Ep. 107: How do You Find Your Soulmate

Unf*ck Your Life: Embrace Your Awesomeness

Welcome to the Un-fuck Your Life podcast with Lisa, the show that's all about embracing your awesomeness and unapologetically living your adventurous life. Today, we're diving into a topic that's been flooding Lisa's inbox lately: How to find your soulmate. If you've been wondering the same thing, you're in the right place.

First, Lisa advises you to grab a pen and paper or take some notes as we explore the three essential steps to finding your soulmate.

Step 1: Write Down Your Ideal Partner
Without holding back, jot down every trait, characteristic, and quality you desire in your soulmate. From physical appearance to personality traits, hobbies, and values, write down everything that comes to mind.

Step 2: Identify the Must-Haves and Nice-to-Haves
Now, it's time to sift through your list. Distinguish between the absolute must-haves and the nice-to-haves. The must-haves are non-negotiable, deal-breaker qualities that you cannot compromise on. The nice-to-haves are desirable but not critical.

Step 3: Recognize that You Already Possess These Qualities
Here's the game-changer: Understand that the qualities you seek in a soulmate are often a reflection of who you already are, deep down. Embrace and acknowledge these qualities within yourself. This step is about owning and validating your true self.

Once you've completed these three steps, it's time to get out there and start dating. Expand your dating pool, engage in meaningful conversations, and be open to meeting new people. Remember that finding your soulmate is a journey, not a sprint.

Lastly, Lisa hints at a special technique she can teach you to "call" your soulmate into your life. However, this step should only be taken after you've gone through the previous three steps and embraced your authentic self.

In conclusion, finding your soulmate is not about seeking perfection in someone else but recognizing and owning your own qualities. You are magical, worth it, and a delightful gift to the world. So, embrace your awesomeness and stay tuned for more life-changing insights from Lisa.

If you want to explore this topic further with Lisa, book a session at bookwithlisa.me, and be sure to follow this podcast for more transformative episodes. Until next time, this is Lisa, reminding you that you are radiating awesomeness. Bye-bye!