3477: How To Define Success For Yourself (no, but REALLY) by Sarah Von Bargen of Yes and Yes on Find Your Vision

Optimal Living Daily - Personal Development and Self-Improvement

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In this episode, we delve into the concept of being "qualified" in the workplace, examining who gets labeled as such, who doesn't, and the underlying reasons. We explore "competency checking"—the practice of scrutinizing individuals' abilities—and how it disproportionately affects underrepresented groups, often going unnoticed or unchallenged. Our discussion aims to redefine qualifications in a fair, equitable, and actionable manner. Our guest, Shari Dunn , is an accomplished journalist, former attorney, news anchor, CEO, university professor, and sought-after speaker. She has been recognized as Executive of the Year and a Woman of Influence, with her work appearing in Fortune Magazine, The Wall Street Journal, Ad Age, and more. Her new book, Qualified: How Competency Checking and Race Collide at Work , unpacks what it truly means to be deserving and capable—and why systemic barriers, not personal deficits, are often the real problem. Her insights challenge the narratives that hold so many of us back and offer practical solutions for building a more equitable future. Together, we can build workplaces and communities that don’t just reflect the world we live in, but the one we want to create. A world where being qualified is about recognizing the talent and potential that’s been overlooked for far too long. It’s not just about getting a seat at the table—it’s about building an entirely new table, one designed with space for all of us. Connect with Our Guest Shari Dunn Website& Book - Qualified: https://thesharidunn.com LI: https://www.linkedin.com/today/author/sharidunn TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesharidunn Related Podcast Episodes: How To Build Emotionally Mature Leaders with Dr. Christie Smith | 272 Holding It Together: Women As America's Safety Net with Jessica Calarco | 215 How To Defy Expectations with Dr. Sunita Sah | 271 Share the Love: If you found this episode insightful, please share it with a friend, tag us on social media, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! 🔗 Subscribe & Review: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Amazon Music…

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Episode 3477:

Sarah Von Bargen challenges the conventional definition of success, encouraging you to create your own based on what truly makes you happy. By questioning societal expectations and defining success in personal terms whether it’s financial stability, meaningful relationships, or simply getting enough sleep you make it both more attainable and fulfilling. Once you clarify your vision, small, intentional steps can bring it to life.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.yesandyes.org/2017/01/how-to-define-success-for-yourself.html

Quotes to ponder:

"If you can’t name it, you can’t claim it."

"When we actually, literally define what ‘success’ looks like to us, surprise! It’s a lot easier to feel successful."

"Once you know what success looks like for you, take a few tiny, doable steps to get closer."

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Optimal Living Daily - Personal Development and Self-Improvement

3477: How To Define Success For Yourself (no, but REALLY) by Sarah Von Bargen of Yes and Yes on Find Your Vision

Optimal Living Daily - Personal Development and Self-Improvement

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published circa un anno fa

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Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com.

Episode 3477:

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.yesandyes.org/2017/01/how-to-define-success-for-yourself.html

Quotes to ponder:

"If you can’t name it, you can’t claim it."

"When we actually, literally define what ‘success’ looks like to us, surprise! It’s a lot easier to feel successful."

"Once you know what success looks like for you, take a few tiny, doable steps to get closer."

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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3517: Where Personal Breakthroughs Really Come From by David Cain of Raptitude on How to Be Mindful 12:08

21 hours fa12:08

12:08

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com . Episode 3517: Personal breakthroughs don’t come from grand resolutions or sudden epiphanies but from small, consistent shifts in perspective and behavior. David Cain explores how real change emerges from everyday moments of clarity when we see familiar struggles in a new light and act accordingly. Progress happens not by force but by cultivating awareness and responding differently to the same old challenges. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.raptitude.com/2017/06/where-personal-breakthroughs-really-come-from/ Quotes to ponder: "Breakthroughs happen when something shifts in the way we see a problem, and we start responding to it differently." "When something isn't working, our impulse is to push harder in the same direction, instead of stepping back and reconsidering the approach itself." "The kind of insight that leads to real breakthroughs is usually subtle and unspectacular, but it makes a world of difference in how we move forward." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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3516: Screw Finding Your Passion by Mark Manson on How to Prioritize Life 14:03

2 giorni fa14:03

14:03

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com . Episode 3516: Mark Manson dismantles the myth of “finding your passion” by arguing that passion isn’t something to be discovered, it’s already there, hidden in what you naturally gravitate toward. The real obstacle isn’t a lack of passion but fear, expectations, and misplaced priorities. Instead of endlessly searching, start doing what excites you, even if it doesn’t seem practical at first. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://markmanson.net/screw-finding-your-passion Quotes to ponder: “If you have to look for what you’re passionate about, then you’re probably not passionate about it at all.” “The problem isn’t passion. It’s never passion. It’s priorities.” “A child does not walk onto a playground and say to herself, ‘How do I find fun?’ She just goes and has fun.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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3515: Are You Doing The Clutter Shuffle? by Kerri Richardson How to Create Mental Space 9:44

3 giorni fa9:44

9:44

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com . Episode 3515: Moving clutter from one spot to another might feel like progress, but Kerri Richardson reveals why this “Clutter Shuffle” is actually a form of avoidance. Whether it’s an emotional attachment, decision fatigue, or the illusion of organization, she offers practical steps to break the cycle, sorting with intention, finding true storage solutions, and journaling through resistance. Freeing yourself from clutter isn’t just about tidying up; it’s about clearing mental space and aligning your environment with the life you want. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://kerririchardson.com/cluttershuffle/ Quotes to ponder: “It’s time to get off this merry-go-round because, frankly, it’s anything but merry.” “Out of sight is not out of mind with clutter. It’s always playing somewhere in the back of your mind, so be sure you only keep that which you love, need, or use.” “Holding space for and giving voice to your resistance is crucial in dealing with stubborn clutter.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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3514: How to Stay Informed Without Losing Your Mind by Nir Eyal of Nir And Far on Mental Wellbeing 11:13

4 giorni fa11:13

11:13

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com . Episode 3514: Staying informed without feeling overwhelmed is possible with the right approach. Nir Eyal shares strategies to filter out noise, focus on high-quality information, and take control of your media consumption. By applying these techniques, you can stay updated without sacrificing your mental well-being or productivity. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.nirandfar.com/how-to-stay-informed-without-losing-your-mind/ Quotes to ponder: "You are what you consume, and consuming junk makes you feel like junk." "Too much information can actually make us less informed by overwhelming our ability to process and retain what matters." "If you don’t make time to think, you’ll always be reacting instead of reflecting." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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3513: Become Happy in the Face of Physical Misery by Leo Babauta Personal Growth and Gratitude 11:21

4 giorni fa11:21

11:21

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com . Episode 3513: Leo Babauta explores the ways we create our own misery and how we can break free from it. By clinging to expectations, resisting discomfort, and dwelling on negative narratives, we amplify our suffering. Shifting our mindset, accepting reality, embracing uncertainty, and practicing gratitude can help us cultivate peace and joy instead. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://zenhabits.net/misery/ Quotes to ponder: "We create our own misery by wishing things were different, by fearing what might come, by clinging to expectations." "The truth is, reality is just as it is. Wishing it were different doesn’t help us, it only makes us unhappy." "Gratitude changes everything when we appreciate what’s in front of us, we no longer need things to be different." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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3512: Top Question About Lifestyle Design by Stephen Warley of Life Skills That Matter How to Build New Habits 11:39

5 giorni fa11:39

11:39

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com . Episode 3512: Stephen Warley explains why lifestyle design typically takes 18 months or longer, emphasizing the need to reframe your mindset, build new habits, and confront personal challenges. While the journey requires effort, the reward is a more fulfilling, purpose-driven life that maximizes your energy and potential. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://lifeskillsthatmatter.com/about-lifestyle-design/ Quotes to ponder: "You may not like where you’ve ended up, but this is the life you’ve currently designed for yourself." "Your lifestyle is the sum of your habits and your decisions." "Either you are going to be stressed out for the rest of your life because you are not living and working in alignment with who you are or you can be stressed out for a couple of years building the life you’ve always wanted." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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3511: 5 Effective Stress Relief and Mindset Tools That Really Work by Kristen Butler with Live Happy 12:51

6 giorni fa12:51

12:51

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com . Episode 3511: Kristen Butler shares how these practices transformed her life, offering actionable steps to break free from chronic stress and embrace a happier, healthier lifestyle. Whether you’re feeling overwhelmed or just looking for ways to boost your well-being, these science-backed strategies can help you reset, recharge, and thrive. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://livehappy.com/5-effective-stress-relief-and-mindset-tools-that-really-work Quotes to ponder: "By consciously practicing deep breathing, you activate the parasympathetic nervous system, thereby guiding yourself back into your comfort zone where you feel more safe." "You can write your affirmations or you can use them as auto suggestions by listening to the recordings of affirmations during the day or before bed and reading your affirmations throughout the day." "Stepping outside, immersing yourself in sunshine, and breathing in the fresh air can have a transformative effect on your well-being." Episode references: Atlas of the Heart: https://www.amazon.com/Atlas-Heart-Meaningful-Connection-Experience/dp/0399592555 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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3510: Committing to No Commitments by Colin Wright of Exile Lifestyle on Self Improvement 9:14

7 giorni fa9:14

9:14

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com . Episode 3510: Colin Wright shares how this approach helped him avoid restrictive contracts, reassess priorities, and make more intentional choices. While not for everyone, this lifestyle experiment offers an alternative to the traditional long-term commitments that often dictate finances, relationships, and living situations. Read along with the original article(s) here: http://exilelifestyle.com/committing-commitments/ Quotes to ponder: “Think back to who you were and what you were doing with your life two years ago. Are you the same person with the same needs?” “If you want to give it a shot, do what you can to eliminate existing commitments from your life and don’t accept any new ones beyond a certain span of time. It’s that simple.” “This kind of lifestyle comes with limits, but they’re far less invasive than the limits you remove.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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3509: How to Have the Best Day, Every Day, in 60 Minutes by Elizabeth Stacey Ellis with Mark Fisher Fitness 10:33

8 giorni fa10:33

10:33

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com . Episode 3509: Elizabeth Stacey Ellis shares a simple yet powerful 60-minute system to create the best day possible, every day. By identifying meaningful activities, committing to intentional time blocks, and granting yourself grace in the process, you can start each morning feeling energized, focused, and in control. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://markfisherfitness.com/best-day-every-day-60-minutes/ Quotes to ponder: "You simply need a morning routine. This tool is popular among highly successful people, including Barack Obama, Anna Wintour, and Mark Zuckerberg." "Lean into the discomfort. It’s okay if this feels hard at first. Any big change requires a little elbow grease." "Remember that tending to yourself every single morning helps you to better serve others throughout your day. After all, you have to fill your cup first in order to fill that of others!" Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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3508: How to Prioritize by Steve Pavlina on Productivity 14:17

9 giorni fa14:17

14:17

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com . Episode 3508: Steve Pavlina introduces the CARVER method, a military-inspired framework that evaluates tasks based on six key factors: Criticality, Accessibility, Return, Vulnerability, Effect, and Recognizability. By assigning numerical values to each factor, you can create a clear prioritization system, ensuring that your time and energy are spent on the most impactful projects. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://stevepavlina.com/blog/2007/05/how-to-prioritize/ Quotes to ponder: "By using a simple system like CARVER, you’ll know which projects are important enough to deserve your attention and which are, relatively speaking, a waste of your time and energy." "The point of CARVER is to select a reasonably intelligent project and then get into action. Don’t lose yourself in hours of analysis paralysis." "You want to make the greatest amount of progress towards your goals with the least amount of effort." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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3507: Of Course It's Unreasonable, Dummy by Joshua Fields Millburn of The Minimalists on Personal Growth 10:01

10 giorni fa10:01

10:01

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com . Episode 3507: Joshua Fields Millburn reflects on his own transformation, showing how true contentment isn’t found in status or possessions but in relationships, growth, and meaningful pursuits. Letting go of societal expectations may seem unreasonable, but that’s precisely what makes an extraordinary life possible. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.theminimalists.com/unreasonable/ Quotes to ponder: "Being unhappy and discontent is completely reasonable within our society. We see it every day." "Until you focus on what’s important, until you focus on what’s going on inside you, you won’t be happy." "I’d rather be extraordinarily unreasonable and content and happy. I’d rather live a meaningful, albeit unreasonable, life." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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3506: How To Build Habits Like An Entrepreneur by Anthony Ongaro of Break The Twitch 9:54

11 giorni fa9:54

9:54

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com . Episode 3506: Anthony Ongaro draws parallels between habit formation and the Lean Startup Methodology, emphasizing the power of minimally viable actions (MVAs) to create sustainable change. By starting with simple, repeatable actions, testing their effectiveness, and pivoting when necessary, you can develop habits that stick and lead to meaningful, long-term results. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.breakthetwitch.com/build-habits/ Quotes to ponder: "It’s not about building the best habit in one day; it’s about doing something you will be able to repeat tomorrow, and the day after that." "Taking your minimally viable action and pivoting when it’s not working will lead you to what ends up working." "Each little step adds up to something far greater over time." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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3505: Why It’s Time to Start Being Selfish by Eric Ungs with No Sidebar on Self-Improvement 11:01

11 giorni fa11:01

11:01

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com . Episode 3505: Eric Ungs challenges the notion that selfishness is inherently negative, arguing that prioritizing our well-being fosters deeper relationships, meaningful work, and a more fulfilled life. By peeling back societal expectations and nurturing our inner truth, we create space for genuine connection, purpose, and creativity. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://nosidebar.com/being-selfish/ Quotes to ponder: "To be alive is the biggest fear humans have. Death is not the biggest fear we have; our biggest fear is taking the risk to be alive, the risk to be alive and express what we really are." "Being selfish, not in the egotistic feed the bad wolf kind of way, but the self-care kind, is the foundation to seeking your true self." "When you take care of yourself first, you give your best self to others." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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3504: Doing What it Takes Versus Taking What You Already Know How to Do by Cal Newport 10:36

12 giorni fa10:36

10:36

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com . Episode 3504: Cal Newport highlights Eric Betzig’s unconventional path to a Nobel Prize to reveal a key insight, real success comes from doing what it takes, not just refining what we already know. He challenges us to stop making safe tweaks and start taking bold steps toward true breakthroughs. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://calnewport.com/doing-what-it-takes-versus-taking-what-you-already-know-how-to-do/ Quotes to ponder: "When Eric Betzig wanted to return to academia, he asked, 'what would this take?' The answer was daunting, a breakthrough too good to be ignored, but nonetheless he hustled to make it happen." "We take what we can do, in other words, instead of facing the reality of what it would take to get where we want to go." "I also suspect that one of the main filters between those who end up changing the world and those who don’t is how they answer this unavoidable prompt." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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3503: Habit Stacking to Make Routines that Stick by Cara Harvey of A Purpose Driven Mom 9:21

13 giorni fa9:21