3 Good Things

Practical Wisdom for Busy People by Tim LeBon

Would you like to hear about a mental exercise you can do that will take less than 5 minutes a day and has been shown to increase happiness and reduce depression for as long as 6 months after you’ve practiced it every day for a week? If you would, then stay tuned. It’s called 3 good things in Life and its one of the most powerful exercises to have come from Martin Seligman’s new branch of psychology, called Positive Psychology. This is what you do:- Each night for one week, write down three things that went well that day. In addition to writing three things that went well, reflect on what you did that contributed to the good thing happening, directly or indirectly. That’s it. Do that for a week and if you are like most people your happiness will increase and remain elevated for at least 6 months. The only thing to remember is not to set the bar too high – the good thing doesn’t have to be that you just won the Nobel Prize! Remember to include how you contributed to that good thing happening as its empowering to realise that what you do makes a difference. Here are some examples Example 1) I went for a nice walk at lunch instead of snacking at my desk - I made this happen by planning it. Example 2) I had a nice chat with my friend – at first I was tempted to say I didnt contribute to this, because she called me - then I realised that over the years I have done plenty to build and maintain this friendship Example 3 The sun shone today – I noticed it! In all 3 cases I contributed to the good things happening, even in the case of the sun shining, as there is a version of me that might not have noticed it in which case the good thing wouldn’t have happened for me. Why is 3 Good Things in Life such a potent exercise? Like any successful recipe, it combines ingredients that enhance each other. It’s a gratitude exercise, it builds optimism and it facilitates positive planning. You can do it on your own or within teams at work or with your family. Why not try it today?