Emotional baggage

LX2 Codependency Coaching

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“If we march into that village and we start trying to persecute people for using poison, something that's very illegal, nobody's going to talk to us. We're not going to find out where the poison came from. We're not going to be able to shut anything down. We should take the approach that people are using poison because they're desperate, because they see no other alternative.” – Andrew Stein Andrew Stein is a wildlife ecologist who spent the past 25 years studying human carnivore conflict from African wild dogs and lions in Kenya and Botswana to leopards and hyenas in Namibia. His work has long focused on finding ways for people and predators to coexist. He is the founder of CLAWS , an organization based in Botswana that's working at the intersection of cutting-edge wildlife research and community driven conservation. Since its start in 2014 and official launch as an NGO in 2020, CLAWS has been pioneering science-based, tech-forward strategies to reduce conflict between people and carnivores. By collaborating closely with local communities, especially traditional cattle herders, CLAWS supports both species conservation and rural livelihoods—making coexistence not just possible, but sustainable.…

circa un anno fa 26:00

Today, we are talking about emotional the stories we tell ourselves that keep us stuck. It is helpful to see, feel, and let go of those emotions. Healing and growing from those challenging things we have experienced. Releasing the things that no longer serve a purpose in the present version of you. #emotionalbaggage #lettinggo #movingforward #mentalhealth

150 episodi

#Fitness #Mental Health #S Aschenbrenner

Emotional baggage

LX2 Codependency Coaching

published circa un anno fa

MP3•Pagina principale dell'episodio

150 episodi

#Fitness #Mental Health #S Aschenbrenner

Wszystkie odcinki

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Surrender 28:16

5 giorni fa28:16

28:16

Today, we are talking about Surrender and how helpful it is to just sit down sometimes. We are all dealing with so many things. It feels like overwhelmed, frustrated, sad, angry, afraid, and exhausted. One of the only ways to get through really hard times is to take a moment to surrender. Not give up, but slow down. Take care of your basic needs, breathe, make a plan, and then get up and keep doing. #anxiety #surrender #sitdown #takecareofyou…

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Mindset and assumptions 28:54

20 giorni fa28:54

28:54

Today, we are talking about the different mindsets. How we look at the world depending on our attitudes, beliefs, feelings, thoughts, and assumptions. We get to choose how we move through challenges by shifting our mindset or perspective. #mindsetmatters #intention #assumptions #experiences

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Generational trauma 29:18

27 giorni fa29:18

29:18

Today, we are talking about generational trauma. We can look back though our family lineage and see pattern of behavior. In order to change things for the better, it is important to understand context, history, and then makes changes in our own behavior. #generationaltrauma #knowoyourhistory #makeschanges #lessonsfromyourmother…

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Judgement 28:06

5 weeks fa28:06

28:06

Today, we are talking about judgement and how we are perceived. Sometime we need to check our own behavior and often we need to check who is doing the perceiving. We might need to change our environment to one where we can be our most authentic selves. #judgement #findyourpeople #selfawareness

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Emotional baggage 26:00

6 weeks fa26:00

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Imposter syndrome is an insult to the previous versions of ourselves 24:25

7 weeks fa24:25

24:25

Today we are talking about imposter syndrome. Often when we achieve big things we can often feel undeserving. It is an opportunity to validate previous versions of ourselves who did the hard work to get to us into those spaces. #deserving #impostersyndrome #hardwork #generationalhealing

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Resilience; the space between not knowing and knowing 28:07

9 weeks fa28:07

28:07

Today we are talking about resilience; the space from now knowing to knowing It can be uncomfortable and create anxiety. It can also create an opportunity to learn new skills and building trust in ourselves. #resilience #nowknowing #trustyourself #skillbuilding

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Getting through 30:28

10 weeks fa30:28

30:28

Today we are talking about getting though. Because right now, that's all we can manage. Make sure to do the big three: sleep, diet, and moving your body around. Taking care of you takes grace and compassion. #gettingthrough #giveyourselfgrace #roadtrips #goingthoughhell

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Conflict, communication, and connection 31:27

11 weeks fa31:27

31:27

Today we are talking about conflict. Understanding how you fight and what you're feeling. Also, coming back to the conversation is necessary. #conflict #redlipstick #communication #understanding #rulesofengagement

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Anger 28:09

12 weeks fa28:09

28:09

Today we are talking about anger. It is often said that anger is a secondary emotion. What is under the anger is usually fear, sadness, feeling disregarded, or not enough. Allow space to figure out what the feeling is. #anger #selfawareness, #70skid #genx #unhelpfulreactions #parenting

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Hay comida en la casa/We have food at home 29:36

14 weeks fa29:36

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Today we talking about validating and accepting our whole self. The phrase hay comida en la casa , meaning we have food at home. When we love our whole self first, we don't need to work as hard to get love from other people. #bridgetjones #haycomidaenlacasa #loveyourselffirst #lx2codependencycoachingpodcast…

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Character flaw and mental health 27:36

15 weeks fa27:36

27:36

Today, we are talking about seeing our struggles as character flaws. We often assume when we are struggling that something is wrong with us. It's not but that is how it feels. Shift the perspective to trusting yourself. You have gotten this far and you will get past this too. You are not broken. #characterflaw #mentalhealth #trustyourself #greatness…

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Intellectualizing v Feeling 29:33

16 weeks fa29:33

29:33

Today, we are talking about intellectualizing versus feeling in the process of growth. We process lots of information through out thoughts before allowing ourselves to feel it. It is important to be aware of the old narratives and stories we are using when we process. Growth and healing comes from allowing the stories to change. #newyear #change #feelings #thoughts #anxiety…

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Being Wrong 28:19

18 weeks fa28:19

28:19

Today we are talking about being wrong. How being wrong is a good place to be because it gives us a different perspective. We can learn a lot when we are wrong. #beingwrong #scientific method #relationships #bestintentionsthebook The podcast I was listening to was 10% Happier with Dan Harris and Sharon McMahon…

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Best laid plans and adjustment 25:33

19 weeks fa25:33

25:33

Today we are talking about plans and adjusting to those plans. Addressing the anxiety and discomfort that comes from changes to our plans. #planning #anxiety #controlwhatyoucan #attachments #trustyourself.

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Inner circle 30:02

38 weeks fa30:02

30:02

Today we are talking about who is in your inner circle of humans. Who do you feel safe and comfortable with. What those bonds are made of. We get to determine the level of closeness and vulnerablility we share with people. #innercircle #vulnerability #boundaries #community

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Assumption of suffering 27:45

39 weeks fa27:45

27:45

Today we are talking about the assumption of suffering as it relates to compassion and empathy. We are all going through our things; good, bad, or otherwise. If we can assume people are struggling, it is an opportunity to be kind to ourselves and others. #selfcompassion #suffering #expectations #grace #kindness…

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Life is not a zero sum game 29:06

40 weeks fa29:06

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Today we are talking about shift perspective from a zero sum absolutes mindset. It is not all or nothing, win or lose, love or hate, but something in between. When we can shift perspective and find a middle ground we are less likely to experience such distress or discomfort. #zerosumgame #detachment #5yearanniversary #x2thexennial #classof 91…

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Righteous Indignation 30:31

41 weeks fa30:31

30:31

Today we are talking about the idea "righteous" indignation. The idea of getting angry or frustrated on behalf of someone else. When we are frustrated or irritated about someone else's choices it is an opportunity to recognize what we can control. We can consider the idea that we disrupt our own peace by taking away someone else's ability to manage their own choices. #bugged #unfair #boundaries #detachment…

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Raised by sheep or wolves 29:28

42 weeks fa29:28

29:28

Today we are talking raising sheep or wolves. Thinking about using the opportunity to teach our precious children how to exist the world that can be dangerous. It is our job to teach our kids skills to be safe and secure on the planet where they can get their needs met without sacrificing themselves. #parenting #raisedbywolves #otherpeopleskids #puberty…

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Finding Gold 31:18

44 weeks fa31:18

31:18

Today we are talking about finding gold in your everyday rather than waiting for the "golden years" or "bucket list". Make a to do list and put gold in everyday. #findinggold #emotions #anxietyanddepression #eldorado #kintsugi

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The myth of happy and ability to experience joy 25:20

45 weeks fa25:20

25:20

Today we are talking about detaching form the myth of being happy and shifting to the feeling of experiencing joy in moments. Sustaining happiness all the time isn't possible. What we can do it experience joy in moments of regular. #happinessmyth #experiencejoy #momentbymoment #doyourbest #beautyinthemoment…

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Meaningful Relationships 28:27

46 weeks fa28:27

28:27

Today we are talking about the importance of meaningful relationships to our longevity and quality of our lives. Our human experience is motivated by connection. We connect with people all the time, creating meaningful connection helps us live well. #meaningfulreltaionships #friendships #buildingcommunity #lx2codependencycoachingpodcast #daringgrately #vulnerabiity…

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Blessings and lesson 26:34

47 weeks fa26:34

26:34

Today we are talking about the blessings and lessons we experience when we create the perspective of receiving. When we can start to be receiving of good things happening to us rather than waiting for negative things to happen. #blessingshappen #growthmindset #opportunity #lessons #whathappenedtoyou #trauma #mentalhealth #lx2codependencycoachingpodcast…

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Life is happening 30:24

48 weeks fa30:24

30:24

Life happens and we can get stuck in the why. We don't always know why this tough part of life is happening. It might just be the how. Controlling what we can gives a moment to take back power in the moment it can get easier. #controlwhatyoucan #wecandohardthings #lifehappens #getthroughthemoment #codependencypodcast…

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Paradoxical feelings and persistence 29:37

49 weeks fa29:37

29:37

Moving forward into our life can be difficult when we are feeling multiple things at the same time. Being human is allowing ourselves to feel our emotions and doing the business of living. We can get get passed the hard things. #whatareyoufeeling #mentalhealt #persistence #atlasoftheheart #growing #doitanyway…

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Having needs 29:18

50 weeks fa29:18

29:18

Today we are talking about having needs and who we are rely on to meet them. #needs #chosenfamily #mentalhealth #rhainacohen #lx2codependencycoachingpodcast #friendship

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Hard lessons and best teachers 30:22

51 weeks fa30:22

30:22

There are so many teachers in our lives. We learn lessons through out our lives. Many of the things we learn feel random but they are all teaching us the things we need to grow into the best version of ourselves. #lessons #bestteachers #growthmindset #unintendedlessons

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Self-sabotage as a form of self-harm 30:26

52 weeks fa30:26

30:26

We can get in our own way of our growth and progress. It is helpful to be aware of when we are triggered, what is motivating that, and how are we feeling about things. In learning new skills, we might get in our own way and have to restart. #mentalhealth #growth #selfsabotage #hurtingourselves

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Default settng 26:02

1 year fa26:02

26:02

Today we are talking about the default setting and shifting our perspective from our trauma to our growth setting. When we are learning new skills, we will default back to old skills. There are times when we are healing our old behaviors, its helpful to recognize old coping still exists. Integrating new skills takes time and it can be existing. We can benefit from not doing as much. #defaultsetting #oldskills #growthmindset #selflove #receiving…

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Perception 30:59

20 weeks fa30:59

30:59

Today we are talking about perception. How we are perceived in the world around us and how we perceive the world around us. #change #perception #bestintentionsthebook #socialmedia #concretekulture https://www.etsy.com/shop/ConcreteKulture

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Emotional Perspective 27:44

22 weeks fa27:44

27:44

Today we are talking about experiencing the world through our emotional perspective. Giving yourself grace and patience while you are having your emotions. Getting through tough experiences. #trustyourself #emotionalawareness #emotioalperspective #mentalhealth Get your copy of Best Intentions: The things we do for love https://bookstore.dorrancepublishing.com/products/best-intentions-the-things-we-do-for-love…

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Nurturing Relationships 29:34

23 weeks fa29:34

29:34

Today we are talking about nurturing relationships. Attending to the relationships you want to grow and evolve, especially the relationship with yourself. #growth #nurturing #relationships #bestintentionsthebook

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Control what you can, check your facts, and keep going 21:51

24 weeks fa21:51

21:51

Today we are talking about controlling what you can in the moment, checking your facts, and keep going. This past week was rough. Lots of emotions. We still have to do things. #postelection2024 #bigfeelings #bestintentionsthebook #mentalhealth #politicsaside

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When helping is not helpful 28:08

25 weeks fa28:08

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Today we are talking about when helping is not helpful. There are times we think we are helping and it makes things worse. It can be disempowering the person we are trying support. #nothelpful #resentment #needs #rescuing #helping #bestintentionsthethingswedoforlove https://bookstore.dorrancepublishing.com/products/best-intentions-the-things-we-do-for-love?_pos=1&_psq=best+int&_ss=e&_v=1.0…

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Communication skills for relationships 31:50

26 weeks fa31:50

31:50

Today we are talking about relationship communication. I go over a tool I use often to help clients build helpful communication skills. I use the 6 Steps to Great Communication by Cynthia Hansen https://lifeandbeautyweekly.com/2010/10/communication_skills/ #communication #relationships #skillbuilding #connection #lx2codependencycoachingpodcast…

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Emotional access, awareness, and availability 31:00

27 weeks fa31:00

31:00

Today we are talking about being able to access and process our own emotions. Emotional intelligence is about being aware of what we are feeling, authentically showing up, and have compassion for our emotional selves. #emotionalvulnerability #feelyourfeelings #emotionalawareness #newbook #bestintentions #greece #somaticemotions…

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Denial 29:10

29 weeks fa29:10

29:10

Today we are talking about denial and the things we refuse to look at. Often we avoid addressing things head on because we don't know what to do to change them. We don't know where to start. We start by acknowledging they exist. #denial #makingchanges #smallsteps #mentalhealth #elephantintheroom

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Distraction vs Detachment 29:28

30 weeks fa29:28

29:28

Today we are talking about distraction vs detachment. Often, when we are feeling tough emotions we want to distract ourselves in order not to feel. Whereas detachment might be a better move. Unattached from the outcomes but working through the feelings. #emotions #detachment #distractions #dothework #mentalhealth #lx2codependencypodcast…

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Satisfaction, suffering, and sacrifice 28:29

31 weeks fa28:29

28:29

Today we are talking about satisfaction, suffering, and satisfaction. We get to choose how much of those things we endure or get from life. We can manage our resources, create goals, and set boundaries to a better experience through life. #satisfaction #sacrifices #boundaries #betterlife #mentalhealth…

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Memory and rebuilding 26:30

32 weeks fa26:30

26:30

Today we are talking about memories and how we can change the narrative. We can recall something from a different perspective. We can create a better understanding of who have been and who are becoming. #memories #rebuilding #resilience #childhood

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Forgiveness, bridges, and napalm 30:50

34 weeks fa30:50

30:50

Today we are talking about forgiveness, bridges, and napalm. We get to determine the relationships that warrant forgiveness as it relates to our peace and access to our resources. Boundaries and bridges help keep us safe and maintain connection. #maintainpeace #forgiveness #burnorbuild #bridges #connection #lx2codependencypodcast…

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The big three: Food, exercise, and sleep 30:44

35 weeks fa30:44

30:44

Today we are talking about the big three things I talk to clients about often often to evaluate how they are feeling: Food, exercise, and sleep. All of these things have an effect on our mood and energy. #sleephygiene #foodmatters #moveyourbody #mentalhealth

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Motivation and the fuel we use 30:54

36 weeks fa30:54

30:54

Today are talking about motivation and fuel we use to get there. We can use lots of different things to drive us to change, healing, and growth. What fuel are you using and is it sustainable? #motivation #growth #change #beingnew

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Routine and rituals to manage anxiety 30:18

37 weeks fa30:18