E55: Love is a Verb
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On today's episode:
- Love is a verb.
- Nobody is obligated to be in your life.
- Ryan chose to act in love, even though I wasn’t particularly lovable in that moment.
- If you want to make it long-term in your relationship, you have to work to attune yourself to your partner and their attempts at positive shifts in your dynamic for connection.
- It’s easy to show love when you’re feeling loving.
- The love you feel in the early stages of a relationship is flattery and validation.
- Growth is when you find yourself responding to situations differently than your old self would have.
- Book referenced: "The Meaning of Marriage" by Timothy Keller.
- True love means being your ugliest self around someone and them still choosing to give you the benefit of the doubt, accepting your imperfections, staying, and giving you a chance to grow and evolve out of your negative patterns.
AND MORE!
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