The Energy Gap: When Values and Actions Don't Align

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Our energy and nervous system drive our behavior far more than the values we claim to hold, creating a disconnect between what we say matters and where we actually spend our time and focus.
• Stated values often contradict actual behaviors due to unconscious safety mechanisms
• Nervous system creates safety behaviors based on past experiences that worked for survival
• High achievers typically oscillate between wounded masculine energy (pushing, controlling) and wounded feminine energy (avoiding, self-doubt)
• Fight/flight/freeze responses consume enormous energy compared to the connected "green zone"
• Looking at behaviors through lens of safety rather than judgment creates compassion
• Rewiring requires building capacity for new energy states through small, consistent actions
• Safety-building practices include creating space in schedules, somatic work, and sensory activities
• When nervous system feels safe, masculine energy leads with presence (not control) and feminine energy flows with trust
• Identity shifts when no longer operating from survival patterns
• Becoming more connected to your body creates ripple effects of compassion for self and others
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Capitoli

1. Values vs. Energy: The Hidden Disconnect (00:00:00)

2. Masculine and Feminine Energy Patterns (00:09:30)

3. Fight, Flight, and Freeze in Daily Life (00:14:24)

4. Compassion Over Judgment (00:18:30)

5. Building Safety Through Small Changes (00:20:48)

6. Finding Your Identity Beyond Survival Mode (00:22:12)