Could your mobile phone habits be holding you back from living your best life? Discover how to reclaim your time and mental space with my latest episode on mobile phone usage. I kick things off by reflecting on our deep reliance on these devices, guiding you through a phone audit to assess how much time you actually spend on your phone. Rather than…

Can frustration solve your debt problems?" This week, I tackle an issue that many of us face but often feel powerless to change: debt. Through my personal experiences and a recent coaching session with a client, we'll explore the societal belief that debt is inherently negative and challenge you to rethink this mindset. Reflect on how habitual thou…

Can a simple shift in language transform your life? Discover how changing "I have to" into "I want to" can lead to a more empowered and fulfilling daily routine. This week, we explore how this subtle change in phrasing can turn feelings of obligation and resentment into opportunities for growth and positivity. Whether it's mundane tasks like cookin…

Ever wondered how societal norms shape men's emotional lives and the impact this has on their well-being? Join me as I kick off a heartfelt conversation with my husband, Jonny Bevan, exploring his personal journey of emotional growth. As a mother of two boys, I'm passionate about creating a space where men can see their emotions as strengths. Jonny…

Have you ever wondered why we instinctively shy away from negative emotions? This episode tackles the deeply ingrained societal conditioning that leads us to suppress feelings like anxiety and frustration. Drawing from my extensive experience coaching a diverse range of people, I reveal the crucial survival role these emotions play and how compassi…

Imagine finding a balanced approach to managing your child's screen time without resorting to extreme measures. Join me as I share my personal journey as both a parent and a coach, grappling with the reality of social media and gaming in our children's lives. We'll uncover how to shift from an all-or-nothing mindset to a more balanced perspective t…

Can you really control your emotions during menopause, even when the physical symptoms feel overwhelming? Join me this week as I explore the often neglected emotional aspect of menopause. I'll uncover the distinction between physical sensations and emotional responses, empowering you to manage your mindset even when you can't control your body's re…

As the summer days come to an end and school bells start ringing, I find myself on an emotional rollercoaster. Join me as I recount the joys of unscheduled summer days spent with my children and the bittersweet transition of seeing them return to school. Whether you’re excited or feeling the post-summer blues, it's all about embracing and accepting…

Ever wondered why your teen or toddler just won't listen? I'm sharing my proven technique to deal with the sometime, persistent questioning, arguing or not listening. In this episode, I'm talking about brain development in children and teenagers, explaining why they sometimes struggle to control their emotions and actions. By understanding these de…

Disconnecting from the outside world for two and a half weeks seemed daunting at first, leaving me agitated and craving the quick hits of dopamine that social media offers. However, this period of disconnection revealed deeper insights into the self-imposed pressures and feelings of inadequacy that many working women and mums deal with. By embracin…

If you're working mum trying to work from home in the summer holidays, you may just resonate with this podcast. Every working mums nightmare... it’s the summer holidays, it’s raining, the wi-fi can’t handle ALL the devices & she needs to work!! I’ve got you! Listen to this week's episode where I’m going to help you deal with this scenario. You can …

Mum guilt – it's real my friends & in this episode, I’m talking about why we have it & how to overcome it. If you find yourself constantly feeling guilty for going to work, enjoying work or because you feel you ‘should’ be at home, this is the episode for you. You can also watch this episode on YouTube with Captions - https://www.youtube.com/@TheWo…

In this podcast, I’m talking about the transformative power of choice. Recognising that we always have a choice, even in difficult circumstances, can be so very empowering and one of the best gift's I've given myself. I can’t stress enough that while we cannot control external circumstances, we can choose how we interpret and respond to them. This …

Do you struggle to ‘switch off’? Even on holiday or a day off, are you checking your inbox or replying to work messages? There’s no judgement from me here but if this is you, this week’s podcast might just help you! Alot. 😁 I am completely switching off for 3 weeks over a family holiday. It takes a while for part of my brain to accept this, but whe…

Do you struggle with having to control everything or everyone? Or maybe you don't like surprises. On this week's podcast episode, I’m sharing with you the 4 lessons learned from the surprise birthday weekend in Snowdonia with my husband & boys. It includes the importance of embracing the unknown, not needing to ‘mother hen’ everyone, surrendering t…

In this podcast episode, I’m talking about the topic of dealing with uncertainty. I share personal experiences of facing uncertainty and offer simple tools to manage it effectively. The human brain dislikes uncertainty and tends to create negative stories about the future to cope. The key to overcoming this is understanding that these stories are n…

Not enough hours in the day? Not enough time? This short podcast is for you! It feels true, doesn’t it? That there’s not enough hours in the day and if this is what you find yourself saying (and believing) please, please, please listen to this week's podcast episode. I’m going to help you overcome this problem. You can also watch this episode on Yo…

Do you find yourself procrastinating? Then this episode is for you! Even though I don’t consider myself to be a big procrastinator, I do still do it. We all do! We’re human. In this episode, I’m going to teach you why we procrastinate, along with some easy, doable techniques to overcome it. Don’t delay listening to this episode! 😉 You can also watc…

What makes a good mother? I believe we live in a time when we can have it all, the job & the family in balance but not until you’re willing to lower your expectations about what you can do. In this podcast episode, I challenge societal expectations of motherhood, urging you to embrace your individuality and make choices that align with your values …

I’m not gunna lie, today I’m feeling negative. In this week's podcast, I’m sharing my experience of managing negative emotions and adapting to life's challenges. It’s important to recognise and manage negative emotions, practice self-compassion, and using the very simple technique I’m teaching in this episode, you too can learn how to redirect your…

This week I’m talking about the struggle I have to switch off and the constant inner dialogue that tells me “I should be working”, even during planned time off. There’s a difference between active resting and forced relaxation and I share my personal experience to illustrate how relaxation and mindfulness can improve productivity, well-being, and r…

How often do you describe things as ‘silly’? I’ve really noticed a lot of mums saying, “It’s the silly little things I’ve got to do that just don’t get done”. If you find yourself saying this, then this podcast is for you. In this week's episode, I’m going to give you a really simple way to overcome the ‘silly little things’ so that they get done &…

This week I have my first guest on the podcast. Please meet Vicky, a coach, business owner, mother of five and a client of mine. Vicky is sharing her experience of working with me, her perspective on motherhood, the importance of self-care and personal fulfillment for a happy and healthy family along with her opinion on the transformative power of …

How well do you deal with disappointment? Or is it something that you avoid at all costs? In this week's podcast, I’m talking about how to deal with disappointment so that it doesn’t hold you back. This is important to learn, because if you’re always trying not to feel disappointed, you’re probably disappointed anyway because you’ve not tried to do…

Does your brain naturally go to the negative? Do you find yourself spinning in worst case scenario’s? Then this week’s podcast is for you! So many of my clients come to me and say “yes but Nicky, my brain goes to the worst case scenario”. To which I reply, with so much love, “Yes of course it does. You’re human. Doesn’t mean it’s telling you the tr…

Do you struggle to make decisions? Are you the type of person who delays making them, puts it off or leaves it to someone else? Then this episode is for you. This week, I’m talking about how to make decisions without all the drama. I’m challenging the belief that you’re not good at making decisions. Understanding the importance of approaching decis…

This one comes with a warning... I'm having a rant. But you might be surprised at what I'm ranting about. If you think you're husbands incapable of looking after the kids, doing the chores or anything else, this episode is for you. 😉 It comes with so much love to you! 💜 You can also watch this episode on YouTube with Captions - https://www.youtube.…

It is my intention to inspire you with this episode and to be an example of what's possible because this week, I'm telling you my story about how I got into Life Coaching. I'm also sharing with you what I consider to be the most empowering skill I've learnt along the way. Please don't use this episode to compare, judge or criticize yourself. Listen…

In this week’s podcast I’m talking about having expectations and how, when you have unrealistic expectations for yourself as well as situation or other people, it causes you pain. When you learn to notice and manage your expectations, you don’t then make it mean somethings wrong with you when they’re not met. Using examples of my real life with hus…

Setting and maintaining emotional boundaries. Do you do it? Learning to set and honour boundaries is important for managing your emotional exhaustion and maintaining healthy relationships. It’s a skill. If you feel torn all the time between work & family, you’re probably not setting or honouring your boundaries. Setting boundaries is self-care. Set…

Do you love without conditions? I believe in unconditional love. Choosing to love another human even those who have made bad choices. Love is a choice. Choosing love, is for your benefit. No-one else’s. When you feel love, you show up as the best version of yourself. Take a listen to this week’s podcast episode, I think you’ll love it. Pun intended…

Saying “no”. So many of us struggle with it, which has us saying yes to shit we don’t wanna do. Not saying no, adds so much stress to our already busy lives & yet we find it so difficult. In this week’s episode, I’m going to sharing some personal experiences of this along with some tips on how to over come it. It’s fascinating, isn’t it? How we avo…

In this week’s podcast I’m chatting about time management, covering both practical and mindset aspects. The importance of mindset in time management is vital, as it can free up mental space, reduce stress & drama. If you struggle with feeling overwhelmed by your to-do lists, which can lead to unproductive activities like scrolling on social media o…

In this episode I discuss how your actions are driven by emotions created by thoughts in your head. Examples of actions include overeating, over drinking or scrolling on social media, snapping at your kids, while inaction could be avoiding a challenging conversation or not exercising. The episode includes examples of how you can choose to respond t…

In today’s podcast episode I’m talking about your emotions & teaching you how to deal with them. If you’ve just rolled your eyes at the word emotion, don’t switch off. The fact that you’re a human means that, like it or not, you have emotions. It's impossible to feel happy & positive all the time. But so many of us try to avoid feeling negative bec…

In this episode, I’m talking about Self-awareness and controlling negative thoughts. Emphasizing the importance of self-reflection and understanding your thoughts to manage your emotions. Negative self-talk and its impact on self-confidence. Which I something I struggle with, including thoughts of inadequacy and self-doubt. The power of choice in s…

In this episode I talk about the first step of mind management. Life presents us with neutral circumstances, but our brains interpret and respond to these events, thereby creating our emotions. Your feelings, which stem from your thoughts, guide your actions, and the results you're experiencing depends on these actions. I talk about the power of th…

Here's what to expect from this podcast. You can also watch this episode on YouTube with Captions - https://www.youtube.com/@TheWorkingMumsLifeCoach If you'd like to have a chat about how I can help you further, please don't hesitate to click here & book a time with me, I'd love to meet you. You can also follow me on IG @TheWorkingMumsCoach…