#48 What Does it Mean About You with Husband, Father, Business Owner Allan Miles

Be The Wolf

Ever make a mistake at work and beat yourself up – for days?

How about when your boss called you in to yell at you? What did the voice in your head have to say about that?

Essentially these things are tiny moments in the grand scheme of life. And in theory, they shouldn’t mean much of anything.

But more often than not, they hijack our thoughts, time, and energy.

We humans, have a need to understand why things happen. We have to EVERYTHING mean something.

And when things go wrong, most people will make it mean that there’s something wrong with them.

People tell themselves things like:

• It happened because I’m an idiot because I can’t figure out the new software system.
• It went wrong because I’ll never do anything right
• They’ll never forgive me for my screw up
• Nobody will ever talk to me again.

The problem is that once that inner voice starts beating you up, it knocks the wind out of your sails. It makes it VERY hard to go after what you want in life.

You’ll lose your motivation and procrastinate. You’ll second guess yourself and take too long to make decisions. You’ll wonder if you’re even capable of getting what you want and stop trying.

And the more that inner voice lays into you, the more often you’ll accidentally prove it right.

This bullying inner voice has sabotaged many lives, and quieting it down is key to happiness, success, and fulfillment. Join me and Allan Miles as we discuss the devastating effects this inner voice can have on one’s life and career.

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Father of 5 and business owner. Allan is committed to being the best version of himself for his family, for his children to learn life has no limits and won't wait for anyone and to help his business clients build and scale their businesses with his support to allow them to maximize their life.