How to Avoid Reacting With Blame and Anger in Your Relationships

Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships

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circa un anno fa 4:50

MAUDE: We wrote a post last week about dealing with strong negative or difficult reactions to the decisions, actions and behaviors of others, most particularly those with whom you have deep relationships. We suggested turning inside and looking at your …

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How to Avoid Reacting With Blame and Anger in Your Relationships

Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships

published circa un anno fa

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103 episodi

#Society #Relationship #Phil And Maude On Successful Relationships #Maude On Successful Relationships

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How Peaceful Relationships Create the Freedom to Be Yourself 5:07

7 giorni fa5:07

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MAUDE: Peaceful relationships are attractive. Once you have experienced the kind of deep calm and relaxation that such a connection provides, it is natural to want more. Developing these kinds of interactions through the many methods we outline in our … How Peaceful Relationships Create the Freedom to Be Yourself Read More »…

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Why Differences Don’t Need to Create Problems in Your Relationships 3:39

14 giorni fa3:39

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Here’s a conversation we had the other night about why differences aren’t a problem for us. They don’t need to be a problem for you, either. PHIL: Let me try and describe the nature of our relationship. I look at … Why Differences Don’t Need to Create Problems in Your Relationships Read More »

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How Hanging Out Enhances and Strengthens Your Relationships 3:27

21 giorni fa3:27

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Maude, with a little assist from Phil, wrote today’s post. Phil and I have, since the very early days of our relationship, set aside a time every evening to be alone with each other. We do many different activities during … How Hanging Out Enhances and Strengthens Your Relationships Read More »

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Why Respect is Important for Creating Peaceful Relationships 5:29

28 giorni fa5:29

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PHIL: Respect. Like many words, it has come to have several meanings. There is deference: you should respect your parents or pay your respects to someone. But in a relationship, it has a different meaning. When we started to talk … Why Respect is Important for Creating Peaceful Relationships Read More »…

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How to Find Joy, Peace and Inner Strength Through Your Relationships 4:46

5 weeks fa4:46

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When we write these posts, we sit down, talk together, then write separately. This offers you the same subject from two different perspectives with a certain amount of overlap. PHIL: We usually pick what to write about by looking at … How to Find Joy, Peace and Inner Strength Through Your Relationships Read More »…

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Why Peaceful Relationships Depend on What You Do and Don’t Do 6:08

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MAUDE: It was recently our 20th anniversary of meeting (and a joyous celebration it was!), and Phil and I were talking about the components of our relationship and other deep relationships with friends and family. The flavor of those peaceful … Why Peaceful Relationships Depend on What You Do and Don’t Do Read More »…

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Why It’s Important to Relate to Community as Well as Individuals 4:54

7 weeks fa4:54

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MAUDE: Recently, Phil and I and another friend attended a gathering to listen to our government representatives talk about the current situation. It was held a few blocks from where we live, here in Santa Barbara, CA. As we walked … Why It’s Important to Relate to Community as Well as Individuals Read More »…

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Embracing Acceptance: How to Let Go of Annoyances in Relationships 4:34

8 weeks fa4:34

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MAUDE: Phil shared a thought last night: “Why get cross with anyone? You will only have to fix it later. It’s like knocking over a vase of flowers because you don’t like the arrangement. You’ll just have to mop up … Embracing Acceptance: How to Let Go of Annoyances in Relationships Read More »

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Rely on Relationships to Stay Sane in an Insane World 5:20

9 weeks fa5:20

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MAUDE: In these challenging and turbulent times, it is important to fill your moments with presence; to be calmly, lovingly present. One of the best ways to do that is through your relationships. Stay connected; put extra attention and effort … Rely on Relationships to Stay Sane in an Insane World Read More »…

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Why Acknowledgment is Like a Magic Charm for Relationships 4:21

10 weeks fa4:21

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PHIL: We were talking about the role of acknowledgment in relationships. At basis, it’s a recognition that the other person exists. You are saying “I see you”, which is incredibly affirming. It’s more than saying “Oh, there you are”; it’s … Why Acknowledgment is Like a Magic Charm for Relationships Read More »…

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How to Let Conflicts Go Until You Can Talk Without Charge 6:55

11 weeks fa6:55

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Here’s a conversation we had that illustrates how you can connect without a negative charge on a topic that could be loaded. PHIL: I think this might be the perfect time to talk about something that happened a few days … How to Let Conflicts Go Until You Can Talk Without Charge Read More »

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Pay Attention – It’s How to Best Support Each Other 5:50

12 weeks fa5:50

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MAUDE: Last week, Phil had a big birthday. I had been thinking of how to celebrate him for many months, and had made numerous suggestions to him for grandiose celebrations, parties and trips. He never responded with the least enthusiasm … Pay Attention – It’s How to Best Support Each Other Read More »…

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Just Talk to Each Other – It’s That Simple 3:57

13 weeks fa3:57

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PHIL: It may seem obvious; of course you talk to your partner. But lots of conversations are about the shopping or politics or how bad the traffic was, while there can be a whole interior monologue going on that never … Just Talk to Each Other – It’s That Simple Read More »

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The Importance of Sharing Your Truth in Relationships 5:52

14 weeks fa5:52

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PHIL: I had an imaginary conversation in my head: “Tell the truth; it’s so much easier than lying.” “But people would say mean, nasty, hurtful things!” “Oh, just tell the truth, but not in a mean, nasty, hurtful way. Instead, … The Importance of Sharing Your Truth in Relationships Read More »

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Let’s Create Peace in the World, One Relationship at a Time 3:39

16 weeks fa3:39