scenes. Ms Brighton brings up cuckolding a man with her (a woman) being the “bull” with the man’s wife or girlfriend! Ms Brighton is the Domme to both the woman and her partner. Ms Erika’s loves scenes with the “uninvolved cuckold” meaning he’s not involved in the cuckold relationship other than to know that it exists. He might be in chastity while his hot wife sends texts and photos about her hot date. Ms Olivia talks about being back home with her cuckold, giving him a sensual handjob with a loose grip while talking about being pleasured by the big, fat cock from her lover. All three ladies talk about cuckolding in their private lives. Other topics include: Is cuckolding about revenge or humiliation? Does a cuckold always have a small penis? Can this be a tender, loving gift from her husband because he knows she deserves great sex?What makes a cuckold scene memorable? How does cuckolding work with a Distance Domination Mistress? How does each lady make the scene even more intense? All this and so much more, including a request to hear from you about being a cuckold in fantasy or reality. Ms Brighton’s cuckold blog: https://thecuckoldlife.com/ Ms Brighton’s main blog: https://enchantrixtease.com/ Ms Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Ms Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/…
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The ladies continue the conversation with Kaytlin Bailey, a globally recognized leader in the sex worker rights movement. She is the creator of the non-profit 501c3 Old Pros - a media organization set up to create the conditions to change the status of sex workers in society. This episode includes personal stories to illustrate various points, for example: Where did the term sex work come from and why is it used? What are sex worker rights? Why should the rights of sex workers matter to you? Who is sex worker? Why is that term used as an umbrella term? What are some political changes that currently make in-person consensual sex work more dangerous? Learn about the gap between what legislators say they want to do and how laws actually affect people. How does current legislation effect legal sex workers, the BDSM / kink community, and LGBTQ people? What can you do to help support the ladies you know, adore and cherish? Kaytlin is the creator and host of The Oldest Profession podcast. This podcast is designed to use storytelling to shift beliefs and break down taboos about consensual sex work. The Oldest Profession podcast is now in season 5 and reclaims the history of individual sex workers by showing who we are as entrepreneurs, rebels, visionaries and community builders. This episode takes you inside some of the things we, as sex workers, talk about, work for and want for our community - not just for adult content creators, providers and kinksters but also for clients. Kaytlin Bailey: https://oldprosonline.org/ Sign up for the newsletter!! https://kaytlinbailey.com/ Decriminilize Sex Work: https://decriminalizesex.work/ Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/…
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We want you to check out another podcast. It’s called The Oldest Profession podcast. Host and creator Kaytlin Bailey joins Ms Olivia and Ms Erika. This episode includes a candid conversation about whorephobia, slut shaming, sex work advocacy and life as sex workers. Kaytlin Bailey talks about being drawn to “bad girls” from an early age and then learning about the power of courtesans throughout history. She tells us about becoming a sex worker by choice and from a place of privelege as a way to explore to find her own truth about sex, boundaries, and erotic experiences. Insights into the connection between body autonomy, the ability to negotiate consent and sex work are examples from history and her own life. The ladies talk about the difference between a lover and a client. All three agree that clients often treat us better than some past lovers in terms of respect, kindness and value of the time spent together. This leads to a conversation about the spectrum of choice, circumstance and coercion for those who become sex workers. In the Nevada brothel system there is a push to call ladies courtesans instead of escorts. That discussion leads to a conversation about names that includes the use of the term sugar baby or sugar babies. Kaytlin is also a standup comic. She talks about the historical similarities between court jesters and courtesans. She turned her experiences into a critically acclaimed one woman show called Cuntagious. She is working on the second show called A Whore’s Eye View. Kaytlin Bailey: https://oldprosonline.org/about/ https://whoreseyeview.com/ Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ PS: When Kaytlin talked about the link between the military and sacred whores, Ms Olivia tired to explain about seeing a production that used ancient plays to shed light on current issues. She didn’t remember the name but looked it up later. Check the the Theater of War: https://theaterofwar.com/projects…
October is a special month for Femdoms and chastity lovers everywhere. Why? Because it’s LOCKTOBER - named for a challenge to spend the entire month locked in chastity. Ms Harper is today’s guest. All three ladies encourage chastity for the right pet or submissive. They are quick to point out that each person in chastity is unique and the style, duration and play depends on the Mistress, the chastity pet and the relationship with the two of them. This episode is inspired by a sissy who is considering chastity to demonstrate a commitment to the sissy lifestyle but needs support, motivation, guidance and encouragement. Ms Harper brings up great points about sissy identity and the role of a strong woman in behavior modification from psychological reprogramming. This episode includes: ** What is the role of chastity in feminization? ** How does a chastity cage enhance sissy training? ** What is a sissygasm and how does that work while in chastity? ** Why does a sissy Mistress use emasculation as a way of asserting her dominance? ** How does humiliation enchance sissy play? The ladies discuss chastity as a way to coerce, enhance or deepend feminine feelings. If you’re curious about how a strong woman uses orgasm delay and denial to turn ‘him’ into a sissy then this episode is for you! Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ Mistress Harper: https://www.fetishphonesexblog.com/…
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Meet Coralyn Jewel - co-author of, When the Ice Melts: The story of Coralyn Jewel. This fascinating woman shares her journey from Olympic hopeful to thriving in the adult industry. The ladies have a conversation about the misconceptions around anything that has to do with the adult industry, sex work, BDSM, kink or sex in general. Coralyn talks about her path of self discovery from the discipline of elite figure skating to making her way into and then in the adult industry as a career. Ms Olivia asks about the Swingers Lifestle. Coralyn is an expert in the do’s and don’ts of the lifestyle, etiquette in swingers clubs and how to find out if you and your partner are ready to explore this fantasy in person. She has run hundreds of swingers lifestle events so this is the perfect person to hear about a bunch of insider info. Find out: ** Misconceptions about the swingers lifestyle. ** Different types of people who are involved in the swingers community. ** Is a swingers party only for couples? ** Is it possible to go to a swingers club solo ** The difference between a cuckold and a swinger ** How is consent handled in this kink scene ** How to communicate with your partner before, during and after a sex party. ** What is the difference between a full swap or a soft swap ** How to find an event and what to ask before you go Coralyn also has a podcast called Embrace Your Sexuality. The ladies talk about why it’s important to have real conversations about sex, sexuality and what individuals really need and want for their erotic pleasure. Coralyn Jewel: https://www.thecoralynjewel.com/ Embrace your sexuality podcast with Coralyn Jewel: https://www.embraceyoursexuality.net/ Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/…
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1 Power, money, and sex work. A nuanced conversation with adult industry leader Olivia Bentley. 40:53
Olivia Bentley is today’s guest. You’ll hear why she prefers to be called a courtesan rather than an escort. She mentions the societal status of courtesans in ancient times. This leads to a discussion of power, independence and the role of erotic companions as power brokers in their own right. Miss Bentley is a fascinating woman: *15 years in the adult industry. * A Masters in Education. * An executive at an investment company * Competitive fitness model. She talks about her decision to become a local escort and then her move to the Bunny Ranch in the Nevada Brothel system. This origin story is one of creativity, triumph over adversity and a candid conversation about the stereotypes around paying for sex. The ladies talk about financial independence a nd the freedom to live full lives that comes from having a career in the adult industry. In the words of Olivia Bentley: “It’s a game changer to go pro hoe.” While that comment makes all the ladies laugh, there is truth to this. Other topics include: STD testing and the porn industry How Only Fans has changed the adult industry by giving content creators control BDSM, kink, fetish and erotic humiliation And how her love of lifting weights is opening a new niche - muscle worship! Find out about this kink and why it’s so popular. Olivia Bentley: https://olivia-bentley.com/ Olivia Bentley’s Only Fans page: https://onlyfans.com/liv.b Ms Erika’s personal blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ Mistress Olivia’s personal blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/…
A listener question inspires today’s episode. Do you need a Mistress to train you for sissy sex? Sure, you can learn and do a lot from cruising the internet, watching porn and experimenting on your own. But, don’t you want more? Don’t you want to have the advice, support, guidance, and/or control of a Dominant woman? Who better to guide you in your sissy training? You’ll hear why these Femdoms say a sissy does’t necessairly want to be a women, but rather they want to emulate a female stereotype, an idealized woman. Ms Erika points out that experiencing sex in sissy mode means experiencing sex like a woman, ie being penetrated. Sissy training goals should include learning how to focus on erogenous zones that don’t include the penis (renamed the clitty). Ms Olivia makes the case that a credit card should be considered an erogenous for anyone who loves shopping for lingerie. Ms Olivia brings up how sissy training can be used to emasculate a man and remove those last traces of his so called masculinity. Sissy chastity training can be very effective in reminding the sissy who is in charge. Hint, it’s never the sissy. The ladies discuss whether every sissy needs to serve or service a man. Sometimes a Mistress will keep her sissy as her personal playmate, other times Mistress will insist that sissy learned to suck cock or take a cock in her sissy pussy. Ms Erika brings up strapon training for sissies. Ms Olivia brings up the previous podcast How to Give a Blow Job as an example of some training tips for cocksuckers. Ms Olivia's blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Ms Erika's blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/…
tOuch Kink is a new BDSM kink documentary billed as: An unprecedented journey into the secret world of pleasure, pain, and power. The producer, Todd “Max” Carey, joins The Weekly Hot Spot to talk about his unique and powerful documentary. Ms Olivia says this is the single best representation ever of our BDSM, kink, and Femdom community. Ms Erika calls the documentary tasteful and elegant - showing the humanity behind what others don’t understand or arbitrarily judge. Max says: “Sometimes we’re afraid of saying what we want or who we really are.” In this episode you will: ** Hear how a chance encounter with the famous Dominatrix, January Seraph, was the spark for this documentary with the goal of demystifying the BDSM / kink lifestyle and those who enjoy it. ** Learn the difference between consensual kinksters and abusive people. Max points out: “It’s not about what we do, it’s about how we do it.” ** See about BDSM and kink myths so you can decide for yourself if the myth is true. For example, a play scene might “look” sexual because the submissive is naked but it often isn’t sexual in the way that vanilla people think of as sex. ** Get to see BDSM conventions and kink play sessions to get an inside view of the people and activities. ** Understand the dynamics of the relationship between a submissive and a Femdom Mistress or Dominatrix. Hint: it’s all about trust, communication, connection and compassion. ** Experience play sessions and scenes, fetish conventions and individual conversations to get a sense of kinky people as individuals with their humanity intact. ** Listen to a candid conversation about BDSM and the mental health professional community bias against kinksters. The documentary is full of interviews with avariety of people who have different perspectives. Four people “anchor” the film: ** Grace: who is new to BDSM but willing to take a course run by Pro Dommes to “Awaken the Goddess” and then finds out some very interesting things about herself. ** Mistress Evilyn: A Dominatrix in the UK who was outed, vilified, and hounded by the British press. ** Slave Robin: A submissive who is owned by a Dominatrix. This good ole boy talks about the power of being seen, accepted and part of a community. ** January Seraph: The inspiration for the film talks about BDSM and female domination as a secret power that all women have but few claim and use. The late Mistress January has been a fearless advocate of BDSM and kink understanding and acceptance. We love the documentary tOuch Kink and want you to go see it. We know you’ll love it as much as we do. Touch Kink site: https://touchkink.com/ Ms Olivia's personal blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Ms Erika's personal blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/…
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1 No, you don’t need to be shy about going to a BDSM convention. Guest Mistress Mia Darque talks about DomCon. 31:28
Ms Erika has a confession. She’s never been to a BDSM convention. Today’s guest, Mistress Mia Darque, joins the ladies to talk about DomCon New Orleans. People come from all over the world for this kink event. DomCon is the premier professional and lifestyle domination convention and is now in it’s 20th year. If you’re looking for a kink event with lots of Femdoms and Pro Dommes, this is “the” convention for you. The goal of DomCon events is to bring the professional and lifestyle communities together. Miss Mia is on the Board of DomCon and shares what you can expect at a BDSM convention. She calls the New Orleans DomCon a fetishy, friendly family reunion. Worried you won’t know anyone? Don’t be. There are lots of events to get you mingling with others. Miss Mia explains what happens at the Lock and Key mixer and other events. You’ll also hear: ** tips on BDSM convention etiquette. ** how to talk to a Domme ** pros and cons of pick up play at a fetish event. ** behind the scenes of running a successful Pro Domme business ** challenges for people of color in BDSM spaces. DomCon: https://domcon.com/sessions/new Mistress Mia Darque: https://www.justsayred.com/ Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/…
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Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika love answering your questions. A common question is something along the lines of “How do I find a Pro Domme?” What people really want to know is how to talk with a Pro Domme: how to communicate submissive desires, ask for kink scenes, and basically how to “not fuck it up.” The ladies are thrilled to have Mistress Mia Darque as our guest. Miss Mia calls herself the 6'3" Oklahoma Amazon, mature BBW and someone who has been in the BDSM and kink scenes for more than 20 years. ** Find out about Miss Mia’s personal journey in kink. ** Listen to our reactions to judgement by some lifestyle kinksters to Pro Dommes. ** We discuss the value and benefit of going to a professional versus an amateur ** Learn valuable tips on how to communicate with a Pro Domme Mistress Mia Darque: https://www.justsayred.com/ Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ Miss Mia is also on the Board of DomCon New Orleans. Next week, the conversation continues with questions and answers about what happens at a BDSM convention.…
How do I get my wife to Dominate me? How can I get my girlfriend to act like a Mistress? These questions are so common these Femdoms give their answers from their perspectives. ** Hear why Ms Olivia says there is real value in going to a Pro Domme ** Ms Erika points out why experience is so important especially if you are new to kink. What are some of the BDSM terms? ** SSC - safe sane and consensual ** RACK - risk aware consensual kink ** PRICK or personal responsibility, informed, consensual kink. ** CCCC, or the 4Cs: Caring, communication, consent, caution. Ms Erika talks about the importance of trust and communication in any fetish or kink play. When you trust your Femdom you are able to let go and experience all the submissive sensations you want to savor. This episode has specific suggestions on how to figure out if you really want your partner to be your Domme. If you do want to bring her into your kink world, there are lots of tips on how to do it (especially if you have a vanilla wife). Then the two of you can begin the kink journey together creating your own Domme / sub relationship. Feel free to get in touch, ask questions, find out about getting a session with us: olivia@enchantrixempire.com erika@enchantrixempire.com Ms Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Ms Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/…
Listeners inspire this episode on the sissy maid. Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk about sissy training, feminization fantasies, qualities in a good/bad sissy, and how sissification is different from being a crossdresser or trans. This episode includes: ** What is a sissy maid? ** How to tell a service sissy from other types of sissies, including the cuckold sissy husband ** Is a sissy always expected to be submissive and obedient? ** Why ladies love the slutty sissy fantasy. ** Should a sissy be put in chastity for feminization? ** How humiliation, tasks and punishment are used in sissy training. ** Why degrading terms work so well in sissy play. ** How a Mistress uses coerced feminization in emasculating a sissy. ** How a Dominant woman uses coerced bi or gay scenes for sissification. ** Details about various kinds of sissy maid uniforms or outfits. Ms Erika talks about the Sissy In Depth Probe package available from the Phone Sex Assignments store: https://bit.ly/3EV1nKL The sissy test package includes email exchanges with both ladies. Today’s episode is inspired by these email exchanges and includes excerpts and questions from some of the people who bought the package. Ms Olivia’s blog, Experienced Mistress: https://bit.ly/3PYYM6K Ms Erika’s blog, Intelligent Phone Fantasy: https://bit.ly/3QuyR9b…
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How do I get my wife or girlfriend to be my chastity keyholder? How do I tell my partner I want to be put in chastity? I want some kink in our relationship, how can I get my wife to be kinky? These are just some of the most popular questions from our listeners and callers. Today, you’ll hear from a woman who went from being, in her own words, VERY vanilla to now the chastity Mistress of Mature Metal chastity cages. Meet Mrs. Mature Metal and learn: ** Her reaction when her husband told her he was going to make custom chastity cages as a business. ** What her husband did to spark her curiosity about chastity. ** How SHE feels about putting her husband in chastity. ** What she likes about a locking cock ring and the role of edging in tease and denial. The ladies all discuss things that work and do NOT work when trying to inspire a woman to get out of her sexual comfort zone. Ms Erika warns about kink dumping your partner. Ms Olivia says women are like cats (not just because we have a pussy). This is a candid conversation about sex, kink and intimacy from the woman’s point of view. If you’re kinky and trying to get your partner into BDSM, kink or chastity play this is the episode for you! MATURE METAL: https://maturemetal.com/ Ms Olivia's blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Ms Erika's blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/…
We get a lot of questions from listeners. Practical advice for feminization tips or sissy training are always top concerns. Today’s episode is inspired by several listener questions about how to find the best bra, which breast forms to get and how to online shopping suggestions for everything you need for feminization. Mistress Olivia used to work in a luxury lingerie salon and learned how to do bra fitting. You’ll hear how to measure your body to get the right band size. From there, it’s a “simple” matter of everything else! (Only kidding. We know it’s not simple that’s why we’re doing a whole episode on finding the perfect bra.) Ms Erika describes different styles of bras and both ladies talk about what they like and why. Anyone who is a crossdresser, sissy or trans will likely be looking for breast inserts or breast forms. The ladies go into detail: ** different types of breast forms ** pros and cons of each type of breast insert ** inexpensive DIY breasts that might also be fun for erotic humiliation ** recommendation on where to shop for breast forms Mistress Olivia points out that some crossdressers and sissies have some individual challenges with sizes. Three favorite websites are discussed: one for larger band sizes with small cup sizes and 2 other websites that have sexy plus sizes in lingerie. Legit advice, lots of laughs and even some “research” from writer/humorist Dave Barry, “Scientists now believe that the primary biological function of breasts is to make males stupid.”…
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1 How will AI change the adult industry? Our conversation with adult content creator Alice Little. 29:43
Alice Little, elite Legal Sex Worker, Sex Educator, and Intimacy Expert joins the ladies to talk about artificial intelligence and the adult entertainment industry. Mistress Olivia starts the conversation with a quote from an article, by Alice, on AI and the sex industry: “Soon, we will be able to ask AI to produce videos, complete with computer-generated characters and settings, the content of which is limited only by our imagination and desires. And what we will desire more than anything is sex.” There is no debate - AI is here and here to stay. Now the question is, how will life change? Like most big innovations there will be a variety of impacts. Alice talks about her concerns for adult content creators AND consumers. Can a chatbot or AI ever replace a relationship with a human? - A Snapchat influencer set up a chatbot using Forever Voices and made more than $70,000 in the first week of release. Will AI ever be able to mimic or replace the ebb and flow of a BDSM session or any part of erotic pleasure? Mistress Olivia asks if Alice is concerned that her online content can be used to create deep fake videos and interactions. Alice mentions that is already happening and shares her experiences with fake twitter accounts, fake instagram accounts and even fake phone calls put together by scammers. This episode explores the nature of intimacy, erotic connection and how AI will change the adult industry.…
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Alice Little is fascinating, smart, and has stories galore. Ms Erika asks about a quote on Alice’s website: https://thealicelittle.com/ that says her philosophy is “...intimacy is a need, and far too often that need goes unmet.”This leads to a thoughtful conversation about the nature of intimacy, connection, the role of sex workers, and where intimacy fits in for a fulfilled life. Ms Olivia brings up Alice’s appearance on the Tim Ferriss Show podcast. Find out what surprised the ladies about his questions and attitude towards Alice. COVID ended up being a wake up call for many people - including those in the adult industry. For Alice, she decided that no matter what happened in the world she would be in charge of her destiny. That meant a look at her career to date. She decided to create multiple income streams, including OnlyFans and YouTube. The ladies talk about why and how she created the BRAND Alice Little Intimacy Expert. Did you know that Alice is one of the very few courtesans in the legal brothels who has training in BDSM and kink? She is also a BDSM educator and a switch. This leads to some stories about why expertise and experience really matters when it comes to fetish, kink or BDSM pleasure. A slut belonging to Ms Olivia wants to know if there is an opportunity at a legal brothel for a sissy male escort. Alice has some surprising info about men of any identity in the Nevada brothel system. “How to Give A Blow Job” is one of the most popular episodes on The Weekly Hot Spot. Alice graciously shares her blow job tips and tricks. What makes the difference between a good sex worker and a really great courtesan? Here’s a hint - it has less to do with sex skills and more to do with intangibles. This leads to a discussion about how to be very intimate and still keep appropriate boundaries. Alice introduces the term bounded intimacy and shares what that means. This episode wraps up with thoughts on sex worker rights and how to advocate for, or present, sex work as work. Alice says things like The Weekly Hot Spot podcast are part of efforts to combat stigma around sex, sex work and sex workers. NEXT week, part 2 with Alice Little - this will be a conversation about AI and the porn industry. How will artificial intelligence change the adult industry? That and more in the next episode of The Weekly Hot Spot.…
Mistress Harper joins the ladies to talk about FLRs or Female Led Relationships. This episode is inspired by an email sent to Mistress Olivia asking what is real and what is fantasy with FLRs. This leads to a lively conversation with lots of laughs in addition to BDSM education from Femdoms who are in the kink scene in their private lives. They start with the common definition of Female Led Relationships and point out that this may or may not include BDSM, power exchange, kink or any of those sorts of activities. Learn: Experiences with FLR in their personal relationships (Ms Erika’s answer makes us all laugh) Levels of control in a Female Led RelationshipMs Harper makes the distinction between female led and “female did it” which is highly relatable! Whether the ladies WANT Female Led Relationships in their personal lives (the answers might surprise you). Mistress Harper has great insights into patriarchy, matriarchy, and gynarchy. What those are and how these terms relate to relationships where the Dominant woman is in control. There’s talk about the difference between how women exchange power and a power imbalance fantasy - the fantasy isn’t wrong, it’s just that it’s hard to replicate a fantasy 24/7 - and not hard in a good way, hard in the exhausting kind of way. These women are Femdoms who do Distance Domination so the conversation about FLR being sexualized is enlightening in terms of what is real and what is fantasy. What is the difference between a Dominatrix, Pro Domme, Femdom, Dominant and woman in charge? This ends up being a thoughtful conversation about gender, gender roles in society, malicious incompetence, work, culture, and social pressures to comply with what have been traditional norms.…
Dr. Betty Martin joins the ladies to talk about BDSM consent and the conversation touches on so much more. Meet this fascinating person who has been a chiropractor for years and is now a sex and touch coach, certified Surrogate Partner, Sacred Intimate, Somatic Sex Educator and author of the book: The Art of Receiving and Giving: The Wheel of Consent. The conversation includes: Issues of consent for sex workers and other touch professionals Why getting a “yes” isn’t enough, consent needs to be about mutual agreement How to apply to Wheel of Consent to Distance Domination and phone sex How the role of context and meaning makes all the difference with experiences. Dr. Betty brings up the 3 minute game popular in the BDSM world. That’s where 2 (or more) people take turns saying, “What do you want me to do to you for three minutes?” and “What do you want to do to me for 3 minutes?” Ms Erika asks how to use the Wheel of Consent with Distance Domination as an online Femdom Mistress. The ladies all talk about the value of working with a lot of clients as a sex worker. Experience and skill level really matters with all kinds of intimate experiences including distance domination and phone sex. Dr. Betty talks about her transition from chiropractor to sex coach to, now, self defined sex worker. Learn what a sacred intimate does. The ladies have a candid conversation about sex worker and who does sex work. Ms Erika tears up talking about her close relationship with a disabled man who thoroughly enjoys erotic humiliation at the hands of a Mean Mistress. Ms Olivia says she thinks of sex work as a calling and a passion. The ladies cover a lot of topics, have a bunch of laughs and, hopefully, inspire you to think about the role of sex workers in your own lives.…
Think of BDSM as a 3 act play: BDSM negotiations, the kinky scene, and then, aftercare for the submissive and the Dominant. Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk about the importance of aftercare in BDSM in general and, specifically for people who call Femdom phone sex for Distance Domination. Ms Erika gives a general description of BDSM aftercare: taking time after the play or scene to recover, get centered and tend to the physical and emotional needs of the Domme and the sub. First, they get sidetracked talking about men who like to hang up before or right after they cum. Ms Olivia points out that behavior like this is why many people go to a sex worker - to behave in ways that aren’t socially acceptable in a personal relationship. Getting back on topic the ladies talk about: The vulnerability of being a submissive How to communicate with your Femdom Mistress Sub drop Domme drop And, after care tips that include taking care of physical and emotional needs. These Femdoms give specific suggestions and how to apply this to Distance Domination sessions.…
It’s summer and the ladies are inspired by pretty bare feet to talk about all of us with a foot fetish. Ms Erika leads off with a quick explanation of the difference between a kink and a fetish. The ladies answer listener questions: Do women think a foot fetish is weird? Do ladies like guys who are really into feet?J ust how popular IS sexual attraction to feet? The numbers might surprise you. Did you know there are a lot of really fun terms for foot play and the love of feet? Ever heard of the terms shrimping, turkey foot, piano man or sole mate? Mistress Olivia suggests they design a fetish play party with foot love as the theme. What “stations” will there be? The ladies both want emphasis on toot pampering and things like massage and pedicures. Both Mistresses thoroughly enjoy foot worship - kissing, licking and sucking our sensual feet. This leads to a conversation about the role of a mean Mistress and humiliation of a foot slave including things like coerced bi or coerced cock sucking. A Femdom or strict Mistress can include trampling and CBT using feet, stiletto heels and boots. As always, there’s the science behind the sex. Brain chemistry gives some clues about why feet are arousing and why smells can be so powerful and powerfully stimulating.…
PRIDE Month is a time for celebration, education and connection. Ms Harper joins the ladies to talk about PRIDE, BDSM, kink and connections with callers. First, how each lady identifies: Ms Olivia: Bisexual/pansexual and she/her pronouns Ms Erika: Heterosexual with bicurious rising. Ms Harper: Bi or Pan, Aromantic, and Genderqueer with pronouns she/they. First up, the history of PRIDE and politics of LGBTQ+ activism. Ms Harper points out that gay rights pushes society forward. This comment leads the ladies to talk about Queer influence on music, fashion, art and more. This episode covers: Cis and trans Use of pronouns Efforts to decouple the idea of gender and what society says gender is supposed to be The LGBTQ+ acronym and other ways to identify The difference between gender identity, sexual attraction and emotional partnerships. PRIDE and kink BDSM and use of humiliation in kink sessions…
Mistress Olivia gets an email from a woman who is exploring kink with her husband. Ms Erika’s confession that she nibbled on a gummy before recording takes the ladies off on a tangent and oh what a tangent it is: Why Ms Erika says a cock can cure all Antics with Ms Olivia’s custom BDSM fetish furniture Sex with the guy that built the Queening Chair All joking aside, a listener question inspired this episode. This woman is getting into kink and realizing she is a Femdom! As she is exploring her power as the Domme in her relationship, she has specific questions that the Femdom hosts answer: Why it’s so exciting for the woman to be the Dominant one. How a shrinking fantasy is great for phone sex and Distance Domination. Ideas for her to try as she creates sexual roleplays in her own life. How to negotiate BDSM limits and get consent. Ways to create surprises in the scene. How to use pacing and layering to create the sensations the Domme wants the submissive to have. The ladies create a role play scene using foot worship, body worship, sensual humiliation, and more.…
Hosts Ms Olivia and Ms Erika respond to emails that ask some version of: “How do I get my wife to be my sissy Mistress?” This is a common question. Some of the discussion is about sissy specific issues and some advice will apply to anyone who is a submissive trying to change a partner who isn’t already into kink, fetish or gender play. The first question to consider is: “Does your wife or girlfriend WANT to be your Mistress?” If you think she might be open to being your Domme, then this episode is all about how to talk about your sissy desires with her. What is a FLR or female led relationship? How does feminization and/or sissification work in a female led relationship? What happens in the rest of the relationship if he is her sissy cuckold and she is the Domme wife? What is monogamy in a kink relationship? How will a sissy perform in a cuckold relationship? Will a cuckold sissy husband be expected to suck cock and sexually satisfy men? Will erotic humiliation be part of your feminization or sissy play? What to do if your partner is also submissive but may be willing to learn to be your Dominant. Why BDSM negotiations are different with a Pro Domme versus non sex worker partner. What is topping from the bottom and why is this a bad thing? How to communicate your needs when you are a submissive. How do you both go back to your “regular” life when sissy play time is over?…
In this episode, Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk with Goddess Fiona. Ms Fiona mentions that she’s an introvert which leads to a conversation about shy guys and phone sex. Hear about the Mistress of the Day events- where each lady had a day where any previous caller could get 10 free minutes with the Mistress of the Day. This is free phone sex (duh!) and a way to say thank you to our loyal caller friends and for them to meet various ladies. Ms Erika and Ms Fiona describe very busy days. They also get into some behind the scenes conversations about short calls versus long calls, the creativity of back to back new callers and more. A listener named wellspanked asks about Mistress preferences for communication before a session. The ladies talk about being a Femdom, BDSM negotiations and miscellaneous things they want callers to know. Ms Olivia brings up a misconception she had when she first started doing phone sex as sex work. This leads to a conversation about why our relationships are often so much more than “just sex.” Ms Erika brings up feminization and what we all love about our friends who are crossdressers, sissies or transwomen. The girl talk is part of feminization and Ms Fiona talks about being a personal shopper to a favorite sissy. Ms Olivia takes us off on a tangent about pussy - different kind of pussy - she and Ms Fiona get to laughing about rowdy cats (of the feline variety). Lots of laugher, sexy talk and serious insights in this episode as we enjoy one another.…
Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika get into Masturbation May celebrations with tips for the ladies - anyone who identifies as a crossdresser, sissy or transwoman. This episode includes: Sissy masturbation tips including muffing, sex toys, DIY sex toys and remote controlled sex toys Sissygasm stories Sissy chastitySissy milking aka prostate milking and/or prostate massage Erotic humiliation ideas including ruined orgasms Sissy training and how to be a submissive sissy This episode is all about feminization by a Dominant woman or Femdom. Do you need sissy training? We have a Sissy Quiz and In-depth Probe package available in the phone sex assignments store that is a fun way to begin the relationship with either (or both) of us as your Mistress. Ms Erika also brings up the 30 day sissy challenge calendar and the 30 day feminization calendar. Both have feminization and sissy training tasks and so much more. A listener comment inspires a tangent on sex work. Yes, it is legit work and we make a living doing this. We also enjoy our paid Distance Domination sessions. The two are not mutually exclusive. Ms Erika wants the girly gurls to pay attention to lots of things before masturbating - setting the scene, sissy affirmations and these sorts of things. Both ladies talk about how to and why it’s important for any sissy to explore her body to find out what feels good when en femme.…
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We had so much fun at the Strok-a-thon a couple years ago that Ms Erika is organizing a mini stroke-a-thon. What is this cock stroking challenge? Find out in this episode. Ms Erika and Ms Olivia talk about masturbation and then bring in 5 of our participating Mistress friends. Ms Harper tells us about her dream penis, what she loves about JOI and one of her favorite masturbation moves. Goddess Fiona has a favorite masturbation move called the pepper grinder. The ladies all talk about the delightfully wicked things they do when presented with a small penis. Hint, it involves erotic humiliation. Goddess Rachel describes her favorite jerk off instructions, including a masturbation technique that has three parts to it. Mistress Danica talks about the challenges of something like the stroke-a-thon and gives a suggestion about how to make it to the finish line and earn sexy prizes from Mistress. This leads to a conversation about masturbation habits of the ladies. Ms Daphne points out that while male masturbation is called stroking, her favorite masturbation is the cock squeeze used in conjunction with the stroke moves. Ms Olivia and Ms Erika end the episode with cock stroking tips for Masturbation May. Enjoy the holiday and happy stroking!…
Did you know that the Femdoms of LDW Group / Enchantrix Empire have meetings? It’s sex work so technically it’s a business meeting but, as Mistress Olivia says, sometimes we just shoot the shit and exchange recipes and talk about pets. At one of those meetings, Ms Erika and Ms Olivia realized that Ms Autumn hadn’t been a guest on the podcast - so today we (and you) get to know a bit about sensual Mistress Autumn. Ms Autumn describes some of her favorite calls starting with strap on sex. Ms Erika asks about Ms Autumn’s first experience with strapons or pegging. The ladies all get to talking about BDSM, fetish, and kink experiences including coerced bi, cum eating, body worship, foot fetish play, and erotic roleplay ideas. Feminization and sissy play is also a favorite of Ms Autumn who says she especially loves the slutty sissy! Don’t we all love a slutty sissy! LOL The ladies end with a lively conversation about masturbation. Ms Erika has a theory about why men masturbate more than women. Ms Olivia brings up porn which leads to a recommendation for a favorite lesbian porn site.…
Ms Erika asks Ms Alina if her diverse background helps her be Dominant. Ms Alina describes herself as an Apex Predator Alpha Female. From there the conversation goes to what makes someone an Alpha - male or female. Ms Alina talks about getting into BDSM as a submissive to an older woman and her current management of an exclusive BDSM club for couples. Does this Mistress switch? Ah, you have to listen to the whole episode to find out. Currently, she lives the BDSM lifestyle with her male partner. What does it mean to be a Lifestyle Mistress? Ms Erika asks about a recent blog post about gender neutral BDSM and kink. Ms Olivia points out that being cock curious makes some men wonder about their own sexuality. In this episode you’ll also find out how to communicate with a Mistress or other sex worker.…
Woah, the new sex toys are amazing! Ms Olivia and Ms Erika bring Mistress Hunter back for a conversation about fabulous sex toys, especially remote control sex toys that are controlled by a Femdom Mistress. Ms Hunter says these sex toys are a little bit evil in her hands and that’s what she likes about Distance Domination! The ladies talk about the newest toy from Lovense called the Gravity. That’s a suction dildo that vibrates and thrusts! Ms Hunter shares that she also likes using the We-Vibe and the Cellmate for chastity pets. There’s another type of toy that can be used via web or app control - that’s the estim or tens units. This leads to a lively discussion about funishment versus punishment. The mere mention of chastity and punishment brings up sissy training! Why? Because we adore our naughty sissies and know you need control, restraint and assignments! Ms Erika gives an example how remote controlled sex toys can be used with sissy maid training (and lots of other training examples). Mistress Olivia brings up the pros and cons of different kinds of lube when using sex toys or condoms on the sex toy: water based, oil based and silicone based. Ms Erika brings up the history of cock rings and points out they are still great to use if there is an issue with ED, erectile dysfunction. Ms Olivia is at first flabbergasted and then gets the giggles when Ms Erika tells how the ancient Chinese made their cock rings. They wrap up things with a story about Hunter, a giant suction dildo, air travel and a befuddled TSA agent who might still be in therapy.…
It’s the anniversary of Mistress Olivia. The ladies talk about getting into phone sex, things they have learned from doing distance domination and more. Mistress Olivia talks about getting into phone sex as a sexy adventure; never expecting to stay in this long enough to make a career as a sex worker. Ms Olivia has a story about her first Mistress interview with the management of LDW Group. It could have been an epic fail since she was in a spot where talking dirty wasn’t an option. Have your porn habits changed, especially since the arrival of porn gifs? Ms. Olivia makes a comment that sparks a conversation about porn, trigger words, and a confession from Ms. Erika about her callers. You’ll get a peek behind the scenes as the ladies talk about some interesting calls, Twitter responses to a masturbation frequency poll, and speculation about the future of AI generative art for porn.…
Goddess Danica joins the ladies to talk about all sorts of things. Of course, because this is a sex podcast, there is a lot of talk about sex! In between the sexy stories, you get insights into sex work and why intelligent phone sex is way more than naughty words or moans. All three ladies share first time or memorable experiences: Mistress Olivia describes her first visit to a lesbian bar. Ms Erika tells us about a picnic where more than food was on the menu. Goddess Danica shares a recent experience at a party and what a party it was! Threesomes, strapon play, BDSM styles, multi Mistress sessions and so much more. Does Goddess Danica switch and be submissive? Don’t you want to know!…
Meet Mistress Lacey. She’s a young Mistress with a firm mind and hand! Ms Olivia and Ms Erika ask about her kinky journey. Ms Lacey says she thoroughly enjoys the humiliation aspect of being a young Mistress. She also likes being able to turn the authority of an older man upside down. This Mistress likes to, as she says, rule stuff, be in control and have her way. Speaking of humiliation, Mistress Olivia shares her introduction to small penis humiliation and her epic fail at this part of degradation play. You don’t want to miss how Mistress Lacey describes herself – it makes Ms Olivia and Ms Erika crack up laughing.…
The ladies find something called the Human Sex Map of the World. It’s a fantasy map that’s a lighthearted look at the range of human sexual expression. This is created by Franklin Veaux - who is described as part mad scientist, part gonzo journalist. Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk about the interactive map: you put different colored pins in sexual activities that you have: tried and liked, tried and didn’t like, want to try and think about in fantasy only. The ladies have a lot of fun exploring — crossing the Vanilla Sea and the Great Barrier Mountains to the Land of D/s where they find: chastity, orgasm denial, various kinds of submission and even human furniture. The Island of Uniform Fetishes catches Mistress Erika’s attention. Ms Olivia gets distracted by kilts and thinking about cocks and balls swinging in the breezes when kilt wearers go commando. The Land of Competition gets the ladies talking about blow job races and wet tee shirt competitions. Should this be turned into a sissy competition with activities and even prizes? Maybe! There are so many fun areas to explore and talk about, this podcast just scratches the surface of this fun interactive map. You need to check it out! Go to https://humansexmap.com/ . Send us your maps so we can see what you’ve done and what you want to do.…
What is a sissy? Am I a sissy or a crossdresser? There are so many questions and comments from femme fans that Ms Erika and Ms Olivia put together something called the Sissy Quiz and In Depth Probe Package. This helps the ladies to get to know each one of you as an individual. The ladies talk about how to get the Sissy Quiz on the Phone Sex Assignments site: https://bit.ly/3EV1nKL Remember, there are things that tend to be common for each crossdresser or each sissy but each person is different and each feminization journey is unique. One new sissy recently said this podcast has “really helped me be more open with my sissy desires.” This podcast episode covers the desire to have a wife be more Dominant, what NOT to say to a partner new to BDSM or sissy play and more advice about relationships and feminization. This Sissy Quiz helps you to begin to think where you are in your feminization and where you’d like to see the transformation go in the future. Most of all, it helps your Mistresses guide (or make) you get to the next level in your femme transformation.…
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Sex historian Dr. Kate Lister continues the conversation with Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika. Ms Olivia leads off with how sex work revealed the value of her time. Ms Erika adds that moving from salaried worker to Distance Domination showed her how every single moment of her time is valuable whether doing sex work or anything other activity. This leads to a conversation about skills learned during sex work that apply to other areas of life and work. Dr. Kate brings up boundaries (or lack thereof) in academia. This inspires a conversation about skill training in phone sex, running a business, and negotiating the gray area of paid intimacy. Other topics in this episode include: Sex toys in days of yore including what might be a stone dildo that is 6,000 years old ! Figging and using root vegetables for anal play A question from a listener about spanking leads to talk about corporal punishment in the 18th century. BDSM in the 18th and early 19th centuries. Crossdressing, feminization and sissification Male chastity Erotica through the years including the value of 50 Shades of Grey Dr. Kate has a podcast called Betwixt The Sheets which is the history of sex, scandal and society. You need to listen to this podcast! You will love it as much as we do! Dr. Kate ends our podcast episode with an assignment that makes us all laugh!…
Historian Kate Lister - author of A Curious History of Sex and Harlots, Whores and Hackabouts joins us to talk about international commerce - only kidding - we are, of course, talking about SEX. Professor Lister is a Dr. of Literature and History and Senior Lecturer at Leeds Trinity Univ. in the UK. Ms Erika asks about BDSM and kinky sex. Dr. Kate talks about what might (or might not) be one of the oldest representations called the Tomb of the Whipping. This leads to an interesting conversation about how kinkiness has changed over the years. Which era and location was kink heavy? Here’s a hint, it’s called the English Vice. Ms Olivia shares that she calls a woman a cuntwaffle when she’s mad but reading A Curious History of Sex made her rethink her use of the word cunt. This brings up a conversation about language and reclaiming words like bitch and slut. Dr. Kate has a website called Whores of Yore and a twitter account of the same name. As the ladies talk about this Ms Olivia asks a questions and is gobsmacked by the answer. This episode (and the one next week) has history, current events, naughty stories, behind the scenes info about sex work and so much more!…
What’s your Mistress style is one of the most common questions we get. That’s the first question Ms Erika asks of today’s guest, Ms Riley. She describes herself as a sensual tease Mistress with a mischievous side to her. Just how cunning? Hmmmm. Just wait until you hear the conversation on this episode - Mistress Riley can be wicked in all the best kinds of ways! Sexual roleplay, JOI and cum eating are specific turnons for this young Mistress. Ms Olivia loves cum eating so this leads to a lively conversation that includes a devious trick to make sure that someone who wants to eat his own cum actually does it. Ms Riley makes an offhand comment about being more docile years ago and that leads to a conversation about being more commanding, being submissive or a switch, and lessons learned from doing phone sex. What do sex workers feel about men who think they can “do anything” when they’re paying for sex? The ladies have words about and for those arrogant guys. Other topics include cuckolding and how to handle non-sexy shame of being a cuckold. The conversation about how to set boundaries for kinky sex can apply to all sorts of erotic play. BDSM consent, how to move a fantasy into reality and these sorts of things are a realistic look at consensual kink play. Ms Riley has lots of blog posts for the sissy gurls, crossdressers and transwomen. All three love feminization so this is a long conversation about everything femme. Fun and funny - Miss Riley is a great guest!…
First question of this episode is from Mistress Olivia who asks Ms Tabetha her bra size and favorite place to buy lingerie. The ladies go on excursion and end up talking about putting Mistress panties in a shadow box for collectibles, whether dinosaurs could masturbate with short arms, and other weirdness. Mistress Erika brings us back to the Mistress Interview asking Ms Tabetha about a quote on her blog. Ms Tabetha talks about being a strong woman who is also a Femdom. This leads to a conversation about men who yearn to give up control and be submissive to a woman. Ms Olivia brings up the learning curve of doing Distance Domination and phone sex. You’ll get behind the scenes stories of how the ladies do what they do. Each person that does sex work has a unique path into this business. Ms Tabetha might have the most unusual entry. You’ll need to hear how she ended up at LDW Group. Have you ever been curious about the difference between webcam and phone sex? Ms Tabetha has done both and breaks it all down … including starting when she was in a burlesque troupe! This interview flies by and, don’t worry, Ms Tabetha will be a guest again soon!…
Mistress Harper joins Ms Olivia and Ms Erika for some fetish fun and kink conversation. Ms Harper describes herself as: sensual, sadistic, smartass and badass. That’s a great combo! Ms Harper is active in the face to face fetish scene. She talks about the difference between distance domination on the phone and face to face kink play. Each one has some unique attributes but there is overlap which makes both very fun. Are you curious about what goes on in the mind of a Sadistic Mistress or a Mean Mistress doing rough BDSM? Ms Harper gives her insight on sadism, pain, arousal and how she thinks of her role as a Domme during intense BDSM scenes. Ms Olivia asks if Mistress Harper had any worries about enjoying pain play. This leads to a discussion about consent in BDSM and negotiation in fetish scenes. A casual mention of a bullwhip leads to questions about how to learn how to be a Mistress who can literally crack her whip. Ms Olivia shares her experience of trying to learn to use a bullwhip.The ladies come up with a wicked Giantess scene featuring a whip with the tiny man attached to the cracker at the end of the whip. Oh noooooooooo poor tiny man! The “how did you get into sex work” question is always fun and Ms Harper shares how she got into phone sex. Ms Erika brings up someone who wants to learn to be more submissive to his wife and have HER be more Dominant with him. All three ladies have lots to say about how to talk to your partner about your kink, fetish or BDSM desires. Chastity is a favorite topic, so there is a long conversation about chastity training, dos and don’ts about chastity training, advice about chastity cages, keyholding and long distance chastity. This episode is full of BDSM advice, sex education, stories and laughter about quirky things about sex work.…
Are you a closet sissy? Are you a crossdresser on the down low? Are you proud of being femme and want to share that with a woman who appreciates you? What questions do you have about feminization, being a sissy or pretty much anything else? We have answers, lots of answers. Ms Erika talks about being the person to trust with erotic secrets and desires that you can’t share with anyone else. Mistress Olivia shares an email from someone who is Dominant in lots of other areas but wants to explore being submissive while dressing en femme. Both ladies share ideas, insight and their own experiences with trying new experiences. One sissy has a question and shares that she masturbates to our kinky podcast. This gets the ladies talking about when, why and how they masturbate. Ms Erika points out that some callers only want girl talk, fashion help or shopping suggestions and little or no overt sex. Ms Olivia points out that a sense of community and support can be super important. Grab your lipgloss, put on your panties and settle in for some sexy girl talk!…
Do you love pretty feet, sexy toes and luscious legs? Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk about how your foot fetish makes a woman feel really good! Ms Erika calls this episode Fun with Feet but it’s really anything below the waist. The ladies got really frisky planning this episode and decided to give a snippet of what a foot worship call so you can get a taste of the experience. (Yep, pun intended. I couldn’t help it. Sorry, not sorry.) Find out why Ms Erika calls stockings leg jewelry. Ms Olivia says a garter belt frames a beautiful ass like artwork. The ladies touch on stilettos, boots, bare feet and more. Psssst, this isn’t all that adorns sexy feet or legs – Ms Olivia points out that many a footjob leads to cum eating!…
Mistress Hunter joins Ms Olivia and Ms Erika to talk about cum eating. Why is this naughty taboo so hot for so many men? For many, they only want to fantasize about eating their own cum. Others are upset when they want to do it but lose the desire once they have an orgasm. Ms Hunter says, there are three types of cum eatesr: those who want the fantasy only, those that will do it for their Mistress or a woman that enjoys it; and those that are just cum sluts for whatever reason. There’s a long conversation about the humiliation of a Dominant Woman making him eat his own cum. All three ladies agree that cum eating doesn’t have to be humiliating, it can be a really wonderful way to exert control over a submissive male. It can also be his way of entertaining his Mistress and hearing her laugh at some of the things he does to please his Mistress. Ms Olivia brings up putting a sissy in chastity to make sissy eat cum. The ladies all talk about some cum sluts in their lives and how much fun a sissy can be! Several listeners have questions the ladies answer. Does wanting to eat cum make me gay? If I eat my own cum, will I want to suck cock? What does it MEAN that I want to eat my own cum? Hear all the stories about favorite cum eating experiences in session and in their private lives.If you are a cum slut or a wannabe cum eater, this episode is for you!…
It’s a New Year! Lots of people make resolutions so Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika decide to talk about expanding sexual boundaries.Ms Olivia has an announcement. The new website that has the transcripts of podcast episodes is finally up and she promises to get the backlog of episodes posted asap. Here’s the website: https://weeklyhotspot.com/ Ms Erika points out that hard boundaries are always respected but there are some kinky activities that people are curious about but just haven’t done. Ms Olivia talks about people who listen to the podcast and say, “hey, I want to try that.” Since both ladies love research, they get to talking about some interesting poll numbers. Who watches porn while masturbating. What percentage of men use imagination while masturbating.This leads to a conversation about how Distance Domination and phone sex is different from porn. Hear Ms Erika’s reaction when Ms Olivia asks if she watches porn during her time away from the phones. The majority of people moan or breathe heavily during sex but some (1%) do something that makes the ladies crack up. Did you know that strapons were originally for impotent men in the 1950’s? Did you know that searches for lesbian scissoring is up more than 700%? The ladies have lots of weird sex and interesting insights. You never know what you’ll hear. Oh and Happy New Year!…
As we close out the year, Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika say thank you to listeners.Ms Olivia brings up the growth of The Weekly Hot Spot podcast. Do you have a favorite episode? The ladies talk about the two top podcasts and speculate about why each topic is a favorite for our kinky conversations. Ms Erika talks about why it’s important to get our kink positive vibe out in the world. You know the ladies joke and laugh but we are also serious about being sex positive. Sex should be FUN. Since it’s the end of the year, Ms Olivia lists the top 10 episodes that include: Cock control, tease and denial, guided masturbation Feminization and sissy training Cum eating and Cock sucking Erotic humiliation and so much more. This leads to some sexy conversations about why we love each of those topics. You’ll also hear some ideas about podcasts for 2023. Enjoy and thank YOU for everything this year.…
This episode is all about turning your sissy fantasies into sissy training. Mistress Erika talks about how to keep your sissy training going even when you have to do your feminization on the down low. Ms Olivia loves to combine sissy training and fantasy roleplay scenes. This works really well, especially with the coerced sissy who will do what Mistress says, or else! Ms Erika points out the erotic power of fear of exposure. That might also be part of a sissy humiliation scene. The ladies give details on some feminization training tasks: Wearing panties under male clothes. Using feminine grooming products like bath wash and lotion. Moving in a way that reminds you of your feminine side. Locking up that clitty with sissy chastity. Using cum eating to prepare sissy for cocksucking training. It’s not all raunchy talk. Mistress Olivia asks Ms Erika about the importance of choosing a sissy name that fits your type of sissy. Are you a bimbo or slut? Are you elegant or the girl next door sweet? Mistress Olivia mentions 2 places that do in person feminization. Both ladies talk about some specific sissy fantasies and give their special spin on those hot roleplay ideas.…
We know holidays can be busy and stressful. Sometimes that means a loss of libido. In this kink podcast, Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk about how cock control can improve your libido. Some people can’t do a session, so we have JOI to the rescue. Ms Erika gives tips on finding some private time. There are also options for enjoying some discrete, naughty fun: Sexy texting sessions Email masturbation training programs Phone or skype if you do have solo time. Ms Olivia shares a cock edging assignment using bubble wrap - there’s an unexpected twist that will surprise you. Mistress Erika gives ball work instructions - testicular massage works wonders. It can increase your libido and make your erection nice and firm! Ms Erika explains how to do her “O” cock stroking technique. These Femdoms talk about how they design tease and denial sessions for those who love cock control. There are several more edging instructions: Stroking and using cum cubes or ice cubes to pace your delay. Using different hand positions to enhance your orgasm. Using cock exercises to increase your size and endurance The mindfuck of a ruined orgasm Masturbating with panties And more This is homework that you will thoroughly enjoy doing!…
It’s Mistress Erika’s anniversary doing distance domination and phone sex. Ms Olivia asks about Ms Erika’s erotic journey. The ladies talk about how to: How to learn to celebrate your sexuality Why it’s hard for some people to embrace what makes them feel good. What is “normal” sex and who decides what is outside the norm? Ms Erika’s plans to celebrate her anniversary Of course, Ms Olivia takes listeners on excursion with a conversation about stripper music versus burlesque music. Both ladies talk about some of the behind the scenes activities. Why sex work is certainly fun, it is also a profession and they are highly skilled professionals. Oh and hear why Ms Erika ends the podcast licking her fingers. You know you want to know.…
Ms Freda returns to LDW. Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika find out all kinds of things they didn’t know about this mature, sensual woman. Hear why Ms Freda has personal experience with a man who is cock curious and wants to suck cock in the presence of a Dominant Woman. Learn about the Candyman. Oh my! This is quite the story. Ms Erika asks about favorite callers and roleplay calls. Ms Freda talks about her sweeties, her lovely sissies, and says she has a special place in her heart for the sissy girls. She mentions her love of sissy training, feminization shopping and even discipline of a naughty sissy! Mistress Olivia says she feels privileged to be able to be that safe place for someone to explore their desires. Ms Freda agrees and talks about the importance of being non-judgmental and guiding with love.…
The ladies talk about kink, creativity and more with Dirk Hooper. He’s a lifestyle kinkster, BDSM mentor, award winning artist, fetish photographer and author. Have you ever wondered if you could turn your love of BDSM and kink into a living? That’s exactly what Dirk did. Ms Erika asks why and how Dirk ended up using his creativity in the erotic arts and sex industry. Mistress Olivia brings up the book, Dominatrix Boss, by Asher Lake (Dirk’s pen name for BDSM erotica). The ladies talk about why they love the book and the relationship between the Femdom and her male submissive. There’s not enough really great Femdom erotica and they beg (or order) Dirk to finish the sequel. All three talk about BDSM and kink in popular culture. Dirk says all sort of fetish play is way more popular and accepted than ever before; he thinks that people who enjoy only vanilla sex might actually be in the minority. Finally, want to get your Mistress something really special? Hear about commissioned artwork that is stunning. It’s fascinating to hear how Dirk turned his personal journey of BDSM into a thriving life and lifestyle.…
The new design for the Sissy School site is the inspiration for this episode. Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk about all the LDW Group sites for the girly girls: crossdressers, sissies and trans women. Sissy School Sissyville Sissy Style Magazine Get Girlie The ladies share questions from several sissies. Topics include: How to come to terms with your sissy desires, feminine side or crossdressing activities. How to avoid purging all your pretty feminine clothes. How to explore sissy desires. Ways to honor your feminine self when you need to dress in male clothes. How to handle things when your partner knows but doesn’t want to participate. How the Sissy Training Calendar can help you on your feminization journey. And, why it’s important to have support in your feminine journey.…
Hurricane Ian slammed into Florida knocking Ms Erika off line for a bit during LockTober. The ladies decide to continue chastity during No Nut November. Mistress Olivia asks Ms Erika about her chastity pets. This leads to a conversation about the mental and emotional parts of chastity, including how a Chastity Keyholder decides how long someone will be locked up. What is a prostate orgasm and why does a Mistress do prostate milking for someone in long term chastity? Speaking of long term chastity, the ladies go from Locktober to No Nut November to Denial December … then, perhaps, Jerk Off January. We’re (maybe) joking about extended orgasm denial. The ladies talk seriously about expectations around chastity, concerns, and common questions. One reason why both Femdoms like chastity is for the behavior modification. It’s perfect for sissy training, enhancement of submission, and more.…
Duchess Willow says, “Every year, at the Monster’s Ball, something supernatural happens to the guests.” Today, you get just a taste of a sexy, spooky story by Duchess Willow, the Ebony Femdom. What happens at the Monster’s Ball? Ohhhh just listen! Ms Erika and Ms Olivia talk with Duchess Willow about writing erotica. She’s been writing Ebony Femdom erotica for years and you will be surprised at the reason why she started exploring that creative side of herself. This leads to a conversation about writing and the ladies come up with a plan to publish erotica. Ms Willow is well known for her love of all things Giantess. Ms Olivia has an off the cuff idea to do a Christmas tree covered in tiny men - Ms Willow adds, “...and their tiny erections.” Sexy, smart and very fun - Ms Willow is one of our favorite guests. She has her own podcast on Anchor FM - you can find all her links on her blog: EbonyFemdomPhoneSex.com…
What really makes Halloween fun for you? Is it the sexy, naughty costumes? The chance to be and look slutty in public? The candy? Something else? Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika have a special Halloween series of podcasts. First up, Miss Constance tells us about the blog train and what that means for you.Maybe you get a treat, or you might get tricked. The very lucky ones might get all that and more. Ms Brighton thrills with a spooky, sexy, and very sticky story. You’ll never read the words “drip, drip, drip” without thinking of this yummy tale. Miss Mandy has a transformation story where a lovely and shy trans girl has a BFF who pushes limits. Here's a hint, the skirt will be very, very short! The ladies all talk about storytelling, creativity, chocolate, and sex.…
“You’re so smart, what’s a nice girl like you doing sex work?” We sometimes hear questions or comments like that so we decided to talk about it. What exactly is a ‘nice girl.’ Is phone sex something ‘nice girls’ don’t do? Does a woman in the sex industry need “saving”? Mistress Erika and Ms Olivia talk about the importance of business acumen and professional skills for anyone doing Distance Domination. Why do these smart, successful, creative women choose to do phone sex? Is there a social expectation that women should provide sex or emotional labor for free in order for it to be appropriate or real? The ladies tackle the stigma of sex work, judgment, and much more in this episode about why 2 successful women choose to phone sex as a career and a calling. You also get real answers to questions about what we do: Do you work off a script? When do you think of someone as a regular caller? Funny, thoughtful and mostly irreverent - we’re glad enjoy our kinks and kindness.…
Who pays for an online domination call just to be ignored? Meet the sissy that pays for an ignore call while the ladies talk about …. Whatever we want to talk about! Only kidding. (maybe) Erotic humiliation, control and mindfucking are some elite Femdom moves - the Ladies talk about BDSM and the joy of being the woman in charge. Mistress Olivia brings up the 30-day sissy training calendar. Ms Erika mentions the blow job training. Ignore slave sissy is busy sucking a dildo while the ladies discuss cock sucking, cum eating and why one pet will always think of his Mistress when he eats a pudding cup. Lots of talk about erotic humiliation, small penis humiliation, and embarassing tasks for the submissive to do.…
Kay Marie is a self proclaimed suburban MILF. Mistress Erika and Ms Olivia get with Kay Marie to talk about her podcast, Happy Hour with Kay Marie. We all go off topic right from the start of this episode and Kay Marie says that’s the perfect way to showcase her podcast because it’s organic and just flows without a topic or outline. Her podcast is also a bit different in that she does her show live and interacts with her fans live in the Community Kink chat room. In this episode you’ll find out about Kay Marie’s style on a phone sex call, what calls she likes to do and calls she does not want to do.…
Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk about podcasting, sex and random silliness with Mistress Hunter. What makes a sex podcast sexy? Why did Ms Hunter start a podcast called Sexy Story Time? Is it better to structure a podcast or do an organic, stream of consciousness podcast? This episode ranges from sexy to sweet to smart along with a dash of naughty.…
Hosts Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika answer listener questions about sissy transformation and feminization. Some of the questions are from people who are new to the podcast and are just starting to explore their feminine side – others are from callers who want to share their experiences with the Sissy Training Calendar and Feminization trance audio. Have the episodes on being a crossdresser, sissy or trans helped you to explore your femininity? The ladies talk about how important it is to have a community around you. You’ll hear specific answers to questions from a new sissy, a sissy who has to stay in the closet and another sissy in chastity.…
Did you know that Mistress Becky has a Masters in Mental Health Counseling? She joins The Weekly Hot Spot to talk about sex, sexuality, mental health, BDSM, and so much more! Ms Erika leads a conversation about sexual pleasure for people with disabilities. Her ignore pet says that people see him in a wheelchair and don’t think he has sexual desires including cruel erotic humiliation. Ms Becky talks about how powerful it is to get your sexual needs met and how erotic pleasure is a tool to express our experience of life. Mistress Olivia thinks of sex work as a calling and a privelege … even in Mean Mistress mode when the inner sadist comes out to play with the quivering submissive. Hear a discussion about CBT and how to do intense sessions for pain sluts whether it’s real life instructions or a fantasy roleplay. Questions for listeners include: are you surprised at what you are learning about Ms Becky and other Mistresses?…
What do you want to know about life as a phone sex operator? Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika take listeners behind the scenes of life and love on the phone. Ms Olivia shares an email that prompts a conversation about cost, value and sex work in general. Mistress Erika has some great ideas about why some people send a really explicit email as a first email. Are you curious about how to communicate with a Femdom, a phone sex operator or other kind of sex worker? Hear what these women say about some of the crazy things said to them. A headache and edibles lead to an fun conversation about how to say smart cars in a sexy way and why WAP (wet ass pussy) is the perfect song. It’s not all joking around, there is a serious conversation about how to communicate what makes you hot when you’re a shy guy. Don’t miss confessions of first phone sex calls - weirdest phone sex calls and nuances of BDSM and Distance Domination. What do you want to know? Take a listen to the first batch of questions; we promise to do this again.…
In this episode we interview our friend and fellow podcaster, Duchess Willow Munroe. She is wicked smart and incredibly sensual so this conversation covers a little of all sorts of topics. Duchess Willow has a podcast episode about remote control sex toys. This leads to a thoughtful conversation about intimacy, distance domination, safe sex, and connections with our callers. Of course, since this is a sex podcast, the conversation gets … well … sexual! Hear: Why Ms Olivia wants to be a guy. What Duchess Willow enjoys with her special friends; if you want to get the Duchess off, you’ll find out how to do it! A podcast question from Ms Erika leads to a conversation about creativity. And … if all that isn’t enough … there’s a discussion about Ms Willow’s Dick Ratings, good penis size, shrinking a tiny man so small he ….. Well, you best listen to find out.…
Today’s guest, Mistress Becky, calls herself a natural born pervert. You’ll want to get all the details on this Femdom Mistress. She is sensual, strict and smart. Ms. Erika asks about favorite sex toys. We learn that Becky used to sell sex toys and is getting a new kind of vibrator that tracks your orgasms using bio feedback. This leads to a conversation about how to fuck with a submissive using remote controlled vibrators. Mistress Olivia starts to design a phone sex cock teasing assignment and you hear the brainstorming around this idea. We take you behind the scenes so you hear a bit about how we do what we do. All the ladies love the girly girls: crossdressers, sissies and trans. Ms Olivia asks about favorite places to shop and other tips for our femme friends. There’s also a serious conversation about kink friendly therapy, BDSM and mental health and the issues of shame around sexuality, sex and sexual pleasure.…
Ms Erika asks about the recent sex-cation (oh yeah, you want some of that too, don’t you?). Find out why: a kinky lesbian would be a submissive to a male Dom kudzu should be considered a sex toy or at least, a BDSM pervertable and how a chance encounter unleashed a Femdom in all her glory! Lots of conversation about BDSM, fetish play and favorite sex toys.…
Find out what Ms Ryan needs for “the safety of those around me.” Get your head outta the gutter; this has nothing to do with sex. Don’t worry - most of the rest of this episode IS about sex: BDSM, kink, fetish, D/s negotiation and so much more. Ms Ryan talks about finding balance with the Mean Mistress side and the sexual woman in charge side of her personality. Hear Ms Olivia’s story about getting stopped by a sexy female cop while on the way to a fetish party. Mistress Erika’s question about time away from sex work and kink leads to Mistress confession time. We learn things about Ms Ryan that even we didn’t know! The three ladies have a fun conversation about strapons, “Darth” the strapon cock, remote controlled sex toys, chastity training, cuckold scenes and how cuckolding brought Ms Ryan true love.…
Mistress Erika has a lively conversation with Ms. Claire. This is part of a series of interviews where you get to meet the Ladies of LDW Group. This is a wide ranging conversation about sex, sex work, kink, Femdom and fetish friendly communities. Did we say, sex? Yep, we talk about sex. Oh and you’ll get insight into the stranger things that go looking for Claire - she swears she doesn’t go looking for them.…
Today the ladies talk with The Dicktator. That’s not a typo. Mistress Cassandra is known for her love of chastity and all things that involve cock control, hence the name of her chastity training blog: TheDictator.com. Mistress Erika and Ms Olivia talk all things chastity with Ms Cassandra. You’ll hear a conversation about BDSM explorations, what makes someone a “Lifestyle Domme”, pain play, the difference between in session and out of session, and more, including what this Femdom does in her time away from controlling naughty submissives.…
Co hosts Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika interview their friends and fellow Femdoms. Even after knowing one another for years, there’s always something new to learn and Ms Hunter is full of surprises. Imagine being a TSA agent and encountering Miss Hunter. In her bag, Mr. Fat Cock (a giant dildo) that she was bringing to a Mistress Meeting. All three ladies share stories about internet controlled sex toys. Find out why Mr. Hunter says: “I’m just one man!” Hear about Ms Erika’s pet who found love in a department store aisle. Have you ever wondered what a phone sex call sounds like? We do a three way scene and give you a sense of how erotic phone sex can be.…
The Weekly Hot Spot returns! Meet some of our special, kinky friends of hosts Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika. Find out about the exciting relationship Miss Madison has with her pillows. Listen to the ladies talk about using an Hitachi Magic Wand. And hear a confession by Madison that takes the podcast into a whole new direction for a bit.…
Today’s topic is inspired by a conversation overheard by Mistress Erika. Someone said, “What kind of guy calls phone sex?” The ladies discuss who calls and why. Have you ever called a phone sex chat line? Have you ever gone to a sex worker? Hear how Ms Olivia and Ms Erika got into the business of erotic pleasure. Find out some of the common reasons why someone calls for distance domination. The ladies point out that calling a sex chat line is often not about sex per se; it can be about intimacy, vulnerability, and questions that can’t be asked elsewhere.…
Today it’s all about the rear view … not the rear view mirror, your rear end. This listener inspired episode is all about anal sex. Most questions and concerns fall into two broad categories: psychological and physical. Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika love strap on play, anal sex and exploring all sorts of erotic pleasure. You’ll learn why they both say anal pleasure is something you want to at least try (because you’re likely to love it!) Miss Rachel joins the ladies to talk about why she loves anal and how she handles her submissives. They discuss wow to get your head around psychological worries like the common question: “If a guy likes anal does that mean he is gay?” Ms Erika gives specific tips on hygiene before and during anal sex. Each Mistress shares examples from her own experiences with anal sex; including thoughts on how to share sexual desires with your partner. You’ll hear tips, advice, practical suggestions, specific stories of some hot anal experiences and much more. Come for advice - stay for the excursion about how to set up a submissive race where the subs are bouncing on dildo balls. Enjoy!…
Remember Mistress Erika talking about her ignore slave? Did you wonder who pays for a phone call just to be ignored? What’s going on and, more importantly, WHY? Ignore slave doesn’t even have a name and Ms Olivia calls it, “it.” This podcast is recorded while the ladies ignore it, who called in and is paying for a 2 Mistress call. Ignore slave sent Ms Erika an email listing the reasons why it likes ignore calls - the ladies read the reasons and discuss. So — what’s the deal about sexual humiliation? Who is a sexual machochist? Why is erotic humiliation called pain for the brain? What is human furniture? Why does someone like being teased for having a small penis? Why are these types of submissives so much fun for a Femdom to torment? Learn how each Mistress incorporates neglect play into kink scenes that also include things like bondage, covering eyes and ears, or other types of sensory deprivation like a vac bed. You’ll hear why is trust so important with BDSM partners and some details of how to create a consensual slave contract. Many parts of BDSM are about the paradox of pain being pleasure. Listen to each experienced Mistress describe why the mental anguish of sexual humiliation hurts so good.…
Today’s episode is all about erotic audios. There are several different sites to hear or get erotic audios. The ladies talks about pre-made erotic scenes and assignments. These out of the box audios are pre-made and ready for purchase. Custom erotic audios are also available and involve more interaction with your Mistress to make sure both of you are on the same page with the details of your sexual fantasy. Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika share behind the scenes details of what goes into creating a custom audio. Ms Ruby joins the ladies to talk about bringing her audio mixing skills as a musician to the erotic audio scene. Ruby says erotic audios are works of art and she loves creating soundscapes full of layered sounds. Hear some of the most unusual requests for custom audios - including furries, Giantess squishing miniature vampire girls and hiccups.…
Do you know who first coined the term cock control? Headmistress Ms Ally, creator of the LDW Group network of femdom phone sex, actually has a copyright on the term! Whatttttt????? You find out fun facts like this on today’s episode. What makes us cock control experts? How do you know if you want to be a submissive or simply want a woman in charge to be sexually assertive. Ms Erika says this might be Femdom lite and both ladies agree it’s fucking FUN! The ladies share their favorite stroking ideas, masturbation games and more. This is chock full of news you can use including specific edging tips for you to try during or after the podcast.…
Sissy trance audios and anything to boost feminization are very popular right now. Ms Erika and Mistress Olivia created a 30 Day Calendar for the sissy girls and a 30 Day Calendar for general feminization. Today, they talk about the trance audios that go along with the feminization training programs. You’ll hear the difference between feminization and sissification, including how to use trance audios to increase submissive feelings as any femme girl learns to fully obey Mistress. Ms Erika talks about how a trance audio works on your subconscious to fully transform your mindset to embrace feminine feelings, mannerisms and actions. Mistress Olivia admits she has a learning curve with audio tech as both ladies share the behind the scenes stuff about how they make sissy trance and feminization audios.…
We love all of our new listeners! We’re glad you found our kinky podcast and are sending us questions. Mistress Olivia points out there are a lot of submissive men who want to know how they can inspire their wives and girlfriends to be more Dominant. Ms Erika gives specific suggestions about how to introduce kink into your sex life including ways to gently (and effectively) talk with your partner about your true sexual desires. You’ll hear real questions and answers on topics like tease and denial, chastity, feminization and sissification and more. It’s a fun sometimes rambling conversation that covers everything from speculation about dinosaur sex to compassion for a new listener who says she is a lost sissy.…
New Year and new ideas for our kink podcast. We have so many things to talk about - including feminization and sissy tips for Valentine’s Day, best stroking techniques for Masturbation May and, of course, anal play for Aptil 15th tax day (because if you’re going to be fucked in the ass, it might as well be fun). Ms Erika offers to find out how to do the technical things to incorporate some live podcasts where we answer your questions live. We might even decide to pop Ms Erika’s girl on girl cherry LIVE on a podcast.…
What’s on your sexual bucket list? Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika find a list of sexual bucket list ideas and talk about ones they’ve done and what they’d like to do next. Ms Olivia goes on an excursion into the Superman origin story. Ms Erika reveals a fear and Ms Olivia has an idea of how to overcome that during sex on a cruise ship. All this leads to a conversation about some possible changes to The Weekly Hot Spot including ideas about doing some episodes live. Do you want to be able to have a way to send messages to each Mistress while we are recording? Now is your chance to tell us what you think.…
People who aren’t into BDsm might cringe at the sight of spanking, whipping, caning and other rough play but impact play is a huge part of kink culture. Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika share what they love about this classic activity. Why does a Femdom like inflicting pain? Why would a submissive crave physical suffering? The ladies talk about impact play and why punishment is often called funishment.…
Happy New Year! Today, the ladies talk about how to BE a lady or a slut! Seriously, it’s all about feminization and sissy training. There are lots of ways to explore and enhance your feminine side. We are talking about 2 calendars for 30 days of feminization and sissification, including things that you can do to maintain your feminine mindset even when you aren’t able to get all dressed in your pretty or sexy clothes. Mistress Olivia gives an example of a sissy trance audio. Mistress Erika talks about reaffirming affirmations coupled with actions. Naughty sissy training includes things like blow job training exercises, how to have a sissygasm and whether or not to put a sissy in chastity. Remember, it’s a New Year and time for a new you!…
It’s the final podcast for 2021. Hosts Olivia and Erika talk about doing the podcast, listener reviews, kink things to try and just general conversation. Poetry, porn … kink and confessions … Femdom insights and more. Until … Ms Erika admits to something that involves butterscotch and that inspires Ms Olivia to confess … And then, all bets are off. Stay safe and have a kinky New Year!…
Ever wondered how you can get your erotica published? That’s what we’re talking about with today’s guest, Dirk Hooper. His book (under his pen name Asher Lake) is called: Dominatrix Boss - a BDSM Femdom Tale. Before getting to the writing and publishing advice, we talk about BDSM and the kink community. Dirk talks about what he calls a Domme deficit: way more male submissives then there are Femdoms. There are lots of writing and publishing tips. Including one that inspires Ms Erika to change the way she writes her own erotica based on how we both do phone sex calls. Dirk has a surprising tip about writing while you’re horny and channeling your sexual arousal into your erotica. Enjoy and send us links to your own erotica!…
As we close out 2021, we talk with some of our Mistress friends about some things they love in their private lives. Ever wondered if a Femdom binge watches a tv show? You’ll find out! Also hear some movie reviews and find out more about your Mistress. The Welsh Mistress Miss Ruby has a fabulous book suggestion about the neuroscience of orgasm delay. We were shocked to learn something about our favorite Babe with a Boner, Miss Bethany. Trust me, you want to know this! Also, Miss Daphne shares why a book written in 1865 is her favorite read for 2021. Finally, Miss Madison touches our hearts with her favorite thing of 2021. These round robin conversations with our Mistress friends are always a fun time!…
One thing we love about doing this podcast is that we get a chance to talk to our friends and coworkers. Mistress Olivia and Ms. Erika did the best and worst of the 2021 review. The categories are tv shows, movies, documentaries, books and our personal favorite, sex toys. This episode features The Scarlet Mistress, our first conversation with Miss Riley and our favorite babe with a boner, Bethany. Be sure to come back next week for three more of our Mistress friends and their top picks in pop culture (and sex toys).…
Are you ready to get Femme for the holiday? You’ll need some feminization assignments and sissy training from Mistress Olivia, Ms. Erika and special guest Miss Ruby. Each Mistress talks about how she personally stays in touch with her sexy side during the busy holiday season. Find out what Ms. Olivia said that made Ruby say, “That’s the weirdest fucking thing I’ve ever heard.” Of course, there are lots of laughs and some serious conversations about holiday stress and our LGBTQ friends. For the transwoman, crossdresser or sissy the holiday can cause unique stresses and issues. Each Mistress has specific suggestions and assignments to help girly girls stay in touch with a femme side no matter the outside circumstances.…
Did you know that Princess Cassidy is in school, studying the psychology of fear? Yep and that’s why Princess Cassidy is the perfect guest to join Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika for this episode on holiday stress. There are lots of tips and vanilla ideas of how to keep your sex life going during the holidays. You’ll enjoy the kink guide to coping with holiday stress even if you can’t get to one of the recommended fetish or kink activities. Ms. Olivia recommends Spanksgiving the kink convention in St. Louis. Ms. Erika wants to go to Hedonism in Jamaica. Princess Cassidy wants to go anywhere that is not a stay-cation! Don’t let holiday stress stop your kinky play! Check out simple ideas and assignments for some discrete erotic play even if you don’t have all the alone time or privacy that you want.…
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1:08:51What do you do with leftover holiday food? Join Ms. Erika, Miss Constance, Ms. Hunter, and Mistress Olivia for this fun conversation about the wet and messy fetish. Miss Constance tells us about her puppet who loves sploshing. These funny stories inspire the ladies to laughter and the celebration of kinky fun in all its wicked aspects. Ms. Hunter says you can incorporate sploshing into a lot of other fetish and kink roleplay scenes like cum eating, submission, humiliation and more. Ms. Erika brings up thoughtful points about how there’s nothing wrong with enjoying something like food play or any kink. Others might not “get” the erotic enjoyment but that’s okay, we do get it and will enjoy it with you! Listen to this episode and celebrate this food driven holiday in a whole new light.…
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1 Covid kinks: yes, someone did a survey to find out what is the most popular during the pandemic. 53:28
Guess what the top ten kinks are during the covid lockdown? Some are what you’d expect, but there are some surprises in there. This episode has the top five kinks according to a survey during the pandemic lockdown. Hear Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk about 5 hot, naughty and very fun topics.
Do you take it in the ass? Each Mistress talks about strapon play. In this anal and strap-on basics for beginners you’ll hear Ms Olivia, Ms Delia and Ms Erika talk about: preparing for anal sex, how to ease discomfort of first time strap-on play, best lubes for pegging, and more. Hear each Femdom talk about what she likes about strap on play and why.…
Your Mistress Hosts return with this sex in the time of COVID edition. Ms Delia and Ms Olivia introduce Mistress Erika to the show. What does a Femdom do to get her kink on during isolation? Which Mistress has the funniest kinky zoom call story? How can YOU masturbate in private at home. All this and so much more!…
If you could make a rule for a day and everyone had to follow it what would it be? Delia and Olivia share their rules in this erotic podcast snippet full of real life Mistress talk. Delia wants some immediacy while Olivia wants people to try something new sexually. Enjoy the laughs! What rule would you make?…
Phone sex is therapy or should be. In this erotic femdom podcast snippet both Delia and Olivia share their feelings about having to explain what they do in vanilla terms, and also agree that phonesex should be counted as therapy. What do you think after listening?
Even Femdom Mistresses dream of having a superpower!! In this erotic adult podcast snippet, Delia and Olivia share Real Life Mistress Talk and share their thoughts on what superpower each one would want to have. Enjoy this fun podcast!
Everyone has sexual limits or things they will not do sexually. Delia and Olivia share their sexual limits in this erotic podcast snippet. This week think about this question, "What would you NOT do sexually?" And send us some thoughts! You might inspire a new podcast.
If you could be Queen for a Day what would you do was the question posed in this adult podcast. Both Delia and Olivia had a sexual answer, and I bet that does not shock you! Enjoy this podcast and think about whether you would do something sexual, something philanthropic, or maybe you'd just be a Queen!…
I bet you love to watch porn. A porn satire is often funny and sexy. In this adult podcast snippet, Delia and Olivia talk about their favorite porn satires and share a few laughs.
Have you ever had a one night stand? Delia and Olivia have too, and in this sexy adult podcast, they share their stories. A one night stand can leave you with a sexy memory as Delia shares or leave the other person wanting as Olivia shares.
When you have a phone sex session, do you want the Mistress to masturbate on the phone with you? Does her masturbation add to the call or not? Delia and Olivia share what they do in this erotic podcast snippet, and what they say just might surprise you!
Sometimes masturbation names can make you laugh. Fapping, stroking, jacking off, jerking off. Ok sure we get some, but others are really funny like peeling the carrot, flicking the bean, or even buffin' the muffin. In this Hot Spot Podcast Snippet, Delia and Olivia have some fun with female masturbation names!…
Sometimes during kink conversation, we go off on a tangent. In this Hot Spot podcast, you will hear Ms. Delia and Ms. Olivia reflect on what would happen if they got arrested. Ms. Olivia talks about the time when she got pulled over on the way to the kink convention!
Sometimes things that are supposed to be sexually HOT just are not that way! In this Hot Spot podcast, Delia and Olivia discuss crotchless panties and flavored panties as well as flavored condoms in this podcast snippet. What things that are supposed to enhance your sexual experience leave things flat for you?…
A BDSM playlist can set the mood for any scene. Both Delia and Olivia like "thumpy" beats that match the speed of flogging, spanking, even fucking. Lyrics that express your feelings during a scene can be powerful during play. What are your go-to BDSM songs or playlists?
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The Weekly Hot Spot
1 Straight male to transwoman: interview with Maria Konner 1:10:11
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1:10:11Straight married corporate dude to smokin’ hot transwoman: an interview with Maria Konner. Maria is an author, vlogger, video blogger, musician, and FEMbassador She answers listener questions like: How do I come out? How did you leave the suburban, corporate, and straight world to follow your dream? What is it like to be a transwoman? Are you able to support yourself now that you are living en femme. How do you describe yourself - what about sex, what about relationships? Ms Olivia and Ms Erika have the best time with Maria!…
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1 How Women Rate a Dick 1:06:49
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1:06:49This episode is inspired by requested and unsolicited dick pics. Hear Ms Olivia and Ms Erika talk about setting up the new Dick Review where the penis rating team tells you what they think. Ms Olivia interviews 5 women who are cock connoisseurs. Each woman talks about what she likes and doesn’t like when looking at a penis. You’ll be surprised to hear the controversy over a certain part of the penis. Find out what happens when one Mistress compares the penis to an item of clothing. Hear ideas like setting up a Dick Museum and more. There is a lot of laughter amongst the legitimate cock rating appraisal criteria that includes: Overall size, shape and curvature Circumcised or uncircumcised What makes a cock head sexy or not Veins: yes or no on Manscaping preferences You’ll also hear an idea about offering a “how to take dick pics” service to help you improve your dick pics.…
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1 How to Give a Blow Job 1:01:30
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1:01:30This How To Give A Blow Job episode is in response to questions from callers. Mistress Olivia, Ms. Erika and Goddess Mandy describe how they each give a blow job in their personal lives. It’s okay to need to learn how to suck cock, everyone has a learning curve. Just wait until you hear about Ms. Olivia’s epic blow job fail. Whether you are bi sexual, gay, cock curious, submissive, cuckold or sissy - the tips and techniques from the ladies will get you started on the path of cock sucking success OR you can simply listen to the sexy voices and enjoy as you give yourself a hand. These experienced Femdoms talk about who needs to learn to suck cock, why many men are cock curious, the different sexual roleplay scenes that incorporate cocksucking, and so much more.…
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1 Interview with Mistress Rachel with some surprises you have to hear to believe 1:03:19
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1:03:19Fall into the sultry, sexy voice of today’s guest, Mistress Rachel. We talk about Femdom, kink, passion and so much more! Ms Erika starts us off with talk about the epic cock stroking Strokeathon. Ms Rachel shares her love of masturbation, insight into being one of her favorite playmates and her fascination with anal. Ms Rachel’s confession about ass play ends up being the quote of the day. All the ladies talk about what kinds of calls and callers they enjoy. There are some great tips about how NOT to communicate with a Mistress and the difference between being an erotic partner and being submissive. Ms Erika has some fascinating things to say about erotic humiliation. Ms Rachel shares her thoughts on the value of degradation scenes and hardcore humiliation. The ladies talk about exploring the kink world and learning things about themselves and others. Ms Olivia has an insight into why she loves phone sex during a conversation about war. Ms Rachel is a deep thinker and her insights prompts a conversation about intimacy that you won’t hear anywhere else.…
Imagine being a crossdresser for years and finally coming out to your mother. That’s just one of the moving stories from this week’s guest, Yvonne. Ms Erika tears up talking about all the crossdressers and sissies who call us and ache to be accepted. This episode runs the gamut of poignant to playful. All three ladies dish about fashion, makeup and how to develop a personal style. Yvonne talks about how a supportive community helped her realize she is not transgender or a sissy. Ms Erika and Ms Olivia dream about a feminization school and list what training classes need to be included in the curriculum. You hear the science behind how to make your voice sound more feminine and get a feminization voice assignment from Ms. Erika. All this and more when you slip into something pretty for this episode.…
Time for the Halloween edition! Princess Cassidy joins Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika to talk about scary movies, fetish fun and why vanilla women like to dress like a slut one day a year. Cassidy shares her Psychology major and talks about her focus on fear studies. Olivia brings up superhero outfits and kink. Erika shares some of her best costume choices. There’s a bit of everything in this episode including the world’s most hideous candy. Happy Halloween from all of us to you!…
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1 Special guest Dirk Hooper 1:02:50
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1:02:50Today’s guest is an award winning journalist, fetish photographer, 20-year kinkster and BDsm mentor. Dirk Hooper is a fascinating guest with insight and lots of stories. Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk with Dirk about why it’s so hard for a submissive man to find a Lifestyle Domme and how the BDsm community acts towards sex workers and Pro Dommes. The conversation evolves into porn and why Dominance and submission is so hard to accurately depict. All three weigh in on the value (or damage) of Fifty Shades of Grey. His personal and professional goal is to dispel myths about BDsm. For example, what it’s like to be a switch. He talks about being a sexual submissive and why the feelings are so hard to replicate anywhere else. Dirk has been on both sides of the whip, so to speak. Of course, there are all sorts of interesting excursions into other topics including: Ms Olivia’s love of comics art, a discussion about NFTs, crypto currency and the future of content creation, so much more!…
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1 Chastity interview with Mature Metal 1:03:26
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1:03:26The premiere chastity cage creator, William from Mature Metal, talks about all things chastity. Ms Olivia and Ms Erika have questions from callers. You’ll find out why Mature Metal’s custom sized chastity cages are so comfortable. You’ll get answers to common questions like hygiene and stealth while in chastity. Are your balls high and tight? Does that make a cage uncomfortable? There’s a solution! Circumcised versus uncircumcised means you’ll want to wear different style cages. Are you (or your keyholder) looking for the smallest cage imaginable? They’ve got you covered! Find out why Mature Metal has the BEST customer service!! You’ll also hear how William got his vanilla wife to fully embrace kink and chastity! This is one of our favorite interviews ever! It is informative, useful and, of course, full of laughter!…
Want to know what happened in the Strokeathon? Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika give you the down and dirty on this exclusive event with 10 Mistresses watching strokers. Here’s the lineup: Olivia, Madison, Erika, Willow, Riley, Hunter, Daphne, Bethany, Rachel & Harper. Miss Constance joined as the Mistress of Ceremonies. What exactly IS this edging event where each Mistress TRIES to make the men cum. Did anyone last the full hour?…
Get up close and personal with the Mistresses of the Strokeathon. This is part two of the special double episode. Each Mistress brings her special blend of experience, sensuality and wicked imagination to see if she can make the cock strokers pop their cocks! Remember the top 3 winners of the Strokeathon will earn some great prizes - and they will work for it! Rachel is the perfect mix of pure sex and wicked edging instructions. Harper talks about her BDsm history and how guided masturbation is a special treat when combined with power exchange. Willow has some wicked plans for the stroker contestants; if they can handle Willow, they might be able to last to the end of the Strokeathon. Madison has a lot of ideas about how to torment cock strokers - will they be able to refrain from cumming? Daphne won’t say exactly what her special move is but we know it’s going to topple hard cocks. Finally, Bethany points out that because she has a penis she can really torment the strokers - find out the favorite stroking instruction of this Babe with a boner. All this and so much more in this episode.…
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1 Meet the Mistresses of the Strokeathon 1:13:44
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1:13:44Meet the ladies of the Stroke-a-thon. Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk with each Mistress about this test of cock stroking stamina. Each participant will try to NOT cum until the end of the hour. Who will explode first and why? Will it be when Rachel describes what she’ll wear to the Strokeathon? Harper’s lube recommendations get the ladies thoroughly sidetracked on the luxurious sounds of a throbbing cock aching to explode. Willow’s sensual voice and her guided masturbation preview make Olivia and Erika decide to wear a strapon to the Strokeathon so they can also stroke their own dick. Madison is a thrilling addition to the LDW phone sex team. Hear her plans for her first group event. Daphne enchants the ladies by pointing out the intimacy of being able to bear witness to this intimate display of masturbation. And finally, Bethany is liable to make you lose it just listening to her say what she’s going to wear to the Strokeathon. Hint - socks, a smile and a hard cock. All this and so much more in this episode.…
It’s question time! Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika take listener questions and comments. This episode covers all kinds of calls and callers. What do the ladies think of the human connection that they say is only possible on the phone? Why is this intimacy so powerful on a phone sex call? It’s not all serious, as you know if you’re a fan of this sexuality podcast. You’ll hear Ms Olivia plead for one particular humiliation caller to call her. Ms Erika has special insight for the older sissy who is just learning to love her sissy self. The Mistress hosts are full of advice, insight and, yes, the random excursion into a bit of whacky topics.…
It’s time for STROKE-a-thon 2021! Miss Constance joins Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika for the stroke-a-thon announcement. This cock edging challenge will put your stamina up against all the Mistress masturbation experts. Can you hold out for a whole hour? Sure, maybe you can if you’re doing it on your own but with Mistress after Mistress taking turns with some wicked tease and denial, will you be able to hold on until the end? The last one stroking wins! Actually the top three expert strokers will win prizes. This is going to be a very fun event, Saturday, September 18th at 6 pm eastern. Sign ups close on September 15th. In the podcast you’ll learn about Ms Olivia’s fascination with bacon lube, why Constance is making her chastity pets sign up for the stroke-a-thon and why Erika telling her pets to “inspire her” is the best mindfuck of all.…
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1 Sex music, a BDsm playlist and general sexy conversation 1:03:04
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1:03:04Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika are joined by a very special guest -- the very sexy Phoenix. Today’s episode starts out intending to talk about sex music, sexy music, fetish scene playlists and what songs makes the ladies hot. There are multiple excursions into various sidetracks - why Phoenix isn’t living in Paris right now and her roommate who might be named after cheese. Sometimes it gets serious with talk about women performers, sexual harassment and more. Erika does her best Marilyn Monroe happy birthday impression and Olivia loses her shit over names that make her laugh. All in all, it’s fun, funny, sexy, and raunchy - just what you expect from The Weekly Hot Spot.…
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1 Movies, porn, sex scenes and the WTF obsession of a Mistress 1:00:59
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1:00:59This episode is a different kind of movie review. Ms Cassidy is a huge movie buff and joins Ms Olivia and Ms Erika to talk cinema and sex. A movie doesn’t have to be sex or BDsm themed to have some hot scenes. You’ll hear the ladies discuss what they like and why. What is porn versus erotica leads to an interesting conversation about sex workers, female empowerment and what Olivia does for the quick Big O. Cassidy’s love of vampires lead her to a series of books that she says makes her so hot. Hear why Erika asks, “What the fuck is wrong with me?” and now has her own sexy assignment to do. As always, there is lots of laughter and general naughtiness.…
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