How You're Energetically Misaligned and Living in an Illusion with Jen Romanowski

Deconstructing YOU

Sunshine is a Psychic Medium, Soul Healer, Spiritual Advisor, High Priestess, Reiki Master, Recovering Alcoholic and founder of Sunshine Readings. Her passion is helping others learn how to step into their shadows so they can uncover their own magick and psychic gifts needed to remove any energetic blocks to their soul’s enlightenment. She is the Creatrix of Illuminate, The Unschool of Witchcraft. This transformational program includes Sunshine’s divine-inspired gifts in 7 different monthly workshops and 1:1 access to her. In addition to owning and operating Sunshine Readings, Sunshine is also an award-winning software product manager and business operations expert that is helping corporations revolutionize their internal structure and processes to adopt a more innovative culture. In her spare time, you will find Sunshine dancing, cooking, painting, and hanging out with her five kitties in the suburbs of Detroit, Michigan.

“Only when we know our own darkness can we sit in the darkness with others." - Pema Chodron

Introduction:

• In this episode, we delve deep into the transformative journey of Jen, a seasoned professional in software product management, as she transitions from a corporate career to a path of spiritual and metaphysical exploration.

Background:

• Jen's extensive background spans over 20 years in software product management and leadership roles.

• Managed million-dollar ad budgets and worked with Fortune 500 companies.

• Despite success, she experienced a profound shift, hitting a "springboard" moment in 2019 that redirected her life.

Rock Bottom to Springboard:

• Jen's awakening was triggered by her father's struggle with alcoholism, leading her to confront her own patterns.

• A pivotal 2.5-month leave of absence to care for her ailing father became a catalyst for change.

• Returned to a corporate job briefly but felt disillusioned, resigning abruptly after almost 12 years.

Unraveling the Mess:

• Jen describes this period as messy, icky, and horrifying, prompting her departure from a corporate world she once adored.

• The grieving process ensued, mourning the loss of identity tied to the corporate structure.

• The journey of self-discovery during this liminal space involved deep emotional release through daily yin yoga.

The Mask Falls:

• The disillusionment brought forth profound questions about her choices, leading to a reevaluation of her life's direction.

• The first encounter with the unveiled self brought waves of shame, guilt, and intense introspection.

• Prayer and meditation became tools for seeking guidance and ensuring she never found herself in such a situation again.

Shadow Work Importance:

• Reflecting on societal influences, Jen emphasizes how external forces shape identities from an early age.

• The critical need to explore the shadow self arises from a lifetime of living prescribed identities and beliefs.

• Acknowledges the challenge of awakening at an older age but stresses the necessity of this inner exploration for authentic living.

Autopilot and Paradigm Shift:

• Discusses the autopilot mode where people may find success without delving into their shadows.

• Questions arise about societal conditioning, career choices dictated by others, and the impact on authentic self-expression.

• Urges those in autopilot to question and explore their true desires beyond societal expectations.

The Unconscious Realm:

• Jen explores the disruptive nature of shadow work, challenging preconceived notions about gender roles, societal norms, and career paths.

• Acknowledges the discomfort and questioning that emerges during this process.

• Jen encourages individuals to go beyond conventional coaching or affirmations, diving into the unconscious realm for profound transformation.

• Energetic Imbalances and Chakras:

• Insight into the throat chakra and its connection to authenticity.

• The physical manifestations of misaligned chakras, such as laryngitis and respiratory issues.

Memories in Energetic DNA:

• The lasting impact of memories on energetic DNA and how they influence our present experiences.

• The importance of addressing and releasing energetic scars through emotional expression.

• We explore the shadow aspects of various chakras and how they manifest in our lives.

• Understanding the interconnectedness of chakras and their influence on our well-being.