Joking With Billionaires, Lines, And Finding Inspiration

House of Style

In this solo episode of House of Style, Grant Alexander dives into the idea of “Why Not Both?” — a concept that explores how two seemingly contrasting things can be true at the same time and, when embraced, can help build a more authentic and multifaceted personal style. We often think we need to choose one thing or the other when defining our identity or style, but the truth is, we don’t have to be boxed in. Our style, just like our personality, can be complex, contradictory, and still make perfect sense.

Throughout this episode, Grant explores how embracing contradictions can add depth to personal style. Whether it’s being both bold and understated, or polished yet relaxed, the key is recognizing that you don’t have to limit yourself to one side of the spectrum. You can — and should — be a blend of different energies, moods, and expressions. Style, after all, is about reflecting your true self, and no one is one-dimensional. The more you accept the contrasting elements that make you unique, the more authentic your personal style becomes.

Grant also shares tips on how and where to find inspiration for developing your own style. Inspiration is all around us, and sometimes it comes from the most unexpected places. It could be in the way someone approaches their work, how they communicate, or even in moments that seem ordinary on the surface but spark something inside you. He discusses the importance of staying open to different influences — whether that’s from art, music, conversations, or experiences — and how you can turn those inspirations into actionable steps to enhance your personal style.

One personal story Grant shares is about an unexpected moment of inspiration that came from joking around with billionaires. Yes, billionaires. This story is a perfect example of how he treats everyone with the same level of respect and humor, no matter their status. For Grant, it’s about authenticity and treating people like human beings, whether they’re a CEO, a celebrity, or someone you meet in your day-to-day life. He believes that status doesn’t change how you should treat someone, and this mindset has become a key part of his personal style — both in how he presents himself and how he interacts with others.

The “Why Not Both?” approach is a big part of how Grant has developed his own style — combining professionalism with playfulness, formality with friendliness. You don’t have to be rigidly defined by one role or one way of being. He explains how this mindset has helped him in both personal and professional settings, and why he believes it’s the secret to unlocking a more fulfilling, expressive, and confident version of yourself.

By the end of this episode, Grant hopes to inspire listeners to embrace the contrasts in their own life and style. Whether it’s in how they dress, how they act, or how they connect with others, he wants to show that you can be both serious and playful, both polished and laid-back, and still have a cohesive and authentic personal style. Life isn’t about fitting into a single mold — it’s about embracing the complexity and richness of who you are and using that to express yourself fully.

So, if you’ve ever felt torn between two contrasting sides of your identity, this episode is for you. Grant is here to show that not only can both things be true, but when you allow yourself to embrace both, you unlock a deeper and more authentic version of yourself.

Tune in to discover how embracing contradictions can help build your personal style and how to find inspiration from the world around you. Get ready to rethink the rules, push the boundaries, and ask yourself: “Why not both?”