042 跨性別的隱身Stealth決定

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今天Kai要來分享他如何從出櫃(coming out)變成隱身(Stealth)到再出櫃(coming out again)的心路歷程.也跟JayJay一起討論不管是哪個決定都是可以並且必須受到尊重.

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Look! No, don't! Transsexual men want to disappear because we are tired of being forced into categories, because we are beyond defending ourselves. Look! No, don't! Transsexual men are entering the dialogue from more perspectives, more angles, than were ever theorized as being possible for them. Maybe if we are ignored we will go away. Maybe if we are continually not permitted to speak, not allowed to define ourselves, not given any corner of the platform from which to present our realities, then we will disappear and refrain from further complicating all the neat, orderly theories about gender and sex. Maybe if no one looks at us we will be safe. At first I thought my transition was about not being looked at any longer, about my relief from scrutiny; now I know it is about scrutiny itself, about self-examination and about losing my own fear of being looked at, not because I can disappear, but because I am able to claim my unique difference at last. What good is safety if the price is shame and fear of discovery? So, go ahead: Look!

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