Healing From Childhood Trauma and Going No Contact with Your Mother: Diamonde's Story [Ep. 8]
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Healing from the Mother Wound: A Journey with Diamond Williamson
In this episode of the Reconnection Rescue Podcast, Brittney Scott interviews Diamonde Williamson, a creative head at Deep Fillers Club and author of 'Deeply Personal: Notes from Facing My Mother Wound.' Diamond shares her journey of dealing with a painful mother-daughter relationship, including experiences of sexual assault, and the struggle of going no contact with her mother for her own healing. They discuss the importance of listening to one's inner child, establishing boundaries, and finding joy and purpose in life beyond past trauma. The conversation also touches on the significance of supportive relationships, notably Diamonde's partner, and the transformative power of art and writing in her healing process. Through her story, we explore the complexities of family relationships, the impact of secrets and avoidance, and the importance of honoring our inner child. This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating the complexities of estrangement or seeking to break the cycle of generational trauma.
Key Takeaways:
- The turning point that led Diamond to go no contact with her mother and aunt, and the overwhelming emotions she had to process
- How her inner child's anger and sadness guided her towards healing and set boundaries
- The role of Diamond's supportive partner in providing a safe space for her to express herself and work through her feelings
- The challenges of finding community and support when you've experienced such deep loneliness
- Diamond's journey of redefining success and learning to listen to her body's needs
- The importance of honesty, authenticity, and creating a life you're proud of, even when it means cutting ties with family
Connect with Brittney:
- Instagram and Threads: @theBrittneyScott
- Website: www.brittneymscott.com
- Consultation to work with Brittney
Connect with Diamonde:
Diamonde Williamson is the Head Creative at Deep Feelers Club, a creative arts company
specializing in publishing, art and gathering community. Previously, she led third & wonder
production house, a video production company with notable clientele like: The Oprah
Winfrey Network, Google, Warner Bros., Essence, and more.
Most recently, Diamonde published her second book, Deeply Personal: Notes from Facing
My Mother Wound, featuring memoiric notes from a very transformational time in her life,
the moment she came to accept the truth about her childhood, and her mother.
Diamonde’s mission is to create art, books and community that center honesty, vulnerability
and healing.
00:00 Trigger Warning and Introduction
00:19 The Impact of Painful Experiences
00:42 Mother's Choices and Their Consequences
01:15 The Role of a Safe Relationship
01:25 Welcome to the Reconnection Rescue Podcast
01:43 Introducing Diamond Williamson
03:43 Diamond's Journey to Estrangement
05:13 Inner Child's Voice and Anger
06:07 Facing Emotions and Going No Contact
07:10 Family's Reaction to Confrontation
08:42 The Source of Pain and Regret
14:15 Mothering Without Being Mothered
15:20 The Healing Power of Love and Art
24:59 The Role of a Supportive Partner
27:25 Navigating Family Relationships
27:58 The Struggle with Parental Reconciliation
29:28 Building Trust in a New Relationship
30:56 Understanding Personal Needs
34:01 The Decision to Go No Contact
38:07 Secrets and Their Impact
41:30 Choosing Self-Preservation
51:38 Embracing Present and Future
53:48 Conclusion and Reflections
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