201: Mastering the Jiu-Jitsu Mental Game: Is Your Ego Helping or Hurting Your Progress?

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When it comes to Jiu-Jitsu, our biggest opponent isn’t always the person across from us on the mat. It’s often our own ego. Whether you’re training for competition, personal growth, or the mental and physical health benefits, ego can be both a hidden asset and an invisible obstacle. So, how do you know if your ego is helping you push forward or holding you back?

In this episode, we’ll explore the role ego plays in Jiu-Jitsu, how it impacts your growth and relationships on the mat, and practical strategies to manage it.

We’ll break down the key ego traps to watch out for, the importance of a ‘beginner’s mind’ at any level, and how to keep upir ego in check and take your Jiu-Jitsu to the next level.

Chapters

(00:00) Introduction to ways your ego impacts your Jiu-Jitsu progress (03:09) Framing your ego as a positive self image (04:32) How ego impacts your competition mindset (06:18) How to recognize the negative impact of your ego during training (10:12) Ego, belt promotions, comparison, and jealousy (13:10) When you don’t listen to your body (15:22) When ego shows up as frustration (17:00) Creating an ego-free training environment (23:32) Roll Model Grappling Camp 2025 Theme and Party Reveal

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