Breaking the Chains of Stoicism for Authentic Connection with Ryan Speltz

Speaking Sessions

Join us for an eye-opening journey into the power of vulnerability with Ryan Speltz, an influential figure in the mortgage industry, as he dismantles the misconception that showing vulnerability is a weakness for men. Together, we delve deep into the strength and resilience that come from open communication, exploring Ryan's journey as a husband, soon-to-be father, author, and podcast host. Stripping away the facade, we candidly discuss the highs and lows that shape our internal dialogue and social impact. We highlight the importance of transparency in personal growth and community building, especially in platforms like Zoom that have revolutionized connectivity during challenging times.
As the conversation unfolds, we delve into the art of storytelling in personal growth and recovery, navigating the delicate balance between openness and discretion. Ryan shares invaluable insights on servant leadership, emphasizing the profound impact of serving others and fostering a sense of connection and support. Don't miss this inspiring and empowering discussion that challenges societal norms and encourages authenticity, reminding listeners that they are not alone in their journey toward self-discovery and personal growth.
NOTABLE QUOTES
"If you're not having people show up for your stuff, why don't you just try and do it virtually instead, that way, if they don't show up, you're already on the computer, you can get some work done or something instead." – Philip
"When we're strong enough in our own internal, it makes [us] stronger and it makes you appear stronger to the outside world." – Ryan
"There's always somebody out there that wants what you have. They want the information you have. They want the life that you have. There's always somebody there." – Ryan
"[Coaching is] not about being 10 or 20 steps ahead of somebody. It could be as little as one step ahead of somebody, but you're that one step ahead of that person that you can tell them how you got there." – Philip
"You are not alone. There's somebody else out there going through the same thing or that has gone through the same thing, so you're not the only one." – Ryan
“[Be] open, because other people can't.” – Ryan
"You're going to be able to help more people by posting the vulnerable stuff versus the [number] of people you get judged by for posting it." – Philip
“If someone's engaging with you [on social media], you are the one that makes it positive or negative by your response." – Ryan
"I'm now looking at [negative comments] as just another way for us to interact with an audience that we didn't know we had." – Ryan
"While you're going to get more negative comments, you're also going to get more positive comments.." – Philip
“The more you tell your story, the more strength comes into you, and the more you can share that power and not worry about it.” – Ryan
“When we start losing what we have, it [isn't] for us anyway.” – Ryan
“I'm doing the thing I'm supposed to be doing, but is it helping move the needle forward?” – Philip
“How do I serve first?” – Ryan
RESOURCES
Ryan
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kickbuttmortgageguy
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Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@kickbuttmortgageguy
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@onemansjourney22
Philip
Digital Course: https://www.speakingsessions.com/digital-course
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamphilipsessions/?hl=en
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@philipsessions
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/philip-sessions-b2986563/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/therealphilipsessions

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Capitoli

1. Ryan's background and personal info (00:00:00)

2. Understanding men's communication patterns (00:06:57)

3. Discovering strength in vulnerability (00:12:06)

4. Conquering fear of being vulnerable (00:15:54)

5. Empowering men by embracing vulnerability (00:22:08)

6. Finding balance in sharing personal stories (00:29:27)

7. Ryan's message for the rest of his life (00:37:25)

8. How to connect with Ryan (00:41:00)