Parenting comes with a lot of expectations, but have you ever stopped to ask where they come from? On this episode of This Is Woman’s Work , we unpack the myth of “the good mother” with Nancy Reddy , author of The Good Mother Myth . Nancy shares her personal experience of confronting the unrealistic ideal of motherhood: endlessly patient, always available, and completely selfless. She hilariously and heartbreakingly debunks these outdated ideals, rooted in flawed mid-20th-century research by figures like Harry Harlow and Dr. Spock. Nancy explains how bad science from the past continues to haunt modern parenting, creating pressure, guilt, and shame for today’s mothers. But this conversation is about more than debunking myths—it’s about empowerment. Because when you prioritize what matters and let go of perfectionism, you’re not just doing woman’s work—you’re modeling it. Connect with Nancy: Newsletter: https://nancyreddy.substack.com/ Book: https://read.macmillan.com/lp/the-good-mother-myth-9781250336644/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/nancy.o.reddy/ Essay: I Was Promised That The “Golden Hour” Would Make Me A Mom: https://slate.com/human-interest/2022/04/golden-hour-c-section-bonding-attachment-baby-friendly-hospitals.html Related Podcast Episodes: 126 / The Parenting Map with Dr. Shefali 090 / Unmasking Modern Motherhood with Katherine Wintsch 155 / Executive Motherhood with Ashley Quinto Powell Share the Love: If you found this episode insightful, please share it with a friend, tag us on social media, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! 🔗 Subscribe & Review: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Amazon Music…
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52 - AGAB Game Of The Year Awards 2024: Playing Chess With Pikachu
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51 - Ready Player One: There Were Movies in the 80s
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RIP Fred Jamesonlinktr.ee/kayandskittleswww.youtube.com/watch?v=_Ekb9HGtq1Ax.com/agabpodDi All Gamers Are Bastards
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50 - Final Fantasy X: Wakkanda Forever
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violating Yevon's teachings by talking about movies too much.linktr.ee/kayandskittleshttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_Ekb9HGtq1Ax.com/agabpodDi All Gamers Are Bastards
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49 - Assassin's Creed The Movie: Biologically Shirtless
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48 - Skyrim: Marty O'Donnell for King of the Universe
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47 - Brutal Legend: Manowar Body Oil Taste Test w/ Adam
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46 - Fallout TV: Maybe (AGAB's Version)
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our first congressional endorsement and revolutionary praxis (watching TV).linktr.ee/kayandskittlesyoutube.com/laborkyleDi All Gamers Are Bastards
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45 - Blasphemous II: This Time Catholicism Is Real
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44 - Armored Core 6: War Buddies
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GTA 6, resource extraction, Top Gun: Maverick, Kay and Rusty sitting in a tree. We recorded this before the last one .https://linktr.ee/kayandskittleshttps://youtube.com/laborkyleDi All Gamers Are Bastards
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43 - AGAB Game Of The Year Awards 2023: Postmodern Mario
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42 - Batman: Arkham Asylum feat. The Cato Institute
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What we're playing, German election news, and visions into the libertarian brain.https://linktr.ee/kayandskittleshttps://youtube.com/laborkyleDi All Gamers Are Bastards
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41 - Prison Architect: Maybe The Prisoners Actually Like The Torment Nexus?
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40 - A Way Out: The Ballad of Johnny Spaghetti
1:06:23
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It's anti-Italian discrimination!Bonus Episodes:https://patreon.com/agabpodhttps://linktr.ee/kayandskittleshttps://youtube.com/laborkyleDi All Gamers Are Bastards
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39 - Resident Evil 4 Remake: Inappropriate Leon Thoughts w/ Reese from VGATWTOE and CRT Soundsystem
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RE4 madness. Reese is back!VGATWTOE: https://linktr.ee/vgatwtoeCRT Soundsystem: https://t.co/cKIfEbmJ8cBonus Episodes:https://patreon.com/agabpodhttps://linktr.ee/kayandskittleshttps://youtube.com/laborkyleDi All Gamers Are Bastards
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38 - Presentable Liberty: Mountain Dew Sponsored Prison
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37 Cyberpunk 2077: Police Kettle at the Burrito Vending Machine w/ Adam from Acid Horizon
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Adam is back to smart up the place. Buy his book.Anti-Oculus:https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/734147/anti-oculus-by-acid-horizon/Bonus Episodes:https://patreon.com/agabpodhttps://linktr.ee/kayandskittleshttps://youtube.com/laborkyleDi All Gamers Are Bastards
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36 - Bioshock 2: Do You Think Big Daddies Hang Dong?
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Idk probably anyway more Bioshock.Bonus Episodes:https://patreon.com/agabpodhttps://linktr.ee/kayandskittleshttps://youtube.com/laborkyleDi All Gamers Are Bastards
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35 - Do Not Feed the Monkeys: Gaming Defense Force (Pinkertons)
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Love u missed u.Bonus Episodes:https://patreon.com/agabpodhttps://linktr.ee/kayandskittleshttps://youtube.com/laborkyleDi All Gamers Are Bastards
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34 - AGAB Game Of The Year Awards 2022
1:25:40
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AGAB Awards: The Rise of Gru.Bonus Episodes:https://patreon.com/agabpodhttps://linktr.ee/kayandskittleshttps://youtube.com/laborkyleDi All Gamers Are Bastards
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33 - Modern Warfare II: Fortnite Geopolitcs
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Welcome to the sexual b-side of the male power fantasy baby.Bonus Episodes:https://patreon.com/agabpodhttps://linktr.ee/kayandskittleshttps://youtube.com/laborkyleDi All Gamers Are Bastards
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32 - Dark Souls: Nasty Little Guys w/ Horror Vanguard
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crossover of the century babyHorror Vanguard: https://soundcloud.com/user-317910500Bonus Episodes:https://patreon.com/agabpodhttps://linktr.ee/kayandskittleshttps://youtube.com/laborkyleDi All Gamers Are Bastards
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31 - Paradox Interactive: Going Civil War Mode
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Historical fiction simulator.Bonus Episodes:https://patreon.com/agabpodhttps://linktr.ee/kayandskittleshttps://youtube.com/laborkyleDi All Gamers Are Bastards
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30 - Fallout 76: Todd's Inferno Part 2
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This one's about labor organizing. Todd Howard is an enemy of the people man. Google Staughton Lynd man.Bonus Episodes:https://patreon.com/agabpodhttps://linktr.ee/kayandskittleshttps://youtube.com/laborkyleDi All Gamers Are Bastards
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29 - Fallout 4: Todd's Inferno Part 1
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We have New Vegas at home.Bonus Episodes:https://patreon.com/agabpodhttps://linktr.ee/kayandskittleshttps://youtube.com/laborkyleDi All Gamers Are Bastards
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28 - Ryse: Son of Dong
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E3 is in August now.Bonus Episodes:https://patreon.com/agabpodhttps://linktr.ee/kayandskittleshttps://youtube.com/laborkyleDi All Gamers Are Bastards
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27 - Tunic: The Podcast Of Record w/ Sarah Zedig
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The joy of language!Sarah on Tunic: https://youtu.be/MTuD51hl1ec?si=dz1cnG-eAzNJbJv1Bonus Episodes:https://patreon.com/agabpodhttps://linktr.ee/kayandskittleshttps://youtube.com/laborkyleDi All Gamers Are Bastards
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26 - Elden Ring: The Way of Water
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Eight minute rant about Northman discourse was sponsored by Young Sheldon on CBS.Bonus Episodes:https://patreon.com/agabpodhttps://linktr.ee/kayandskittleshttps://youtube.com/laborkyleDi All Gamers Are Bastards
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25 - A Bewitching Revolution: Magical Landlord Defenestration w/ Adam from Acid Horizon
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Our favorite insurrectionist stops by the pod.https://twitter.com/SanktMaxTCIhttps://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/734147/anti-oculus-by-acid-horizon/Bonus Episodes:https://patreon.com/agabpodhttps://linktr.ee/kayandskittleshttps://youtube.com/laborkyleDi All Gamers Are Bastards
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24 - The Beginner's Guide: Feels Good, Man
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nintendo being bastards, authorial intent, video games.Bonus Episodes:https://patreon.com/agabpodhttps://linktr.ee/kayandskittleshttps://youtube.com/laborkyleDi All Gamers Are Bastards
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23 - Death Stranding: Piss And Friendship w/ Horror Vanguard
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Ghosts are back :DHorror Vanguard: https://soundcloud.com/user-317910500Bonus Episodes:https://patreon.com/agabpodhttps://linktr.ee/kayandskittleshttps://youtube.com/laborkyleDi All Gamers Are Bastards
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22 - AGAB Game Of The Year Awards 2021
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1. Glover2. Croc: Legend of the Gobbos3. Glover 2 (cancelled)Bonus Episodes:https://patreon.com/agabpodhttps://linktr.ee/kayandskittleshttps://youtube.com/laborkyleDi All Gamers Are Bastards
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21 - Days Gone: The Ballad Of Donkey St. James
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John Yarvin Libertarianism Hour (come on the pod John).Sam Adler-Bell in the New Republic: https://t.co/k73RNKb3lLBonus Episodes:https://patreon.com/agabpodhttps://linktr.ee/kayandskittleshttps://youtube.com/laborkyleDi All Gamers Are Bastards
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20 - The Last of Us (pt. I): Homer Simpson Far Cry Skin
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"No offense.""Oh I'm not gay.""You're not?"Bonus Episodes:https://patreon.com/agabpodhttps://linktr.ee/kayandskittleshttps://youtube.com/laborkyleDi All Gamers Are Bastards
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19 - Hollow Knight: They Put MLK in Fortnite
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Our most cursed final segment ever.Bonus Episodes:https://patreon.com/agabpodhttps://linktr.ee/kayandskittleshttps://youtube.com/laborkyleDi All Gamers Are Bastards
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18 - The Forgotten City: Tony Soprano Dream Analysis
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Historiography: The Game.Bonus Episodes:https://patreon.com/agabpodhttps://linktr.ee/kayandskittleshttps://youtube.com/laborkyleDi All Gamers Are Bastards
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17 - Red Dead Redemption 2: This One's About Boss Baby
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Arthur Morgan CEO grindset edit.Bonus Episodes:https://patreon.com/agabpodhttps://linktr.ee/kayandskittleshttps://youtube.com/laborkyleDi All Gamers Are Bastards
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16 - Blasphemous: Simulating Catholicism
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B o s s B a b yBonus Episodes:https://patreon.com/agabpodhttps://linktr.ee/kayandskittleshttps://youtube.com/laborkyleDi All Gamers Are Bastards
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15 - Celeste: E3 Did 9/11 w/ Brynn from Beep Beep Lettuce
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14 - God of War: We Will Be the Gods We Choose to Be
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Big Guy simulator.Bonus Episodes:https://patreon.com/agabpodhttps://linktr.ee/kayandskittleshttps://youtube.com/laborkyleDi All Gamers Are Bastards
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13 - Sea Salt & Other Lovecraftian Games: Buscemi Rides Again
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Weird and eerie story hour.Bonus Episodes:https://patreon.com/agabpodhttps://linktr.ee/kayandskittleshttps://youtube.com/laborkyleDi All Gamers Are Bastards
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12 - Hades: Dionysus is My Boyfriend
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Folks, a good one.Bonus Episodes:https://patreon.com/agabpodhttps://linktr.ee/kayandskittleshttps://youtube.com/laborkyleDi All Gamers Are Bastards
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11 - Final Fantasy 7 Remake: 5G Shinra Vaccine
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Barret Wallace is our dad.Bonus Episodes:https://patreon.com/agabpodhttps://linktr.ee/kayandskittleshttps://youtube.com/laborkyleDi All Gamers Are Bastards
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10 - The Tenants: Assigned Landlord at Birth
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We played a junk game.The official AGAB promotional ad for the Omni One - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gEJCf-PyzOYBonus Episodes:https://patreon.com/agabpodhttps://linktr.ee/kayandskittleshttps://youtube.com/laborkyleDi All Gamers Are Bastards
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09 - Resident Evil: Jill Sandwich Hold the Slaw w/ Horror Vanguard
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Welcome to the Great Ghouls.Check out Part I of this conversation on HV's channelhttps://soundcloud.com/user-317910500/133-resident-evil-video-games-with-all-gamers-are-bastardsBonus Episodes:https://patreon.com/agabpodhttps://linktr.ee/kayandskittleshttps://youtube.com/laborkyleDi All Gamers Are Bastards
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08 - Warhammer Fantasy: An App For Jacking Off w/ Alton and Reese from VGATWTOE
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With special guests,VGATWTOE:https://videogamesaretheworst.pinecast.co/Bonus Episodes:https://patreon.com/agabpodhttps://linktr.ee/kayandskittleshttps://youtube.com/laborkyleDi All Gamers Are Bastards
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07 - Amnesia Rebirth: No-fap Pod Lifetime Sentence
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Free Financial Advice.Kay on Amnesia:https://youtu.be/OItRToZLJKQ?si=rQ87uz9TLJO7P1FUBonus Episodes:https://patreon.com/agabpodhttps://linktr.ee/kayandskittleshttps://youtube.com/laborkyleDi All Gamers Are Bastards
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06 - Final Fantasy IX: The Rise Of Woke Indiana Jones
1:07:19
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It's the name of the game. Copy editing the Spielberg cinematic universe.Bonus Episodes:https://patreon.com/agabpodhttps://linktr.ee/kayandskittleshttps://youtube.com/laborkyleDi All Gamers Are Bastards
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05 - Call Of Duty: Black Ops Cold War (Fortnite Fap Alcázar)
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They put the Duke 1992 basketball roster in Fortnite.Bonus Episodes:https://patreon.com/agabpodhttps://linktr.ee/kayandskittleshttps://youtube.com/laborkyleDi All Gamers Are Bastards
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04 - Fallout 3: Enter The Coomer Dome
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Fresh out of Todd Howard's pleasure basementBonus Episodes:https://patreon.com/agabpodhttps://linktr.ee/kayandskittleshttps://youtube.com/laborkyleDi All Gamers Are Bastards
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03 - Bioshock: Cybermen42069
1:10:21
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Rand Rants and the Cyberpunk launch.Bonus Episodes:https://patreon.com/agabpodhttps://linktr.ee/kayandskittleshttps://youtube.com/laborkyleDi All Gamers Are Bastards
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