Loving Beyond Control

Restoration Home with Jennifer Pepito

Join Jennifer and Mary DeMuth author of Love, Pray Listen, as they talk about how our internal order has more to do with our children's order than our ability to manage well or enforce outward order. This grows with a willingness to pursue our identity in Christ and let him be our all in all, so that when the day comes, and our children leave the nest and begin making their own decisions, we aren't caught in the trap of believing we can control or "order" their lives. Instead, we can Love, Pray and Listen.

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In this episode–

• When we can calm ourselves and be orderly in our emotions, self-regulation, we create order in our homes and the lives of our children
• Take a sabbath, a life giving day
• Where is your real joy coming from
• Practicing benevolent detachment: your role shifts as your children become adults
• Have to be able to grieve so you can find your joy and identity in the only one who is Good
• Extremes can wreck our children’s internal order because extremes are the manifestations of our internal disorder.
• Releasing control in the process of creating order
• Your identity is more than "mother", finding Christ at the centre through motherhood and beyond.
• Mary DeMuth has created a free resource with 52 prayers for your adult children.
• You can find all of Mary's books here.

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